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wat do i do im losing my best friend to a girl.
ok sry this is long but i really need help. ok im in 7th grade and this year i met my best friend ever hes likt the best person you will ever meet. his name is james and he is in 8th grade. we have been so close since the begining of the year and like we would call eachother evry day and talk for like an hour. and liek he is a realy hott guy so yeah he has had gf's like only 3 this year so far bc they r long relationships but recently he asked out one of my friends and like now if they get in a fight they blame it on me and all this other junk and like now he hardly calls me nemore liek maybe once a week if even that and liek if they r together then he like barley talks to me he ignores me and he never did that with any of his other gf's and like i dont noe wat to do bc im losing my best friend and i honeslty can live without him. so pls help me what do i do. thnks
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Tell him what you just told me. He might not realise how much he's alienating you. Call him up, tell him to listen, no interruptions, and tell him everything you're feeling. It should fix the problem, but even if it doesn't, at least it won't be your fault that it doesn't, because you tried. Hope I helped.
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first of all, don't use the word "like" so much please! and second i've been in this situation with a friend of mine, his girlfriend obviously sees you as a threat to their relationship. it's not a big deal, she'll get over it. he on the other hand you need to tell him that if he can't talk to you when she's around then how good is your friendship really?
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I am soo sorry to hear that. That must really suck. Maybe his girlfriend is having some sort of influence on him. Maybe she doesn't want you guys to be friends and he is listening to her. Talk to him or her or both (whoever) about it and tell them how you feel and that your upset you guys are drifting away. Hope I've helped! Good luck!
-Brianna
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Hi gorgeous!
Awe, I'm sorry! This sucks. Well really there is only one thing you can do. Talk to him about it. Be like "James, I don't wanna lose you as a best friend because you mean so much to me but it seems like we are losing our friendship since you've been with ________( girlfriend's name!) and I hate it. Do you feel like we've been losing each other too? Or what's up? Is something going on?" Maybe something else in his life is distracting him, it might not be the girl. Just talk it out and if he still doesn't do anything or he doesn't see any difference there isn't much you can do babe. I'm sorry. It will hurt to lose a best friend but there isn't much else you can do! The best of luck!
Love always,
Lauren
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All you need to do is tell him what you just told me. He will understand if he's a good friend. If he gets mad, you don't need him. And it's okay if i's long ;-)
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You need to ask him why he is doing this. Tell them both you are not going to take sides if they have a fight. He may see you as being on her side...set the record straight. :)
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Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and whats on your mind. It may not be easy to do but once you get going its like opening a can of worms. Things like this happen all the time which is really sad. But its just how things work.
When I had my GF I stoped talking to my good friends. Then she dumped me after 16 month relationship and I was like... WHOA WHERE ARE ALL MY FRIENDS! Bring up to his attention that you have been good friends for a long time and to throw it all away because he just met someone is silly. Relationships come and go but best friends are forever.
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