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Gender: Male
Location: Winnipeg MB
Occupation: school
Age: 13
Member Since: April 25, 2005
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ok, my ex-girlfriend & I broke up a while ago, & for a while we didn't speak, but now we do & were really good friends, well, she just got out of another realationship (I think shes in this 1 2 get that guy jellious) & again, shes with someone else (I've been with anotehr person since her & I broke up, but now that other girl & I are broken up, but were good friends too) & hes really gross & perverted, & hes really tall & really strong, well, she can just be lead into anything any one wants, & expeshally when she wants to keep a relationship, & hes very good at convicing people to do things, well, he makes her touch certain areas & then he shoves his hand down her skirt, well, he told her & some other people that he wanted to have sex on there 1st date, & she said no, but they way he is, he might rape her or convince her to have sex...

what should I do? (link)
ok for one thing if he does than call the cops on him but make sure you don't get beatin up in the process of saveing your ex


My parents have officially said that I can have the name as "going out" with someone. There's this guy I've had my eye on for a while, but he has turned me down on several occasions. We're not exactly friends, and I haven't exactly asked him out. He knows I like(d) him and he's kinda weirded out by it. At the next dance should I ask him to dance?

(oh, I'm 13/f) (link)
i'm 13/m but it dosn't matter

ya u should totaly ask him to dance


Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much! (link)
just relax and don't freak out if he starts to avoid you then he totaly doesn't like you if he stays around and hugs you alot then stay with him but if he gets a little to happy with the huging and stuff just say back of dude

i am a dude but my friends who are girls say i give good advice good luck


ok i'm really good friends with this guy, and we have been friends for almost two years, and friends with benefits since february. we decided that we weren't gonna try to go out (i'm 17, he's 16). recently he got a girlfriend, but things aren't goin that well between them. i tutor him twice a week, and recently he tried to hit on me and stuff like that (we stopped the benefits when he got his girlfriend). he says he's gonna break up with her, but i don't want to do anything with him until they've actually broken up. how do i get him to understand that without being mean or making him think that i want them to break up? (link)
next time he trys it just a=say dude don't you still have a gf


I like this guy.. we hardly ever talk but I still like him.. what to do? (link)
talk to him more than bust out the question



ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used? (link)
ya you got used by an ass my cousin is the same way don't worry just forget about him


On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time! (link)
if you went to third base no wonder you still like sounds like a major dude but you could allways tell him you still like him and if any rumors spread who cares


Er. This is a long one. Sorry about that.

Ever since last year, I've liked this guy. There's no specific reason, I mean, we didn't have a lit in common THEN, but I guess we do now. And there was a dance at the end of last year. I was just dancing with my friends, but my friends felt bad for me, so they asked him to dance with me. (his name is Zach) I never even really wanted to, [I'm really super shy] and he had a girlfriend. So I was totally fine with him not dancing with me. But...my friends asked him, and I never even knew that they did until he walked over and gave me the "I like you, but only as a friend" speech. And yada, yada, yada. All I know is I spent the whole night crying. Not at the dance. I'm not one who likes to cry in front of the person who made me cry. So when I got home, I spent the whole night crying.

Early this year, I wrote him a letter apologizing for what my friends had done. I didn't want to annoy him, so when he asked for no more letters, I didn't write him any. Until he got a letter in his locker that read "I want u I need u oh baby oh baby" And he threw it at me, thinking it wa smy note sent to him. Well, it was sent by this girl named Amanda, who we think likes Zach too.

So I wrote him a note. Like I said, I am shy, and since he was mad at me, I didn't know what else to do. [Was this a good descision?] I was just saying that I didn't write the last letter [The oh baby one] and he believed me. Zach broke up, and got another girlfriend. And all was well. We were friends.

But now we have more in common, and he doesn't have a girlfriend. Should I take the kill, risking rejection for the up-teenth time? Or should I just go for his friend who I think likes me? I like them both pretty well equally. I wouldn't say the same thing if it was last year, but I've gotten a lot more lienent with guys since then. I've also realized that Zach and I are probably never going to happen. What should I do?

I'm trying to be wise with the signoff...

♥ *ad0rkable* ♥ (link)
ok don't worry if he likes you as a friend then thats fine it dosn't matter don't make yourself fell bad i'm a dude and i know what its like being turned down by someone


Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...? (link)
ok for one thing yor mom sounds mean and i know what you meen anyway you should not break up with him if you think he's nice you should invite him over for like a movie or something and inroduce him to your mom then she'll see how nice he is

good luck with the dude


Ok i am 13 and i am a female. Ok well i went out with my really good friend about 2 months ago, well recantally he broke up with this girl who didnt like me and i had no clue who she was like i new her name but i had no clue who she was. well i like him again but see some of my friends tell me to just forget it and stop likeing him, but see i cant because hes always so nice and he messes with me and stuff and its so hard not to like him. and i want him to still mess with me but i just dont want to like him. or i want to like him but i just want him to like me back. do you have any advice on what i should do? (link)
ok this dude if you like him just tell him that you do but you just want to be friends if he does like you you could allways flirt with him and he might flirt back anyway thats my answer.

good luck with the dude


I've been thinking alot about my career that i want to pursue, and I happen to love the french language. I was thinking about some jobs i could have by speaking different languages, but i'm just not sure. Does anybody know of any jobs i could possibly have by doing what i love? Thanks!

Janine (link)
flight attendant


Im gonna buy my boyfriend some stuff for his birthday, but then i also want to make him something creative. I have no idea what to do! Can someone please help me???!?! (link)
well you can allways make him like a bracelet or neckless if he's that kind of guy


Ok heres the problem. When im out with my friends i tend to sweat a lot more than i do when i'm just sitting at my house. Is this because im nervous? I obviously use deodorant so i dont have to care about the smell but the problem is it always leaves sweat marks like you know it goes through your shirt and you can see it. I tried putting tissues under my shirt to stop it from being noticable but it did nothing! Please help!!!!!! (link)
all you have to do is just relax or were a sweat shirt




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