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not good with boyfriends
Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much!
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Well. You seem to have answered your own question. Let things happen.
Everytime you get paranoid, remind yourself "He likes me. If he didn't, he wouldn't still be with me."
Also, when y'all start going out, tell him that if he ever stops liking you to just end it. I do that, and it saves a lot of peace of mind. Then you can be sure he's not hanging on to be nice.
A nice straightforward "You still like me, right?" is also helpful. As long as you don't ask every five minutes. ;)
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well first you need to calm down...and remember they wouldn't ask you out in the first place if they didn't like you...most guys wouldn't stay with you if they are unhappy...soo when you get a boyfriend just forget about him not caring for you and have fun with him..if he does break up with you its his loss...
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just talk to him alot and get to know him and listen to the nice things he says to you, and you'll probably think he lieks u, hope i helped!xox
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Ok...boys wouldnt ask you out just to be nice! They ask you out because they like you. And they would dump you if they didnt want to stay with you! Guys ask you out because they think you are imaculate! Be yourself because thats what they like! asHleyx3
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Guys wouldn't be with you if they didnt like you so they obviously do! just remember that and you will be fine! hope i helped you
luv shelly
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just relax and don't freak out if he starts to avoid you then he totaly doesn't like you if he stays around and hugs you alot then stay with him but if he gets a little to happy with the huging and stuff just say back of dude
i am a dude but my friends who are girls say i give good advice good luck
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Trust me guy's don't stay with any girl just to be nice. If he is with you, he likes you. Nothing to freak about! :)
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okay first things first. Like someone else said, the first step is admitting that you have a problem. it`s definately a good thing that you realize what you`re doing. Now you just have to take a look at things. If you keep freakin out, you`re gonna ruin every potential relationship that you`ll ever have. then you`ll die a lonely person, and that sucks. Ovbiouslly if a guy wants to date you, and you know he likes you then don`t stress yourself out. If stuff doesn`t work out between you two, then he`s not the right one. The more you make yourself think these things, the worse you`re gonna make yourself feel, and the more you`re gonna make yourself look like an idiot to guys that are interested.
*good luck hun!
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Okay realize that if he asks you out it means he likes you and hes just not being nice andthat he wants to call you his own. Whenever you feel unconfident and feel like he is only being nice remember that.
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Well you can think about it or you could do what everybody else does like hang wit him and if you don't feel comfortable then you could hang wit him with really close friends so they could encourge you, give you some help along the way.
Or maybe that was a sign that you really didn't like these uy's or they were not right for you maybe this one will be different on it's own.
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haha I do the same thing, its really lame, because it totally makes the relationship mess up. I would just try and not to worry about it, because think about it would you stay with some guy for a really long time just to be nice, no probably not because it would suck for you. And usually guys are more selfish, they aren't going to stay with you only to be nice cause then they aren't getting anything out of it, a guys not going to stay with you if he doesn't want to. So don't worry about it and have fun!
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