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first kiss
Right So I'm 13 and I've just had my first kiss well.. Snog really and after it I couldn't look at him again and I don't know wherethr it was because I was shy or embarrased!! We hugged afterwards and I just cudnt look him in the eye (he's 13 aswell) please help wats wrong with me
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You were most likely embarrassed or shy. Unless you didn't really enjoy the kiss and you wouldn't look forward to it happening again, then you know that you just weren't into it.
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It could also be that you forced yourself into doing something you weren't ready for. You know yourself best, what does your inner voice say. wAS it a quick peck or a longer kiss. If a long kiss,
Did you like it? Did you feeling tingly, or did it feel like you were kissing your brother? These are some things for you to think about.
Perhaps you are embarrassed because you feel you don't know much and your mind is second guessing it, thinking it might not have been good.
If that is the problem, educate yourself, the schools are no longer doing sex education and the few that do dont cover things like kissing and dating and relationships.
Look up videos on kissing on youtube. I looked the other day for a guy who wanted to know how to kiss. There are plenty.
There is also a channel on youtube targeted for teens and college age but lots of us older folk like it as well. Entertaining, college age gal who in 3-4 min videos gives you all the facts and its always the latest and most updated information out there on Sex dating and relationships. It's Laci Green on Sex plus
Here's a link to one on exploring your sexuality without sex. Very important at your age dear. SO check it out:
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It's your first time kissing. You're probably just embarrassed and shy like you said. It makes sense. I would be too. You'll get over it. Don't worry
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