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Friendship problem
Ok,i have this friend Lilly. I really like lilly..she was there when i first moved and stuff. We had a group -- Me Lilly Sarah Ali and Chelsea. We all split up. I tore away from the group,because although lilly was nice for a while,she became mean and rude,and she ignored me.Well we were okay/good friends for a while. But we got into a fight..and it all went down hill. i feel like now that im not her friend,theres something missing in my heart. she used to be a true and nice friend..but we fought about something so stupid..Ex of what she dose-- Ali called me and i think Lilly was over. Ali asked me if she could call me back in 30 min,and i heard lilly say "more like 5 hrs" in the back round. It was kinda rude. and Lilly has done a lot more mean things. So i dont no why i feel missing inside!! Should i say sorry to Lilly? or should i just leave her?I dont know why i feel this way
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*sorry this is so long*
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Hey,
That Lilly girl.....is rude. Dont say sorry to her, you have done nothin wrong except be her friend. You are so nice....Ex, shes bein rude to you and you still find it in your heart to be nice to her, forgive her and still like to be her friend. Just leave her alone still be friends with the other girls but meet new ppl. Ignore Lilly.....that will show her the great friend that she has lost. She doesnt deserve you as a friend. The reason why you feel the way you do is because you love her (as a friend)....and you care about her. i hope i've helped. If you need more advice plz email me.....XOXO......GOOD LUCK!
*Gorda*
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I think you should talk with her before you write her off completely. Ask her straight out why she has had a change of attitude towards you.
If she can't come up with a good enough answer...then don't worry about her any more. I don't know what your fight was about. If you were in the wrong, then of course you apologize. If you were not then don't apologize for speaking the truth. There are plenty of people in this world, if one doesn't like you I think you will be okay without the headache, don't you?
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thats not rude at all hun. deal with it.
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No offense honey, but she sounds kinda bitchy to me. I think you should just leave her, you said yourself that shes mean. I know that it is hard, but try to forget about her and get some friends that will truly respect and treat you properly, the way you deserve.
This thing missing in your heart could be because you are missing that closest friend space that lilly filled. Just be yourself and you'll have that space filled in no time!!
However, and this may be off track, perhaps your longing for a boyfriend. Does it sound right? If so, smile, be confident and yet again yourself and they'll be queing up to date you. There are plenty of hot guys out there, just waiting to be able to snap you up lol.
Good luck honey and stay strong
Claire xx
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Wow! Same thing happened to me! I know it feels like something is missing, but wait for HER to come to YOU! you don't need these people! you never did anything wrong! you should branch out and try to make some new friends who actually care about you, you feel like part of you is missing because you feel safe with someone who has known you so long, but eventually, you'll be forced into environments without her anyways, so it'd better to learn to stand by yourself now than wait. If she apologizes to you, there's no reason to be mad, but honestly consider what kind of friends these people are...
Good Luck!
Jersey
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aww thats sad!! I think you should confront her about how you feel. If she ignores you or makes a big deal out of it walk away. Whatever you do, DON'T GET EVEN. It gets YOU in trouble. I've been there!!!You prolly feel empty inside because you know that she has changed and you miss your best friend. Hope I helped ya!
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