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This is like Love life and Family
Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...?
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just tell her your young and its not like your going to marry the boy?.. tell her hes basically perfect for you right now and no problems are occuring=)
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anonymous -
Make it clear that you aren't her, so what makes her think that you'll end up like her? If you see all the shit going on between them, you're going to consider it so you DON'T end up like them.
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Just tell her that your boyfriend loves you and not all guys are the same! Tell her that she cant just go around assuming that you bf is like your stepdad. Maybe bring him around to your house that way she can meet him and she'll realise that you love each other! hope i helped you
luv shelly
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ok for one thing yor mom sounds mean and i know what you meen anyway you should not break up with him if you think he's nice you should invite him over for like a movie or something and inroduce him to your mom then she'll see how nice he is
good luck with the dude
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I understand that your mom doesnt want you to get hurt but you really need to tell her that, its already reached the point that you dont want to leave him and that you would be soo miserable without him. Your boyfriend does seem like a really sweet guy. If your close ENOUGH with your step dad try talking to him about why he wont go out with your mom. Tell him taht it really upsets the both of you and that its makes her not feel as close to him. Make him give you a reason why he wont go out with her, even though i cant think of ONE. Good Luck.. hope i helped!
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Just tell sit your mum down and tell her that not all men are like your step father. And I know your b/f better than she does, so you know that he's not at all like your step father. She'll understand. Hey, be calm when you're talkin' to her - even if she gets all defensive and angry. '...Soft words turns away wrath.' She'll come to realize the truth of your words, and have a different attitude towards your guy, and other men as well. Good luck.
Nicole
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Maybe have your mom meet him. So you can show her that he is a great guy, who you care for a great deal. If you don't want her meeting him. Then just tell her that you have been with him for almost a year and things couldn't be better. Tell her that you are sorry for what she is going through with your step dad and wish it could be differently, but all guys aren't the same. Explain to her that you understand the fact that some guys will be like that but until she meets him she can't really judge him.
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As long as your mom is projecting her pain onto you, there is nothing you can say to calm her. Just nod your head and move on. She needs someone her age to talk to about her relationship problems. Defending yourself here will get you nowhere.
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