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Lost of words when my boyfriend asked how I feel about him?
My boyfriend asked how u feel about him what' should I say I'm lost of words??
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Are we talking about someone you have dated on and off for a while? Or has it been exclusive dating, seeing each other often and for a handful of month or couple years?
Your answer depends on your situation. If you havent dated enough for you to find out what you like or not about him, then tell him so, that you don't feel you know him enough to develop any feelings yet.
Can you can see yourself being with him 3 years from now? 7 years from now, 20 years later, being parents together. Does that thought rock your world and make you feel excited? Or do you have a feeling of dread that you can't figure out why?
The reason for dating is to find out if the person you are dating has the qualities of what you are looking for in a man. Also does he fit your personality traits. Does he fill your needs and wants? Lets say your dad wasnt the most patient person and you know you dont want to end up stuck for a life time with someone like that, so one of your needs on your list is a patient, laid back , easygoing man..
My guess is that you have been doing the dating scene mindlessly...meaning without your mind engaged and without a purpose in mind. Your guy may be asking because he does have a list of his own, what he is looking for, perhaps he thinks you might be it but he wants to know how you feel so your relationship can move to a more committed position or end if its' the wrong person.
You need to have a list of traits in a guy, likes and dislikes that you are looking to spot. If you don't have a list, you won't be looking for anything in particular. You are looking for someone who will end up your best friend for life. What makes the difference between him and a girlfriend who is a bestie, is having the sexual chemistry between the two of you. If it's good, you both will be looking for every opportunity to make love if you are in love and the chemistry is there. Not many people have it because they settle for less. I settled for less with the first husband. It wasn't until I turned 50 that I finally had a man who was in love with me, we have wilder compatible sex than people who are single, have been in a relationship 5 yrs, 10 yrs. and so on. And we are best friends and being with each other makes experiencing daily life more fun simply cus they're there.
If you are at a loss of words, you are either with the wrong guy or the problem lies with you in that you haven't any idea why you are dating and what you're looking for in the first place.
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You say how you feel. Do you love him? Do you like him? If you do, then that's what you say.
Whatever feelings you feel when you're around him or think about him, that's what you should tell him.
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I have been asked this before (Not by a boyfriend but a guy I liked) I think he wants to see if You say something like "I like you" or "I love you" Have you guys already said your "I love you's"? If not that makes sense. I hope this helped to an extent, Good Luck!
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