How do i talk to my crush like if he was my bestfriend without being shy with him.Wanting To Talk To Him Like Friends Or Play Around With Eachother?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Dragonflymagic answered Monday July 15 2013, 8:59 pm: Do you have a hard time talking to female friends? If you do, you may want to work on overcoming shyness.
If you are able to talk with female friends with ease, why is it. Think about it. There are plenty of girls in school that you are not close friends with, why? What do you Maybe one consistently, a suppose are the things about your girlfriends that attracted you to each other to become friends?
It's like that with guys too. Some guys you will find easy to talk to and others, the convo. just stalls, neither of you can think of anything to say. I am very talkative and yet I met guys like that while dating and the talk kept dying. It was a sign that I was with the wrong guy.
So it could be that you are crushing on someone that may not end up being the best for you. The convo should flow real easy, so much so, that neither of you are ever without something you want to say to the other. Communication is a very important thing in a relationship with a guy. You can't just guess what an action, a spoken sentence or a look on his face meant...you have to ask. Your mind makes up a bunch of crap that is scary and untrue to fill up the empty spaces from not having good communication. No guessing. You want to talk more often with him. It depends how he feels about you, is he just as attracted to you as you are to him? It may be a crush only one way but you won't know for sure until you ask if he is interested in you as more than just a classmate he knows and is friendly with at school. You can tell him the kind of things like you tell your girlfriends. But its one thing better...if you want to know what guys like to talk about, or what a guy will do if he likes you, ask him! He's a guy. Hey Ryan, I want to know how to talk to guys, and starting with you. So can you teach me what it is that guys like to talk about with girls? That gives him a chance to have a reason to be talking to other than that he might also like you [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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