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this guy
ok i'm really good friends with this guy, and we have been friends for almost two years, and friends with benefits since february. we decided that we weren't gonna try to go out (i'm 17, he's 16). recently he got a girlfriend, but things aren't goin that well between them. i tutor him twice a week, and recently he tried to hit on me and stuff like that (we stopped the benefits when he got his girlfriend). he says he's gonna break up with her, but i don't want to do anything with him until they've actually broken up. how do i get him to understand that without being mean or making him think that i want them to break up?
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when your tutoring him and he tries just be honest, say no (name) its hard for me to get with you when first of all you have a girlfriend and 2nd im beginning to have feeling for you, he'll probably be pretty shocked, see what happenss<3
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next time he trys it just a=say dude don't you still have a gf
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Well talk to him hun.. tell him you dont want to be the cause of them two breaking up and that you want him to be completly broke up with this girl before doing anything with you.. thats the only way you can get something like this through his head.. much luv dez x0x0
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Tell him exactly how you feel and if he's a good friend he'll understand. There's nothing wrong with waiting, good things always happen when waiting for something you really like.
Hoped I helped!!!
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Why are you worried about being mean? Forget the friends with benefits thing, he's the one getting the benefits, not you. Now the new girlfriend probably isn't putting out so he wants you too. If you're smart you'll not fall for that line. Stick to your guns. Tell him no benefits now or not unless your relationship has a future. :)
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Remind him he has a girlfriend say that he needs to watch what hes doing cause hes giving you an impression and it might be wrong
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