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ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this?
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It obviously means you arent ready to have sex with him. think before you act
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you must not be mentally ready for sex. you can want your boyfriend physically, but mentally, you can't handle it. i would just stay away from sex for a while, and maybe try things that you and your boyfriend can do that wont get you both in the mood. dont worry you dont sound stupid at all.
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Ok heres why you are crying after 5min because your body is telling you no i am not ready for sex not right now, i kno i am not the one to like listen to but please stay away from sex until you know he is the one you wanna spend with for a while cause you don't wanna get hurt and feel used after he dumps you just for sex and u saying no would be the best thing to do so if you need anything else send me one in my inbox i will gladly answer for you and remember you are not stupid....<3 becs
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heya!
maybe when your in the mood you think your ready but really inside your head you dont want to be doing it.
if its happened more then once then maybe you have to think deeper about it,
the first time might of been a one off but then when it happened a second time didn't your boy friend stop and say do u think u really want this. maybe talk about it before he gets you in the mood for it because when people get horney sometimes your feelings for something take control. maybe on the phone talk to him and just explain to him how you feel when you start to cry because of it.
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You don't sound stupid at all. It's because you're in the heat of the moment. You both are in the mood and so you make the decision based on how turned on you both are. It also depends on how much self control you both have. If you are in the mood, but you KNOW that you don't want to do it, think about how you feel after those first 5 minutes, and maybe it will help you out. Believe it or not, it's normal! I'm not one to judge, so don't take this the wrong way- but maybe you're not ready yet? That would have ALOT to do with the reason you feel guilty, you know what I mean? But if that's not the case, if you feel guilty about it, then maybe instead of having sex..do other things to each other. There are tons of possibilities to give/receive pleasure rather than having sex. If you're not ready for anything sexual like that at all, or if you feel guilty doing that as well..then try doing things on your own. You most likely won't feel guilty about doing things to yourself. I don't know how you feel towards things like that, but it's just an option. I hope I helped! drop one in my inbox if you need anything else! :D
Amber
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Because i think you realized what you were doing and you thought yea know i'm really not ready to do this and stopped and you started crying cause yoou prolly started feeling gulity plus girls are naturally emotionl i just think you head is messing with ya tho.
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well- probably because your not ready. i would keep away from sex for awhile..if your going to have sex, ,make sure your ready! dont feel ashamed or agitated that your not ready yet..your bf should understand, nd if he doesnt there is a problem.
remember, do nothing until your so0o absolutely ready
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ou really shouldn`t do that and tell him to stop before lettin him start having sex with you.. ♥ Dez
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I don't think you sound stupid, but you just aren't ready. You might think you are when you get in the mood, but when you start to do it and you feel guilty is just means you're not ready. There is nothing wrong with that at all so don't think you're being a wimp or something. Wait until you're ready and you won't feel guilty.
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maybe your just not comfortable with it so maybe you should talk to him about this
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do you feel like your giving it away and it scares you that you can't get it back? thats how i felt and i wasnt ready. i know you feel like its going to be right since your in the mood.. but you should think it over if you really want to do this or not. make sure you completely trust him and make sure ur ready before you go through with it, if you need any more help leave some in my inbox! <33
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well... im not makin* fun.. but how old are you and ill answer that question
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you aren't ready yet. idk how old you are, but with my religion, im catholic, & i believe in sex after marriage. you obviously don't want to go through with it even though you like him er love him er however you feel about him. juss explain that to him, & if he feels the same about you as you feel about him then he won't pressure you into it. you might think you're ready, but you arent. sex shouldn't be rushed & you should really think about it before you have it er not, because you don't want to regret it.
good luck!♥
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