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Hi. My name is Kiara. I'm a girl.I live in Texas. My favorite sport is dance. I love shopping, dance, hanging out with friends, swimming, and water gun fights.If you need help, I'm always here for you. If you don't want it posted in front of everyone you can IM me, but be sure to specify who you are.

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Last Update: July 23, 2005
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i hvae one of those huge whitehead pimples on my cheek, and is it easier to put make-up on it if i pop it, or if i let it stay big? and what can i do to make it go away faster? i don't need any products, just should i pop it or wash it or leave it alone?

umm..pop it.

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im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever!

This is what I would do: Get a burger or chicken and force yourself to eat it. Don't make a face or anything. Or...
Don't eat anything and say you're watching your figure. I hope I helped!!

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Ok,i have this friend Lilly. I really like lilly..she was there when i first moved and stuff. We had a group -- Me Lilly Sarah Ali and Chelsea. We all split up. I tore away from the group,because although lilly was nice for a while,she became mean and rude,and she ignored me.Well we were okay/good friends for a while. But we got into a fight..and it all went down hill. i feel like now that im not her friend,theres something missing in my heart. she used to be a true and nice friend..but we fought about something so stupid..Ex of what she dose-- Ali called me and i think Lilly was over. Ali asked me if she could call me back in 30 min,and i heard lilly say "more like 5 hrs" in the back round. It was kinda rude. and Lilly has done a lot more mean things. So i dont no why i feel missing inside!! Should i say sorry to Lilly? or should i just leave her?I dont know why i feel this way
*i rate to 5*
*sorry this is so long*

aww thats sad!! I think you should confront her about how you feel. If she ignores you or makes a big deal out of it walk away. Whatever you do, DON'T GET EVEN. It gets YOU in trouble. I've been there!!!You prolly feel empty inside because you know that she has changed and you miss your best friend. Hope I helped ya!

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My parents have officially said that I can have the name as "going out" with someone. There's this guy I've had my eye on for a while, but he has turned me down on several occasions. We're not exactly friends, and I haven't exactly asked him out. He knows I like(d) him and he's kinda weirded out by it. At the next dance should I ask him to dance?

(oh, I'm 13/f)

Sure go ahead and ask him! If he turns u down, try again at the next dance. Keep trying until he finaly wants to 'go out' with you.

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I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do??

Ok tell her you still like her but you aren't sure what she thinks of you. Ask her if she still likes you and if she honestly says no then just move on. But, if she says yes, keep going until the end of the track sif you know what i mean. Good luck!


~Reara~

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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13?

Heck yeah it's possible! If you REALLY like this guy, well then wait for a year when his momma comes around, and then date him. Get to know him better than you do now. See if he's the guy you think he is. And if not, keep trying. You'll keep looking until you're old enough to get married so then the dude you find then will be the oerson you want to spend the rest of your life with. Hope i helped!

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My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I

Well, your friend's birthday only comes once a year. You have softball alot. I'm not gonna make the dissision for you, but , I would get my coach's permission to go to the party.

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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering

Well if you find someone you really like, ask them out. Keep your mind on work more than getting a boyfriend. Guys don't want girls with hollow brains! Study in both books.(dating and school) Good luck finding Mr.Right!

~Reara~

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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????

Please help me?????

19...Female

That's totally normal! That's how i am with my best friend. We're always together and always hanging out. I know what you're thinking. You aren't weird at all. That's what the best in best friend means. Your favorite person in the world.

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Hi.. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 8 months now. His birthdays coming up and i have no clue what to get him. Mine just past and he got my soo much nice stuff. Hes into skateboarding and stuff like that but im really having trouble on deciding what to buy. If you have any ideas.. Please let me know!! THANKS!

I would get him a really nice skateboard and some posters of his favorite band or something. Maybe buy him some CD's or DVD's buy him something he's always wanted. Or to show him how much you care maybe you could have a romantic candle lit dinner or something classy. Be creative!

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ok sry this is long but i really need help. ok im in 7th grade and this year i met my best friend ever hes likt the best person you will ever meet. his name is james and he is in 8th grade. we have been so close since the begining of the year and like we would call eachother evry day and talk for like an hour. and liek he is a realy hott guy so yeah he has had gf's like only 3 this year so far bc they r long relationships but recently he asked out one of my friends and like now if they get in a fight they blame it on me and all this other junk and like now he hardly calls me nemore liek maybe once a week if even that and liek if they r together then he like barley talks to me he ignores me and he never did that with any of his other gf's and like i dont noe wat to do bc im losing my best friend and i honeslty can live without him. so pls help me what do i do. thnks

All you need to do is tell him what you just told me. He will understand if he's a good friend. If he gets mad, you don't need him. And it's okay if i's long ;-)

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