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As stated in my profile. I have been told that I give good advice but I cant take my own.
*Well I've been with my Boyfriend for awhile now, and we are completly happy. He calls me each and everyday and tells me he loves me. And its only every so often that we go a day without seeing each other. I love him to death, i really do.
So lately I've been telling him I want to be with him for a very long time, and he always grabs my hand and smiles and says we have a long time left together babe.
Well at a young age I was rapped by an older guy and then, I actually gave another guy a chance and slept with him and then he cheated on me and broke up with me because I was too insecure.
And this is the Second guy since the incident that I've slept with and he's been there and loved me and hasnt giving me a reason to doubt him. But it's like Im scared of losing the love of my life. I swear every man that I've every loved I've lost...My dad died when i was 13!
Well today I was quiet and he looked me in the eyes and asked me what was wrong and i got all teary eyed and said I dont want to lose you...and he was quiet and said dont think that way i love you and only you and dont want anyone else, dont think your going to lose me we've still got along time together...well you think that would make me feel better right? Well it didnt, im still iffy....
We are leaving to go to mexico tomorrow with my family for about 4 days and then December 18 we are leaving to New Hampshire to stay with his family for two weeks...so i know he is pretty serious about me but Im still scared...i dont know what it is i trust him to death but idk....
-I'm not looking for the answer of: Don't think of him as all the other relationships. Or dont freak out about him, dont be so insecure it'll be okay...i need some serious advice...-
please help* (link)
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Ok,
here is the deal what i think you should do is tell him the truth about sleepin with another guy cause once he finds out he is going to start to wonder why you are not telling him things, i am sure when you try and talk to him he will love you even more cause you were honest with him, u should really consider staying with him because he loves you and you are happy together not with that other guy that dumped you and probably used you, so just try and take my advice about talkin 2 him, it is the best thing to do when you are very serious about eachother...loves
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ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this? (link)
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Ok heres why you are crying after 5min because your body is telling you no i am not ready for sex not right now, i kno i am not the one to like listen to but please stay away from sex until you know he is the one you wanna spend with for a while cause you don't wanna get hurt and feel used after he dumps you just for sex and u saying no would be the best thing to do so if you need anything else send me one in my inbox i will gladly answer for you and remember you are not stupid....
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my boyfriend asked me if he could touch me in 'places'. what exactly could that mean?
i'm 13/f in the 8th grade.. HELP (link)
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Ok,
What you should do is DUMP him i think this because he is trying to have sex with you, i kno you are way to young to have sex you know all the bad things that could happen, When boys say they want to touch you places that simply mean have sex with me, i think you should dumo cause all he is trying to do is use you for sex so please dump him i don't wanna see you pregnent at 14 do the right thing...
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okay my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him .....i really want ot because i'm 16 sooo what do i do? (link)
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Hey,
Ok my advice to you is please be careful you know all of those virsues going around when you have sex with someone! Remember that you need to find someone that you will be with for a long time, and make sure its the person you love! thats always the best thing, so please make sure he wears a condom because you i don't think are ready 4 unprotected sex, and if you are GOOD LUCK
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I'm 16, and my boyfriend who is 18 will have been going out for 2 months next Friday. I was wondering.. should I get him a card? Or buy him a present? Or should I just not do anything..just simply wish him happy anniversary? What do people usually do for their 2 month anivarserys? (link)
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What i think you should do is maybe get him a card because my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2months also and i got him a card because i knew he would get me something, so i think you should get him a card because i gave my bf one and he really apreciated it! and i am only 14 and he is 15 so ijust got him a card and he really liked it... he gave me a beautiful crystal necklace so i think he reallly appreciated the card!! loves... write back
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I would just like to find out how my daughter and boyfriend can get help regarding there son (10months) getting injured at Nursery, burnt by boiling water on his hand and top part on arm(wrist).
This has caused a great deal of inconvienience to them taking time of work and travelling to the hospital to change dressing every 2nd day. This has also caused stress on my grandson and my daughter? (link)
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How your daugter and boyfriend can get help regarding their 10 month son is i think you should sew the person that has done this to their grandson, that is unacceptable, and cruel!! i would consider hiring a lawyer or someone to file charges on this person(s) because first off, he could of been injured badly and could of had to get his little arm cut off due to stupidness of a person in nursery school! I think also you should consider sewing the Nursery school for first off having hot water around little childern, and i think that in the Nursery School they should have child supervision at all times!! especially the younger ones they can gte really hurt and this little boy is probably scared for life now. so all i can say is try and do what i said it helps because this is so wrong!! I am sorry this happened to your grandson and daughter and boyfriend.. write back
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I've been going out with my guy for 8 months. My mom likes him, but she's about the only one. The teachers at school all hate him because he's a little too goofy sometimes. They a seriously very hard on him for any little thing, but not with anyone else. Our classmates don't seem to like him either. He hangs with the boys but they aren't real friends. They're actually pretty cruel. My cousin, who is my best friend, doesn't like him either and she's never even met him. We talked on 3-way though. I get so made at her because she calls him ugly. How supportive of my "best friend". I don't know what my dad thinks. He's never met him but he hears a lot of what I tell mom about him. I think he just doesn't like me having a boyfriend. Anyway, sorry this is long. My point is, why doesn't anyone like my boyfriend? He's a really awesome person and we have so much in common. I love him so much but I feel like nobody else cares at all. It's depressing. (link)
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This same occurance happened to me, my best friend tells me he is very weird and is very ugly just like your best friend does,most of the time when people say stuff like your best friend and the guys at school it means they are jealous of you and him, My best friend intends to get very jealous over stupid stuff!!! i cannot stand that i mean you like who you wanna like and no onw can change that not even your best friend, and your dad, doesn't probably want you to have a boyfriend because u are his little girl as my dad always says to me! so just stay with him i mean dont listen to everyone else what they say cause like they are all wrong on what they think.. loves
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When you do excersizes for your butt & thighs (like lunges and squats) would it build up muscle and therefore kind of, ''plump'' your butt up or would it build up muscle that wasn't visual?
Cause the last thing I need is to ''plump'' up my butt. LOL.
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Well actually it builds up your muscels inside, none of the access body plump in your butt and thighs will be shown, all you need to do is keep working out and, makesure when you are working out you take it easy because it could cause you butt to get real skinny and i am sure that you don't want a skinny, butt, u want enough butt to show that you have worked out... lol anyway so yeah all you got to do is work out a few times a week and then you will see great improvement in your butt, thighs, and whatever else you are trying 2 lose, ... lovees
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so i had a boyfriend, but i heard that he kissed another girl and told her that he loved her so i didn't even think about asking him anout it and i broke up with him. i talked to him the other day on the phone and he said that it wasn't true. but now he's going out with one of my friends. me and him were friends but then she told him bad things about me. what do i do? how can me and him be friends again?
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Well how you and him can be friends again is simply tell him that you never meant to hurt him, i mean like first you should ask his girlfriend what her problem is for tellin him all of this i think that by now he should realize that you are not that person inside, if he can't realize that tell him how you fell about him and say that everything she said was not true and i want to be friends again, and if he says no then maybe you should forget about it. Cause obviously he could care less if u are is friend or not. So all u can do is talk to him and tell him i am really sry and i want to be your friend again just like we were before we were going out! and honestly this has happened to me before and i have talked it over with the person i wanted to be friends with again and he said ok i trust you!!
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