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getting punished for being small
I have just came back to school after my 2 weeks off and these girls are pushing me around and calling me names, they only ever stop when my friends are there im not fat nd spotty im just small is there a crime in being small?? caz i feel lke dere iz... and soon my m8s are all going on a holiday to france wiv the skool and we didnt have enought money as my mam and dad have just split up, plz help me i am down and depressed :(!
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it's got nothing to do with you being small, unless of course they are all fat, then they are just jealous, there's really nothing you can do other than take it, in school there will always be someone who's going to pick on you, and that'll never change
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aww dont worry about..it will pass i have no advice exept keeping your head up dont midn them i mean you being small obviously effected their lives just by your existence..thats pretty sad how they care so much about somethign that has nothing to do with them..dont worry about it just have fun cuz you have one life and you shouldnt waste it like they are xOx
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First off there isn't a crime to being small. I should know, I'm very small for my age. I'm over 21 and I'm 5'2 and weigh 95 pounds. If people are pushing you around and calling you names try to ignore them. When they say things like that say to yourself that they are talking about themselves and they are saying things like that because they feel insecure about themselves.
Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~
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Aww, being small isn't bad at all. As long as you eat and whatever, there is deff. nothing wrong with you! Just ignore those girls, they sound like bitches. Get a job to try to pay for the trip to France. I'm sorry to hear about your situation!
-Brianna
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Don't be ashamed of being short. Gosh I'm 14 and I'm only 4'11. As for your parents, you are the same person you always were. Your parents just dont feel the same way about each other as they used to. Tell me if i helped or if it worked on my feedback.
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All i have to say is keep your head up high!
who cares what they say. i know it's hurtfully but
that's life. There are always going to be those people that will pick on you for no reason. I learned that it was mostly becuase they feel bad about them selfs and dont want to show it. So for everytime they say something just say to yourself wow i am really lucky that they care so much about me to make them selfs feel better. Dont let them feel better about them selfs. Show them that you dont care. About you beimg small thats ok i am small
and most boys like that. Its not really about you being small its just they need to find a reason to pick on you for. otherwise they wouldn't have anything to say. Its like them saying oh your beautiful haha lets make fun of the beautiful girl. The would use anything just to make fun of another person.
and please dont feel depressed about the money thing. Not having alot of money isn't a crime. Its just something that happens. dont bring yourself down because of it.
If you ever wanna talk just im me.
I will always be there to help.
Love always maria
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obviously if they are going to make fun of you for something so incredibly stupid they have nothing better to do with their lives. they need to find some better ways to entertain themselves because what they are doing right now is pathetic. dont give into them. next time they say anything to you just smile and walk away. its pathetic what they are doing to you. you should tell them that. ughh that kind of stuff pisses me off.
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i'm small and people used to push me around! but then it reached the limit where, i couldn't ignore it, and i could no longer stand it!!! the only way they'll stop is if you stand up to them! there are different ways to stand up to people. you could tell a teacher, you could tell your parents or you could face them yourselves(this tends to work the best!) you should tell them to f**k off and leave you alone!! if you give them the impression that your hard and that you could have'em any day then they leave you alone.... or at least should do!! another way would be to use violence and you could use your parents divorce to an advantage!!! you could hit them and then if people ask why you did just say you've been having a hard time at home!! whatever you do you shouldn't have to stand for these people!! Good Luck!!
sorry about the divorce by the way (lol) .... but don't think your alone cos loadsa peoples parents get divorced .... things will calm down in time!!
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