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Caden, don't let people put you down. :D ♥ Teza

I wont. for now on, I am rejecting people who send that stuff to me. thank you for helping. your gods gift to the earth. I am glad I started advicenators, bc if I hadn't, I wouldnt have met people like you who actualy makes people feel better about themselves. your my hero.

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1. I am a Christian and I always fall asleep when I pray which means I never finish my prayer. I did it for like a month now? How can I prevent this.

you could:
--pray while running or doing some sort of exersize.
-pray while standing up
-listen to upbeat music{preferably christian} when you pray
-pray to god about and ask him to help you not to fall asleep when your praying{when your excersizing, standing up, or listening to music}

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Hey guys, do you know of any good DS games??? Im debating on wether or not i should get Metroid Prime Hunters, or Super Mario 64.
Any other good games would be great. Thanks

Super mario64 rocks. others are
--metios
--feel the magic
--warioware touched

Hope I helped♥
--caden--

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hey caden, youre awesome. what do you think is a good weight for is a 5'6 male? my bf is like 245 lbs and im wondering if its just too much? any experiences or advice? thanks, much love!

umm. it is quite husky, but size shouldnt matter.

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im xomegaroni & you are cool!!!! i read your column haha =) keep up the good work!!!

Thanks

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I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy?

You should
-Just be yourself
-Be honest
-Dont cheat
-Never force a girl
-Never ignor her
-Never cheat
-Be romantic, but not all the time
-Be willing to make sacrifices
-Dont do anything to make her angry
-Dont pressure her {to do drugs, to have sex, ect}
-Dont cheat
-Comfort her when she is in her darkest times.

Thats all I can think of. I have this great book called "The Teenage Guys Survival Guide" by Jeremy Daldry. It may help you.
--Caden--

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Does anyone know how the code for clickable links? Kind of like the links everyone has in their columns? Thank-you.

your text here

Take out all the spaces except between A and HREF

Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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Alright im a 14/f/al, and i like this guy named Andy, but he has a girlfriend. And he is always acting like he likes me, and he even told me one time that if he wasnt with his girlfriend he would be with me. i dont think yall understand how much i like him. he is the most perfect thing i have ever seen. i cry at night thinking about him, if i hear a love song i cry thinking about him...i dont know what to do. what SHOULD i do?

I feel the same way about a girl. Its not fun. What you should do is, be yourself, hang out together and do stuff. Try flirting a little, but you need to be sneaky about it. Its gonna be harder, and more competative since he has a girlfriend, but here is a secret, if you are optimistic and positive, it will bring better luck. I believe you'll be succesful.
Best of luck♥
--caden--

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okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)

Just be yourself and trust your heart. Flirt with him and talk to him. Asked open ended questions to him, because if you do, he will think your interseted in him. Like lets say, you talk to this shy kid and ask an open ended question, he wont be as shy around you.

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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?

He wants to be with you, but he is too nervouse to be honest and ask you out, ect.

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I have a small note I want to send to my boyfriend, and I only know the basics of Italian and French, so I can't really translate the whole thing. I know Spanish, but of course that's not too romantic. Anyways, this is for our 3 month anniversary note, please translate it in Italian, if you can't do Italian, French pleaseee?! I need it to be special. Thanks!

Here's the note:

Wow, I can't believe it's been three months already. It seems like we've been together for so much longer! I can't imagine if you and I weren't together; you're definitely the most important person in my life. I love you, always and forever.

Thanks! I'll rate if you actually translate it for me! Thank youuuu.

Italian

Il Wow, non posso credere che sia stato tre mesi già. Sembra come siamo stati insieme per cosí molto più lungo! Non posso immaginare se non eravamo insieme; lei è definitivamente la persona più importante della mia vita. L'amo, sempre e per sempre.

French

Hou là, je ne peux pas croire c'est été trois mois déjà. Il semble comme nous avons été ensemble pour si beaucoup plus long ! Je ne peux pas m'imaginer si vous et je n'étais pas ensemble ; vous êtes sans aucun doute la personne la plus importante dans ma vie. Je vous aime, toujours et à jamais.

Hope I helped♥

If you need anything else translated, I got this translated at www.freetranslation.com

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Hi Caden. I cant find my friend's advice collumn and I know what his collumnists name is. How can I find his collumn? I tried the search collumnist page, but it doesnt help.
Thanks

You can copy and paste this in the box next to where it sais adress.

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=

and type in the collumnists name after the = sighn.Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone if you're not attracted to them pysically?
I have feelings for an older man (he's 45 and I'm 26). He isn't very good looking, he is overweight and has grey hair.
He is really nice to me though and we get along and have a lot in common.
Most younger guys that are cute don't make me feel the way he does.
Should I go for him or just stay with guys that are closer to my age?

It would make you happier later if you go for the older guy. Cuteness is ok, but personality matters much more. And yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone if your not attractive to them physicly. Hope I helped♥
--caden--

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How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think?

I agree with you. but i like girls that are shorter than meor equal hight and that are thin.
looks arent too important for me.

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Male 13

This is kind of long so if you dont have time to read it it is okay

For the past 6 months i have been asking questions about my best friend and how i like her and what not.

Now a little backround info i have known HER for five years we are best friends. Now for the first three years i knew her i just couldnt be around her enough i had a major crush. Then i finally started letting go or hideing my feelings from myself. What ever it was it worked i really thought i was over her. But then about 6 months to a year ago i started liking her again.

i think this happend because she almost got a boy friend. so i have gotten through all the Drama over her so far her almost having a boy friend, her moving her being pushy ext...

But the thing with her her has always been she would say she didnt need a boyfriend and she would talk to me about all of this.

All of asudden she wants a boyfriend (which of course made me upset) But on top of that instead of talking to me about it she talks to this other girl she barley knows. i mean i could understand if she wanted to talk to a girl not a guy but shes never had trouble talking to me before.

the question is what should i do ( i know thats a pretty general question but i am having trouble finding the right words for my question)
I mean she tells me i can talk to her about anything but i have trouble talking to her about her.

SO bassically i just need advice for the whole situation

I know why she is talking to the other girl instead of you. It's a girl problem and she needs advice from girls. If you talk to her about it {AIM, phone, ect} and give her some advice, and flirt a little. In time, she'll be with you. I hope I helped.
--caden--

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Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!

Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.

I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.

At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.

What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.

It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much!

Next time you talk on AIM, tell her that you wanna help her and that you'll be praying for her{unless your agnostic or an atheist} and that you understand what she is going through. Tell her that you dont like the gap in your relationship and that you want to talk to her.
I hope things get better.
--caden--

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I cut myself and i want to stop!! How can i make myself stop??
Will rate

You should go see a doctor, ask your parents to hide all sharp objects. But I think you should see a doctor most of all.

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Hi, Caden! Last night, my middle school (I'm 13) had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I have a huge crush on Catherine." Isn't that awful? I feel terrible.

Thanks a lot.

Penelope.

It is heartbraking to hear that someone you love has a crush on another girl. No one can help fall in love. It just comes naturaly. All you need to do is just be friends with him and your doing great with that. Be kind to him and help him when he's feeling his lowest. Someday, he will develope some love for you. Try flirting with him a little, but be sneaky about it. Help him with homework. Hope I helped♥
--caden--

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i have a crush on my friends brother and he used to like me. but last year i messed it up, and now i really miss him. he and i didnt go out but we flirted alot, and now i wish i was going out with him. he acted like i was the most icky thing on earth for like a year, but lately he has been acting a little nicer to me. what should i do????? i still really like him and i dont know what to do. please help.
i will rate

Ok. When a guy gets rejected, unnoticed, ect. They may feel angry or disgusted at the end but they get over it as time comes by. One time I liked this girl and she totaly ignored and avoided me. I felt a little disgusted and angry for about a year and now I feel like I could forgive her if I had to. He may be willing to be friends again. I would start as friends and get to know him better.

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Whats that one song called by death cab for cutie?? It goes like this: I want to live where soul meets body And let the sun rap its arms around me.

asap

Its called "soul meets body". I love death cab for cutie. That song is in theire new cd, plans.

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