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high school
how do you become out goin? i mean im really out going and funny when i get to kno someone really well. but its realy hard for me to just meet someone and hit it off right away. what are some things you say to like a cute boy you see at the mall or someone you see that looks like alot of fun and want to talk to?
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I find it helps to talk to guys when I'm HyPeR! A good way to get hyper (and talk to boys at the same time) is to hold a screw, and hold out your hand like you're offering something to him and say "Wanna screw?"
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I know what you mean. I'm the same way. I think the people who are really outgoing are just born that way. Some of us are not as lucky. Maybe a more outgoing friend could get the conversation going. :)
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Honestly, just put youR feaR behind you, and go foR it! I find the less you think about what you'Re doing, the easieR it becomes. PeRsonally, I just Run up to some Random guy and ask them foR a hug. I'm not Really suggesting this, it's just what woRks foR me, and it woRks VERY well. People have pRobably told you to "be youRself", and though that seems like a silly blaind answeR... it's Really what needs to be done. Beleif is how I see it... if you believe you can, then you can. Now see... you... I have faith in, so go get 'em tigeR!! =D Best wishes!
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There's not really a specified way to become outgoing. It takes time to make your social skills perfect. If theres a cute boy at the mall, make eye contact so he knows your interested and if he reacts back, you're good to go. Just be like "Hey. What's up?". You don't want to come on too strong. Just take it slow.
~Hope that helps~
~K~
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Well just be yourself dont act shy or anything but you also dont wanna come off with some corny jokes or be annyoing when you meet somebody so jus try and have a normal conversation at first then maybe say somethings for a few laughs.. much luv dez x0x0
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Just be yourself. Be confident when you are talking to them. But deff. don't go over board and talk to much and tell to much about yourself the first time. Have fun.
-Brianna
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Personally I wouldn't try to be out going right off the bat cause people might think your nuts. LoL...but yea. Hope this helps!!
~Alyssa
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