hi im pia. . .im 13 and i L-O-V-E music. . .whenever my friends have problems they go to me and they ask me for advice. . .i think they go to me because i like to help and im a very loyal friend and im not a control freak even though i give advice it doesnt mean that thats what you have to do you i just give ideas of what i think you should do. . .im also hardworking and determined. . .uhm well til here if you're having problems dont hesitate to come to me cause i'll be here for you til the end bye!!! xOxO pia =P
E-mail: d_u_d_e_t_t_e_1104@yahoo.com
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Location: Philippines
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: November 18, 2005
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how do i get a girl (link)
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uhm. . .flirt with her not too much not too little but enough to keep her intrested and get her attention. . .then try to be close to her. . .be her friend. . .thats the most important thing. . .so that she'll get to know you. . .improve on the strengths of your personality. . .that all i can say for now because i need more details. . .
send me the details after you flirt. . .
xoxo pia =P
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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that
In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.
Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?
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uhm. . .i think you should really stop doing those things. . .well at least you know that you should avoid it. . .because its wrong. . .though im not trying to insult you in any way but its gross (no offense). . .you should try to be attracted to other people. . .maybe girls in your class or something. . .and youre 17!!! You could get a girlfriend maybe that can stop it and plus they're your sisters!!! Also you could slap yourself if you really really really cant control everytime you think about these things. . .or if you really want to solve your problem you could go to a therapist but make sure no one finds out. . .
and if your still having trouble. . .email me alright . . .
xoxo pia
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I just had my birthday several days ago, and I was wondering if someone could explain to me what this one gift from a guy I really like was supposed to mean.
While we had been friends for a while, but i had been hoping that one day he would be my bf. I thought we were heading in that direction, but since I had my birthday I've been thinking I may be wrong about that.
The gift that he gave me was a little insulting actually. It was a very tacky looking t shirt from Walmart with the words "IF YOU"RE CUTE I"M SINGLE," on the front.
Now does that mean that he is giving me some sort of message? I mean if he really liked me why would he give me a shirt to let other guys know that I was single? Or to attract any other guys at all for that matter.
It really hurt me and embarrassed me. It made me angry because his birthday was the week before and I got him a really nice gift.
Does anyone know what this meant? And do you think he gave me that shirt to let me now he wasnt interested? (link)
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there are 2 meanings
its either
1...like what you said hes not interested and maybe he wants other guys to be attracted to you because maybe he thinks you're not interested and he just didnt want you to notice that he was hurt or something
2...maybe hes interested but he thinks hes not good enough for you so he wanted other guys to like you because he thinks that it would be better. . .maybe hes thinking of your well being
and theres another way to do that . . . you could ask him if you have enough guts but its hard. . .right?!
if you're still having trouble you could im me. . .do you have yahoo messenger??? if you do my id is d_u_d_e_t_t_e_1104@yahoo.com xoxo pia =P
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my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and me and him are really close but i do not know if i like him more than a friend he likes me and he wants to go out with me but i don;t know what to do please help me thanx confuse. (link)
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i think you shouldnt go out with him because your friend wud be hurt. . .i mean friendship is more important than love. . .cuz your friend will be there for you no matter what youre not even sure if hes really telling the truth and maybe you'll also end up like your friend who got hurt. . .hope ive helped xoxo pia :)
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Okay i have this best friend who is pretty much like a sister, we've lived nxt door all of our lives well anyways recently b4 skool started her and her bf broke up..these 2 are like bound to get married no joke their 2 perfect together..well now that its december and she still talks to him they still talk about being together and she shows me all the conversations and everything...What im getting at is that its really starting to annoy me about how obsessed she is because all she talks about is him we will be watching a movie and shell start talking about him..everything is about him and its like its not ever her anymore. I want to tell her that its getting kind of annoying but i dont know how to tell her because i dont want her to get mad and stop talking to me. Any ideas? srry its so long i rate! (link)
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i know how you feel my bestfriend is like that too. . .just talk to her calmly and tell her "(name) uhm dont get mad ok??? no offense but can you not talk about him all the time. . .cant we talk about other things?" if shes really your bestfriend she'll understand. . .
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Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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uhm i think you should ask your dad if you guys could go on a date. . .i think its ok if you two become boyfriend and girlfriend because youre not blood related and the thing is is that what you should do is follow your heart i believe thats the best thing to do. . .
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Here is the deal! I have this best friend and we are really close. We've known each other for 5 years now. Anyways, his parents have a new job and they have to move! he's not going but he wants to. Anyways, we've been talking and i'm starting to thimk that he is lying to me about certain stuff. I know that some of it might be private, but he has been telling some other people. What shoul I do?.
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tell him what you feel and ask him the questions you want to ask. . .for example(ask him nicely) did you lie to me about .....something like that friendship is being true 2 each other making each other know how the other feels so you'll understand each other better. . .
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ok so my friend likes this boy who doesnt really like her like that, but she doesnt know it yet, and the person who she likes is the person who i might like and ive might have liked him longer than she knows, so what do i do?
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tell her the truth. . .tell her you like him and tell her about the guy. . .if she doesnt believe you and she only thinks that you are lying so you would have him all to yourself. . .tell her that its for her own good if she doesnt want to get hurt. . .
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My ex plays basketball (who I am in love With!) and I went to a game tonight and before he had to play he came and sat by me. I never ask him to come and sit beside me. He just looked up where I was at and made a head motion to come and sit beside him. I looked at him funny and made a motion for him to come and sit beside me. So he came. And he started laughing and I said "why are you clapping for the other team?" and he said "Cause they rock (he was just joking though)" and I smiled at him and said "Fu** you" and he looked at me in the eyes and said "Yeah, I know you do. But not right now. (little info: He's not a pervert wanting to get in my pants. Believe me I know!)." and started laughing his ass off. And he scooted closer to me. He walks me to my bus and everything. Jokes with me. You name it. Soo Whats going on? (link)
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I think he still likes you. . .even if you guys broke up maybe hes still waiting for the chance to still be with you because he cant let go. . .hope you liked my advice :)
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Alright im a 14/f/al, and i like this guy named Andy, but he has a girlfriend. And he is always acting like he likes me, and he even told me one time that if he wasnt with his girlfriend he would be with me. i dont think yall understand how much i like him. he is the most perfect thing i have ever seen. i cry at night thinking about him, if i hear a love song i cry thinking about him...i dont know what to do. what SHOULD i do? (link)
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tell andy. . .no confront him tell him. . ."why do you have to cheat with your girlfriend???" if he freaks out hes not the one for you. . .and just with that you can already see his colors. . .what if you were his girlfriend??? what would you feel if your bf was cheating on you??? Even though you like him. . .do you like to hurt other people for your happiness??? I think that if you sacrifice for someone in this situation something good will happen to you like you would find this guy who's single and you guys like each other. . .who knows?!. . .and like what sillyrob said. . .there are tons of guys out there you shouldnt emaote or concentrate too much on this guy. . .:) hope i've helped. . .
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i have been dating wit this guy for 3 months.
and these 3 months have been beautiful, but so hard. Not only did i lose all my house privliges like cell phone and going out, but i was about to get sent to a broading school in a latin country. my parents want me to be happy and i know im love. it sounds quick but, this guy really helped me get through all these other problems. but he got me bigger ones. i know he loves me and has never felt this way over a female because all his friends tell me. his cousin who i now adore tells me all the time how he raves about me with his parents and close relations. but my mom is so against his piercesing. he says he love me but he wont try to have an aproval from my parents. so my question is should i leave him and find some who will make sacrafices for me?
thank you for reading this.
please help me.
thank you
Senorita Lopez (link)
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3 months eh. . .uhm if you feel that its necessary to leave him then do leave him. . .just follow your heart. . .trust me. . .I've tried not following my heart them BAM ! ! ! Big problems come and go give me stress. . .anyway. . .go with what you're happy with. . .what if his friends are lying dont you think they might be making that up??? but you should believe what you want to believe im just saying some risks. . .if you guys really love each other you'll still love each other no matter what you'll get through problems, trials, challenges and hardships that might break some relationships but your instincts will tell you what to do in those times. . .talk to him. . .no rather confront him calmly ask him the questions you want to and if he freaks out about the approval of your parents thing. . .then i think hes not the one 4 you. . .:) hope you liked my advice
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Ever since I started 7th grade, I`ve had no self confidence. I`m always thinking I`m to fat, annoying, ugly, unpopular, a dork, mean, loud, stupid etc. I used to be so self-confident ;I used to love everything about my self, and people respected me more for that. Now I lie to make people think I'm more popular and I always catch myself acting fake or saying something completley mean. I always worry if what I'm saying or dressing like will make me seem more unpopular. I get jelous of my friends if their in the popular girl's profiles as their bff`s, or if I`m not invited to hang out with them. I worry no guys like me, I worry I`m not good enough. I try to fix in to certain cliques such as the populars ; goths ; preps ; jocks ; nerds etc. just to feel accepted and I'm always changing my self to please people. I can't stand this anymore, I want to go back to being me. I dont even know who I am anymore. Please help. I know it longs, but I'd appreciate any help! (link)
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Did anyone tease so much that you thought you weren’t good enough anymore?
Don’t think about too much negative things about yourself. .I mean. . .be proud of who you are try to look for your weaknesses and improve on them. . .Did any incident happen that transformed you to a person who has no self confidence at all ? See look people respected you when you acted like yourself. . . when you were showing your true color. Don’t lie. . .because at the end they’ll find out that youre lying then they wont trust you anymore which makes another problem arise. If people think you dress weird then let them think that whats important is how YOU feel and most important what YOU want to look like. If you want your friends back just confront them in a calm way tell them how you feel. . . if theyd understand. . .you have a real friend ! ! ! Join any clique you want but never be or rather never try to be something youre not. You don’t have to lie to be accepted you don’t have to act. . . just accept yourself first gain some self confidence and when you develop you’ll be respected again and all. . .also you dont need a man to complete your life all you need are friends who'll be there for you til the end. . .the last thing I want 2 tell u is BE YOUR SELF ! ! !
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