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i don't think so but when u read my message may b i will not alive but i have to do this.
If you want to ask for advice, please do so. You did not ask a question, only made a statement, so I can not give an answer.
So there is this guy who I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. We are strangers but we see each other almost everyday and everytime we look at each other, we look into each other's eye and only the eye.
Twice we looked at each other in the eye on different days and it lasted for quite a while.
Does it mean anything?
I'll ask you a question first. Do you find yourself looking into the eyes of other guys like that? Not likely. Humans will look at what is attractive to their eye. So he is most likely feeling the same as you, some initial attraction.
When you say "Lkie" we need to be clear what we are talking about.
Being attracted to a persons looks doesnt mean you like who that person is inside, right now attraction is just the outside thing.
Until two people begin having conversation, spending time together and getting to know each other, there is no way to know if the attraction will extend further to who they are on the inside.
I will go as far as to say that sometimes, two strangers can find themselves staring each other in the eyes because unbeknownst to them, there was a pheremone attraction which is an excretion of a chemical factor that triggers a social response in members of the same species. That is all the staring is right now.
Why he hasn't spoken to you, could be that he is too shy to say anything
or perhaps he is not available, but dating someone.
You can be dating or married. Your relationship status does not take your body "off the market" as far as your bodys pheremone reaction is concerned. Nothing to feel guilty about...its a natural response. Just some people use self control and internally register they have a reaction but for commitment reasons don't act on it.Find a way to introduce yourself. Next time he is staring into your eyes walk over and say Hi. My name is (your name) and I see you here all the time. If this is the same office building, you could ask where he works, same company, what department. If you run into him at school you could ask who is his teacher for math or science. If you run into him at the same Starbucks, you might ask what his favorite drink is. Once you have started the convo, make sure you make another statement. You could point blank ask if he is seeing anyone and if he says yes, then you say, "She's a lucky girl. Well, nice talking to you" and go on your way.
im 15 and well my penis is not that big it hasnt grown much at all its really worrying around what age does your body keep growing too will it get bigger? is there something wrong?
I don't suppose you and dad are comfortable talking about any old subject even this. But it might be interesting to find out if his is the same unless you already know.
When a person reaches puberty is different, some start at 10 these days others at 15 and maybe even 18. Starting later does not affect the end result. You will get what is genetically normal for your family line. Here is a terrific report from a doctor to teen boys worried about their size.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/guys/penis.html
As a female I can tell you that womens vagina's vary in length. Only a very few can take penis 7 inches and longer. A man with a shorter than average penis (average being 5-6 inches) can still pleasure a woman. When you are finally ready for sex, make sure you study all about how to give a females a g-spot orgasm. Theres lots of information on line about that. It is the ultimate of pleasuring a female and since her g-spot is no further in than the 2nd knuckle of your fingers if you were fingering her correctly to produce such an orgasm, that mean the tip of a 2-4 inch penis can easily hit the spot too.
So just in case you do fall into the catagory of ending up a grown man with a shorter than average, that's not what determines a great lover, remember that.
whats the diffrence between cum and sperm?
For the future, some married couples who dont want more kids,choose to have the male get his tubes tied, its less invasive with less recovery time than for a female.
This means he can still cum, the fluid looks the same but there is no longer any sperm in his cum or semen as it is also known by
Can a woman get a hair transplant to make her hair longer and thicker?
Hair transplants for men or women are for bald spots, like putting a seedling in there to grow.
To some extent, you are stuck with the hair you were born with, be it fine hair or bigger thicker strands. But you can work on getting healthier hair which will grow faster and longer without a lot of breakage and split ends.
Look up Natural hair care on line. There is much helpful info there.
I had to learn some of what I know for hair care from my long haired 2nd husband. Men with long hair seem to have healthier looking hair than women often. Why? They do buy into all that advertised crap for hair. Most men don't straighten hair, perm it, color it, blow dry it or use curling irons AND they don't wash it daily.
The chemicals roughen up your hair and dry it so its unhealthy and brittle and no longer smooth and silky.
Washing too often will strip your hair of more than dirt, it will rob your hair of naturally occuring oils that your hair needs. These oils are distributed throughout your hair down to the ends by brushing more often. It takes many days for your natural hairs oils to come back which is healthy for your hair. Simply rinsing your hair with water is enough for in between so wash your hair once every 4 days or more. I have gone 5-6 days without washing and have no problem with the hair.
You don't need to buy products that advertise protein for the hair, when protein if its in there is so little it doesn't have any effect on the hair.
If its protein you want, saturate your hair in beer and let it sit like that for a while. Summer is perfect. Get your hair wet with beer and go out to enjoy the sun. It will dry like that and have plenty time to be on your hair for it to soak up the protein you need. Wash it out in a shower later..no shampoo...remember? You can also use a raw egg, scramble it well and apply to your hair. Wear a towel around shoulders for any drips. Let it sit for 15, 20 minutes at least, longer if you're okay with it. Then shower to rinse it out.
Do you need a moisturizer treatment, try mayonaisse, thats right. Massage it in throughout the hair, it will smell funky as it heats up from your scalp but your hair will love it. Then wash it out and use a minimum of shampoo to break the
hold of any excess oils that didn't seep into the hair strands. Thats a little of what I know and you can find more on line. Oh and giving yourself a scalp massage often encourages blood to the roots which also help with healthier growth.
Never brush your hair when it is wet because it forces the hair to be stretched beyond it's elasticity level so it snaps or will eventually do so due to be stress by the stretching.
My boyfriend asked how u feel about him what' should I say I'm lost of words??
Are we talking about someone you have dated on and off for a while? Or has it been exclusive dating, seeing each other often and for a handful of month or couple years?
Your answer depends on your situation. If you havent dated enough for you to find out what you like or not about him, then tell him so, that you don't feel you know him enough to develop any feelings yet.
Can you can see yourself being with him 3 years from now? 7 years from now, 20 years later, being parents together. Does that thought rock your world and make you feel excited? Or do you have a feeling of dread that you can't figure out why?
The reason for dating is to find out if the person you are dating has the qualities of what you are looking for in a man. Also does he fit your personality traits. Does he fill your needs and wants? Lets say your dad wasnt the most patient person and you know you dont want to end up stuck for a life time with someone like that, so one of your needs on your list is a patient, laid back , easygoing man..
My guess is that you have been doing the dating scene mindlessly...meaning without your mind engaged and without a purpose in mind. Your guy may be asking because he does have a list of his own, what he is looking for, perhaps he thinks you might be it but he wants to know how you feel so your relationship can move to a more committed position or end if its' the wrong person.
You need to have a list of traits in a guy, likes and dislikes that you are looking to spot. If you don't have a list, you won't be looking for anything in particular. You are looking for someone who will end up your best friend for life. What makes the difference between him and a girlfriend who is a bestie, is having the sexual chemistry between the two of you. If it's good, you both will be looking for every opportunity to make love if you are in love and the chemistry is there. Not many people have it because they settle for less. I settled for less with the first husband. It wasn't until I turned 50 that I finally had a man who was in love with me, we have wilder compatible sex than people who are single, have been in a relationship 5 yrs, 10 yrs. and so on. And we are best friends and being with each other makes experiencing daily life more fun simply cus they're there.
If you are at a loss of words, you are either with the wrong guy or the problem lies with you in that you haven't any idea why you are dating and what you're looking for in the first place.
I hope this helps. If you have more info that would help, just go to my page and leave the message in my inbox. Good luck dear
How do i talk to my crush like if he was my bestfriend without being shy with him.Wanting To Talk To Him Like Friends Or Play Around With Eachother?
13 Female
Do you have a hard time talking to female friends? If you do, you may want to work on overcoming shyness.
If you are able to talk with female friends with ease, why is it. Think about it. There are plenty of girls in school that you are not close friends with, why? What do you Maybe one consistently, a suppose are the things about your girlfriends that attracted you to each other to become friends?
It's like that with guys too. Some guys you will find easy to talk to and others, the convo. just stalls, neither of you can think of anything to say. I am very talkative and yet I met guys like that while dating and the talk kept dying. It was a sign that I was with the wrong guy.
So it could be that you are crushing on someone that may not end up being the best for you. The convo should flow real easy, so much so, that neither of you are ever without something you want to say to the other. Communication is a very important thing in a relationship with a guy. You can't just guess what an action, a spoken sentence or a look on his face meant...you have to ask. Your mind makes up a bunch of crap that is scary and untrue to fill up the empty spaces from not having good communication. No guessing. You want to talk more often with him. It depends how he feels about you, is he just as attracted to you as you are to him? It may be a crush only one way but you won't know for sure until you ask if he is interested in you as more than just a classmate he knows and is friendly with at school. You can tell him the kind of things like you tell your girlfriends. But its one thing better...if you want to know what guys like to talk about, or what a guy will do if he likes you, ask him! He's a guy. Hey Ryan, I want to know how to talk to guys, and starting with you. So can you teach me what it is that guys like to talk about with girls? That gives him a chance to have a reason to be talking to other than that he might also like you
what do you do when the guy you like is a total dick?
Be honest with your self as to what it is that you like about the person because obviously, you can think of things you don't like about him.
Is it external:
things like his looks, his smile, color of his eyes, the clothes he wears??
Or is it internal:
his sense of humor, his way of encouraging and supporting you, his morals and beliefs, he is dependable, his word is his bond, his kind and caring acts for you, or the sexual chemistry?
A "Dick" as you describe him is not going to have all of the Internal traits I mentioned and that was only a small sample of what we should expect from a mature caring male who is ready to be in a relationship with a female.
If it is the outside package you like, great! write that down...We all get to have our personal tastes in looks. I happen to like brunette men with long hair. If you happen to enjoy a sexual chemistry, great! Sex is a very important part of a healthy long term relationship but it cant be the only thing or the relationship will be out of balance. The man must also be capable of being your best friend, of putting you first in all his actions towards you.
Maybe the only redeeming thing is that he doesnt feel boring. that is not a good reason to be in relationship with someone.
So it all boils down to how you view yourself. Do you feel you don't deserve anything better because you have a low self esteem and image of yourself, or are you discriminating, knowing that you deserve the best, you don't need to settle for less because you deserve the very best. If you love yourself enough, you will let him go, and keep in mind the few things you did like and look for that and a whole heck of a lot more good stuff in the next guy. Dating is exactly this. Learn to sift through the attributes of a man. It's like looking through a bushel of apples. There will be bruised ones, are those with a bad spot. Left alone, these apples, no matter how much good parts are still there, it will eventually be overcome by the spoiled parts until the whole apple is Rotten. Avoid the rotten apples. Next guy, look for anything like the bad traits of the last guy and the moment you see it, be harsh and stay away from him, do not approach to start a relationship, or if you've gone on a few dates before you see it, dump him the moment you see it. After a divorce, i was back on the dating scene and remember a guy I liked on the fist 2 dates, the 3rd one, he was letting down his fake persona because he thought he had me interested so he could be himsself. He spent a half hour going on about how lazy his maid was and pointed out her race and called her all sorts of racial names and was rather nasty with his speech. I dropped him like a hot rock. Thats the rotten part I am talking about. Look for it and back away from those sorts and you just might back into Mr Right.
What's the signs of std
The signs vary depending on which STD you may have contracted. Then again perhaps it is something else. See your own doctor or go to Planned Parenthood. Some like Gonnorhea and Clamydia can be treated but do not delay. Go see somebody to be sure. If it is something like Herpes, there is no cure but they can prescribe something to help ease any outbreaks. It is not a death sentence though, many today are carriers of herpes and only some are getting outbreaks, last stats on it are for 1 in 5 Americans having genital herpes, and 80 % of the population has oral herpes. So go see an expert and find out
I'm extremely terrified of going to public school because of all the people there. I was bullied (I've told people, trust me) and I just don't want to go back. I'm not..
I also can't focus. I think it would be better for me if I was homeschooled by my parents (Or by computer..). How can I talk to my mom about this? I was planning to talk to her when we go out on vacation soon. But... What can I say? Please tell me what to tell her so she can say yes for sure. I'm scared of going back.
It's a big step to go from a curriculum at public school to having the curriculum and the willpower to stick with a schedule and supervise your self if you did it just on computer. It might be too overwhelming for your parents to take on doing homeschooling, knowing next to nothing. So all I can think of is to get in touch with home schooling networks and find other parents who are home schooling a child your age and in your area. Your parents would have to be willing to give that mom a little extra money each month for working with you. And she would have to be willing to take on another kid besides her own. She could tell your parents what teaching supplies to order for you so you have your own. This would be the most enticing option for your parents, knowing you had someone you were accountable to for your schooling.
Trouble is, they may say no because they don't see the bullying as that big a problem, or because they don't have the time to do all the research for home school networks in your area. So it may fall to you to find the info. do the research on line and talk to people and see if you can line up a couple homeschooling parents who are open to your idea and ask what type of compensation they would like for taking you on.
Then approach the parents again with all you have discovered and beg them to give their okay.
Good luck!
Me(25 f) and my fiance(27 m) tried soft swinging with the rule no sex with someone else in the end my fiance thought me and the other guy was having sex so he and the girl started having sex and when I saw them having sex I told the guy we can also, after like 2 min I stopped the guy and walked away, me and my fiance had a big fight but we sorted it out after 7 months we both said we were wondering how the evening would turn out if we didn't end it like that, so we agreed to try it again but with my rules but then my fiance talked about it a step further that what we originally talked about then I got angry because I feel why do he want more with another girl I only enjoy the rush of the story the feeling but he actually wants to soft play with another women and it makes me feel that why must I be alive because my guy want to be with another girl again,
All the ins and outs of relating to just one other person closely as a mate, all that a relationship entails is hard enough work in just one relationship. If two people have not had time to cement and bond their relationship with good communication, trust, forgiving, reassuring, time spent together on your best days and your worst days and still loving each other strongly through it all. That doesnt happen with one partner in months of dating, 2 years of dating or being engaged of even 5 or more year of marriage. A strong relationship,that two people have down successful 24/7 does not happen overnight. At your ages, you aren't old enough to have been in a relationship long enough to be a veteran at having a successful relationship. That is why it is well known by stories of those who have crashed and burned, that swinging or polyamory is not for young couples that haven't perfected their own relationship yet. And swinging is also not recommended for people during their child bearing years because a young couple may be trying to get pregnant, and if soft swing involves just mutual masturbation, there's always that chance of the mans precum being tranfered on a hand to your vagina. I've been in the scene and heard it all. There were even couples in their 40's and 50's who one or the other would get jealous of how someone interacted with their mate. And then that couple all of a sudden no longer wanted anything to do with my husband and I. Swinging is hard. It is not for the faint hearted. It can damage more than it can benefit a couple. I suggest you both drop the idea and wait to see if you're ready in 20 years. I can tell by what you wrote that neither of you have studied enough about swinging cus if you have, you have not been given good information. If your guy wants a female who will be a partner with him in swing clubs, or its a deal breaker, then let him go and find a man who cherishes just you. Swinging is to bring a little spice into your relationship when you're a long married happy stable couple. You arent even married yet.
Good luck dear
Okay so I'm a 21 year old female and I was in a relationship with a man on and off for a couple years. At first, he was everything I could've imagined. He was the most gorgeous man I had ever seen, was funny, and always made me take risks. He was also constantly getting into trouble. My family hated him because he would always start fights with me for no reason and I was always on an emotional roller coaster. Then about 2 years ago (the last time we dated) he was introduced to crystal meth. He went from getting scholarships to play college football to a downward spiral of addiction. He was a completely different person.
I stayed for several months, always feeling guilty if I ever thought about leaving him. I tried to get him into rehab but ultimately, quitting wasn't important to him. Some days he would cry to me about wanting to quit, others he would make me fear for my life because of how high he was or because of the sketchy situations he would have me in.
I finally left him and cut off all contact- moved away, changed my number, everything. I DID NOT want to go back to him or have anything to do with him. I had smarted up and knew that there was nothing I could've done to "save" him and that to continue that relationship would only harm MY LIFE. To a certain extent, I believe that he loved me. In fact, I KNOW he loved me, but he had issues that were rooted in him since he was a child that basically made him incapable of giving the kind of love that people deserved.
He not only screwed ME over, but he was awful to his own family. He would say mean things to them and then later would tell me how awful he felt and how he just couldn't change. I stayed for so long because not only did I love the man, but I felt so bad for everything he had gone through and I saw him in his times where he truly wanted to be a better person.
Anyway, I haven't seen or spoken to him in over a year. I've even met someone new who makes me feel wonderful. Yet the past few nights, I've had dreams about him and I find myself missing him terribly. It's like I feel no more of the sting of the hate or anger I once felt, I only feel the warmness I felt when I was with him or how safe I felt in his arms. There's no way on earth we could ever reconcile and no chance of me calling him up in hopes that he's changed.. that being said, how do I stop missing him?
I am glad to hear you woke up and did what was best for you. Cutting off contact and moving on was a decision made by your awake mind/your conscious mind while your subconscious mind( which is where all our emotions and feelings are based out of) is not on the same page.
So basically, your subconscious is acting like a totally separate person inside of you. Talk to yourself, if it helps, think of a separate name for your subconscious self and have a talk with her. I have a separate name for mine. It might feel silly at first but it works. Tell her that you are looking out for what is best for both of you and that you do agree that he had something about him that made you and her love him but realistically it could destroy both you and her if you stayed. Just because your conscious mind knows doesnt mean your subconscious mind knows yet. Let her know you need her help for a mental visualization of cutting off ties to him. See yourself handing her a pair of scissors and have her snipping the ribbon that ties him to you and you to him. Once that tie is visually broken in both your minds...it should be easier to let him go as far as the emotion response and dreams. It doesn't mean you won't have memories of times spent with him. those may come up but there wont be the tug on heart as before. Good luck dear!
My wife is two months pregnant and we do not want child now .please suggest ne how to terminate pregnancy at home.."i am from new delhi(INDIA).
Even if I knew how, I would not recommend doing anything on your own. There is too much chance of problems. There is an agency called Planned Parenthood. If it is an issue of cost, talk to them. They deal often with young teens who are pregnant or coming to them for birth control. They do not turn anyone away and may know of a low cost dr for abortion or of another safe method. And once you have achieved your goal, go back to them and get some reliable birth control for the wife.
Hi my Name Jasmine iam 22, years old.My period Usally comes on the 9th of every Month. But I came 1 Day Late. Which is the 10th. But befor I came on I been Sleepy lately and My tits have been a little sore. And been a little hungry. Is I'm pregnant?
Your boobs could be sore simply because of water gain during your period where the boobs swell and so does the tummy. The pants would fit tighter around the waist during this time. I actually had such a water gain in the area that I had to wear two different pants, one size for during period and another when not on it.
If you really do want to become pregnant and have recently come off the pill, your body will be messed up for a while and take some time to fall into normal pattern and be ready to conceive. If you want to better control the timing to try for it right when you are ovulating, then there are devices you can use that help.
Look up ovulation devices on line and heres a fertility webpage that has tabs to many subjects including using fertility tools
http://onlinefertilitytalk.com/fertility-calculator-device
Right So I'm 13 and I've just had my first kiss well.. Snog really and after it I couldn't look at him again and I don't know wherethr it was because I was shy or embarrased!! We hugged afterwards and I just cudnt look him in the eye (he's 13 aswell) please help wats wrong with me
It could also be that you forced yourself into doing something you weren't ready for. You know yourself best, what does your inner voice say. wAS it a quick peck or a longer kiss. If a long kiss,
Did you like it? Did you feeling tingly, or did it feel like you were kissing your brother? These are some things for you to think about.
Perhaps you are embarrassed because you feel you don't know much and your mind is second guessing it, thinking it might not have been good.
If that is the problem, educate yourself, the schools are no longer doing sex education and the few that do dont cover things like kissing and dating and relationships.
Look up videos on kissing on youtube. I looked the other day for a guy who wanted to know how to kiss. There are plenty.
There is also a channel on youtube targeted for teens and college age but lots of us older folk like it as well. Entertaining, college age gal who in 3-4 min videos gives you all the facts and its always the latest and most updated information out there on Sex dating and relationships. It's Laci Green on Sex plus
Here's a link to one on exploring your sexuality without sex. Very important at your age dear. SO check it out:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=552Yv1T0hKI
is it because it is impractical when practicing swimming? Does a girls stomach distract the boys in the class or something? It is funny because boys are allowed to wear their swim trunks and nothing else
Schools enlist dress codes the best they can. They probably figured it was safer to ban 2 pc for girls than to describe what is acceptable. Examples from my daughters who are now out of high-school. Their shorts or dresses could be no shorter than where their fingertips came on their thighs when standing. Straps on a summer top could be no less than 3 inches wide. Spaghetti string tops were out. No caps or hats of any kind as it could be gang related. I think that was it.
Also, if you think about it, when wet, a 2 pc can act differently and expand when water logged and not fit as snug so a bra top could easily slide over a breast, while a bottom slips down.
If you have ever watched the professionals competing in summer olympics swim events...its always one piece for that reason.
Theres this guy, lets name him X. me and x have been friends for about 4 years now and we work together and at some points through these 4 years we have flirted with each other. But the thing is every guy i have dated has been pretty good friends with X. right when i first met him i dated one guy and about 5 months after i broke up with him i date one of X's other friends for about a year. when i broke up with the second guy me and x started talking lots and he was flirting with me a lot..... but i thought that i was just any other girl he was talking to and i didnt think he actually liked me. so i started dating a guy, lets call him Y. me and Y dated for about 3 months and during that X admitted that he really liked me when i was single the last time and he was going to make a move but by the time he got the courage to do it I was with Y and i admitted that at that time i did have feelings and was interested but i thought he wasn't. i broke up with Y after 3 months because he hated anything i did, if it was having guy friends, or going to the bar with my girl friends to have fun and i felt like he was too controlling but in this time that i was single (about 2 weeks) X said nothing to me, i dont know if he was scared or just didnt have interest. 2 weeks later i gave Y another chance to prove that he wouldnt try to control me and i gave him it because i love him. Lately i am happy with Y and he is working on his controllingness but i have been having these dreams about x that i am kissing him and were together and
stuff....... what does this mean?
Pleeeaasseee help me :)
Kaaitlyn
Your subconscious mind is what makes you dream. Your mind will often bring into a dream what it has been focusing secretly on, not even admitting to your awake mind. All our feelings and emotions come from our subconscious mind so it's like having a second you inside of you. Because your awake conscious mind is choosing to go back to Y, and that decision is the opposite of what your subconscious mind wants.
I will tell you this, people need to learn to listen to their subconscious, its like that inner voice telling you something. Right now you are at odds with yourself, your two minds wanting two totally different guys. I am going to say without going into a lot of detail why, that going with your subcon. idea of a guy to date...especially since you are 21 or older might be a good choice. You've already gone around the circle of friends and if I am guessing right, the only one you havent dated yet is X. You for some reason are not allowing yourself to get together with him. It might sound crazy, but sometimes our conscious mind chooses to date or go with every guy who is wrong for us. Ever hear a girl say, why do I keep running into guys who end up being nothing but jerks? No one is forcing you to, but yourself. Sometimes, our inner self or subcon. senses who the right one is and we automatically avoid him. Why? Beats me but many many females do that. I was one of them in a way. Long story short, your subcon. is trying a last ditch effort to get your attention to get you to go for X instead.
I am concerned that you dont have life experience enough to realize that most people never change in life. A few make minor changes but not enough to the extent that Y needs to make. Y exhibited behavior that shows he is not right for you. My ex was like that at 20 when I married him and worse when I left him after 30 yrs.
People Do Not Change and You Cant Do Anything To Make Them Change! Your heart will get an attachment to every guy you date but your heart does not know what real love is yet. I didnt get to experience real love until into my fifties. Until you experience it, you dont know what you are missing and will think that Y is to die for, he is so wonderful. But the feelings of your heart can make you blind. Its called seeing through Rose colored glasses. If I were you, I would try to learn to start listening to my inner voice, my gut feeling and listen to your subconscious. You made the right decision when you broke up with Y, but the wrong decision when you went back.
I got my periods didn't bleed much 2hours after getting it I had unprotected sex with my bf he came in me twice could there be a chance I fall pregnant?ever since the sex I was bleeding lightly its day 5an still bleeding a little
Honey, why would you have unprotected sex when there is such a thing as Planned Parenthood where you can get an exam and birth control. Also, why did you wait 5 days before asking for advice. There is such a thing as 'the day after' pill which if purchased from your local pharmacist and taken the morning after will cover you. But waiting any longer is like playing Russian roullette. I know that there is little to no sex education these days, but all you had to do was act and ask before hand.
At this point, you could be pregnant. Not sure if its too early for a pregnancy test to tell. So my advice is do now what you did not do in the beginning. Go to Planned parenthood and tell them what happened, give them the dates and what you are experiencing now cus they are the professionals and will know what to do.
I'm 15 and I love animals my mom said I can have 1 animal of my choice. I've picked three animals and have revised a lot about them I can pick 1 corn snake 2 guinea pig or 3 kitten I know all the information about each animal and how to care for them which One should I choose .. And I have taken into consideration the cost of keeping each animal
It depends how much interaction you want with the pet or how much you like being entertained by them.
A snake doesn't interact with you like a guinea pig or cat does. Guinea pigs are a fun pet. Had one that would dig its nose under my hand and bump it up if it wanted more petting. It would purr for me when content and squeal in excitement at the prospect of food arriving. And its fun to watch them waddle, like a toddler with a soggy diaper. But thats the extent of it. they are sweet tho.
Cat's are more of a challenge since they like to be independant. They won't allow you to pick them up and stroke them like a guinea pig welcomes it. They have their own personalities and if they're not in the mood, they aren't--end of story! Because they can be so finicky and assert their own mind, it makes it all the more rewarding when a cat bonds with you and wants to interact. My daughter for example owns a cat who will pat her on the nose carefully with a paw to wake her up to be fed. If you handle and play a lot with a feline from kitten-hood on, there should be better bonding than obtaining an adult cat. Just look at all the cute pics people have to share about what their cats do on FB. Then again, keep in mind, some of it is up to what the cat's personality is. Each one is unique like a human. I never noticed personality in as much detail with our guinea pigs or the dwarf bunnies we kept.
In the end, the decision is yours but this gives you more to think about to hopefully make a better decision.
How does a girl masturbate?
A girl can use her hands on herself whether clit or g-spot but its way easier if another person fingered her g-spot. She can use vibrators or dildos. Under age girls can not enter a sex toy shop but Spencer's sometimes has some. They can be sold to underage because it's not the sex toy that is banned age wise, it's the being possibly exposed to pornographic material like in movies that are sold in such places. Also, many drug stores sell homemedic body massagers. Some are smaller wand like massagers...NOT to be used internally but work well on clitoral stimulation.
Here's a video on how to explore your sexuality by yourself or with a partner without having sex. This youtube channel has 159 short videos on many sex and relationship related topics. I suggest you watch whichever pertain to you right now. Learning about your female parts in detail is a good helpful thing. I think males should be watching this too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=552Yv1T0hKI