Question Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 9:04 pm
Alright im a 14/f/al, and i like this guy named Andy, but he has a girlfriend. And he is always acting like he likes me, and he even told me one time that if he wasnt with his girlfriend he would be with me. i dont think yall understand how much i like him. he is the most perfect thing i have ever seen. i cry at night thinking about him, if i hear a love song i cry thinking about him...i dont know what to do. what SHOULD i do?
Hmm.. I guess the only thing you can do is talk to him about your feelings. Let him know that you really like him.. a lot. Otherwise, leave the situation alone. He has a girlfriend, and I'm sure you don't want to mess that up for him.
I know it sucks that he has a girlfriend.. and it really hurts you to know that he loves her.. but maybe you should just let them be.. ? You should still be friends with him, though. Talk to him and be friends with him, just nothing more while he has a girlfriend.
Who knows, maybe they will break up soon. You just have to wait and see what happens..
caden answered Friday November 18 2005, 7:14 am: I feel the same way about a girl. Its not fun. What you should do is, be yourself, hang out together and do stuff. Try flirting a little, but you need to be sneaky about it. Its gonna be harder, and more competative since he has a girlfriend, but here is a secret, if you are optimistic and positive, it will bring better luck. I believe you'll be succesful.
Best of luck♥
--caden-- [ caden's advice column | Ask caden A Question ]
wicked_sista answered Friday November 18 2005, 7:02 am: tell andy. . .no confront him tell him. . ."why do you have to cheat with your girlfriend???" if he freaks out hes not the one for you. . .and just with that you can already see his colors. . .what if you were his girlfriend??? what would you feel if your bf was cheating on you??? Even though you like him. . .do you like to hurt other people for your happiness??? I think that if you sacrifice for someone in this situation something good will happen to you like you would find this guy who's single and you guys like each other. . .who knows?!. . .and like what sillyrob said. . .there are tons of guys out there you shouldnt emaote or concentrate too much on this guy. . .:) hope i've helped. . . [ wicked_sista's advice column | Ask wicked_sista A Question ]
sillyrob answered Thursday November 17 2005, 11:28 pm: You could sit back and mope and be depressed because your aching heart beats for this young boy...
...or you could stop being pathetic and move on. Jesus, there are a ton of guys out there. Stop obsessing over one (especially one with a girlfriend). [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
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