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to date or not to date
My parents have officially said that I can have the name as "going out" with someone. There's this guy I've had my eye on for a while, but he has turned me down on several occasions. We're not exactly friends, and I haven't exactly asked him out. He knows I like(d) him and he's kinda weirded out by it. At the next dance should I ask him to dance?
(oh, I'm 13/f)
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I say go for it and ask your guy to dance with you. It's worth a try. If he says no, don't be heartbroken...just ask him to be your friend. That way you can get to know each other better and maybe flirt a little bit together. You know they always say that a good relationship starts with a good friendship.
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I hope this helps
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well by dancing with him, it doesnt mean you are going out or are planning on going out with him so get to be his friend (your 13, you have time) and go ahead and ask him to dance. if he turns you down dance with other guys...lots and lots of them! lol just have a good time and if he rejects you, its his loss. <3
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i dont think your gonna want to hear this but its my oppinion so w.e. if he is weird about you asking him out hes most likely gonna be weird about dancing with you. he probably doesnt share feelings. i get rejected alot. obviously you arent his type or something. try to get more friendly with him before you ask him out. you dont want to be rejected in front of everyone at the dance do you?
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dont worry but just dont go chasing him if u just act like your friends after a few weeks u can ask 2 go out i am 13/m i know all about it
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Sure go ahead and ask him! If he turns u down, try again at the next dance. Keep trying until he finaly wants to 'go out' with you.
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well, just do what you want to do.it is your choose if you like him you should becacuse it might bring you closer to him.
hope you do this.
harpergirl
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i'm 13/m but it dosn't matter
ya u should totaly ask him to dance
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anonymous -
There's no harm in asking, but after your numerous attempts to get at him, I think it's safe to say he doesn't like you. You wouldn't want to increase that awkwardness, so I'd probably advise for you to move on to someone else who likes you as much as you like him.
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I don't see why you couldn't ask him to dance. If he doesn't want to fine, but you can ask anyway. If he won't dance with you...give up on him and concentrate on someone else. :)
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There are plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes, guys just aren't into certain people. He's obviously got an issue. I'm sure you're a very pretty and sweet girl, you just need to find the right guy. Sometimes, it's the guy you least expect. Any secret admirers lately that you hadn't thought about? Try making friends with another guy and maybe that'll lead to something. Or maybe there's a guy friend that you never thought of as "boyfriend-material". Need more advice? My inbox is always open.
Girl Behind The Lipgloss,
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i think you should try and get someone else -- dont get hung up on this guy afterall he did say no to you a couple of times
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If he knows that you like him and he turned you down in several occasions then maybe he's distancing himself from you. What's his age? is his age the same as yours or not? If he is older then maybe he's uncomfortable with the fact that a younger is liking him or maybe he doesn't want to be with you. To avoid embarrassments, maybe you should look at his body language when he's around. You'll know when he likes you too if he changes he's attitude when you're around. If he's sending signals that he likes you too then maybe that's the time you'll ask him to dance.
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Wow. Uhm, I would say if you've noticed that he's been standing aRound the entiRe evening, then it would be the time to give it a shot, but peRsonally, I wouldn't do it up until that point. Hope this helps!!
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