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Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:14 am

okay my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him .....i really want ot because i'm 16 sooo what do i do?

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xXMrsMcCartneyXx answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:45 pm:
Well, I personally don't believe in having sex before you get married b/c sex is really to have kids, not get high or anything. So I would say not to, but I think that if you really want to, go for it. :-

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allieboox33 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 12:03 pm:
If you want to go for it.. know tha consquences though. Use a condom and if you don't want to do that use some form of birth control. Mm hope I helped.

Allieboo <3

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DZANAx3 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:59 am:
wait what? you want to have sex because your sixteen? uhm if that is the reason then you should DEFINANTLY wait a while that is a horrible reason to want to have sex... but if you have better reasons i.e- if you love him&feel comfortable, then go for it but deffinantly use a condom you never know what can happen [&hearts;]

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:12 am:
Well snce you want to do it then go for it.. I can`t tell you how to have sex cuz everybody does it differently.. &hearts; Dez

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duckyhorse answered Saturday November 19 2005, 11:06 am:
If you want ot then do it but be careful

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softballgurl42 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 10:48 am:
Well if you want to you can. Just make sure to use a condom.

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MzPink answered Saturday November 19 2005, 10:27 am:
OK, iF yOU FEEl COMFORtAblE WitH HAViNG SEX WitH HiM tHEN GO AHEAd .. tHERE`SZ NOtHiNG tO REGREt iN tHE FUtURE iF yOU REAlly WANt tO HAVE SEX WitH HiM && it dOESN`t MAttER tHE AGE yOU ARE JUSt AS lONG AS yOU FEEl RiGHt At tHE tiME .. G0Od lUCK bAbE xOo

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stargazzer887 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 10:18 am:
Hey,
Ok my advice to you is please be careful you know all of those virsues going around when you have sex with someone! Remember that you need to find someone that you will be with for a long time, and make sure its the person you love! thats always the best thing, so please make sure he wears a condom because you i don't think are ready 4 unprotected sex, and if you are GOOD LUCK <3 loves

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looneytune1561 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 8:57 am:
Well I think you already answered yourself by not knowing if your ready or not.If your having second thoughts then I would even think about haveing sex wtih him untill you are 100% sure that you want to.If you do make sure you use a condom!!!

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Daddysgirl13 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 8:30 am:
you should not have sex in tell you are a least 18
if you do have sex with him have him were a condom!!!!!!!!!

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Ivy921 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 7:49 am:
Well, being 16 does it make you feel that you are too young and not ready yet. Or do you think that your friends will think its too young and make comments to you? How do you really feel about it, regardless of your age? do you really care for each other? does he treat you with respect and understands what you are feeling (most of the time at least?)
If those answers are yes and you want to have sex, talk about it, get condoms and do what feels right?
If you are thinking about doing it because you want him to like you more or are scared that he's going to leave you if you don't or something along those lines, don't. at any age, be it age 16 or 21 or 32. That will only lead to heartache and a loss of self esteem.
Hope that helps and gives you some things to think about.
Good luck.

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craazylau answered Saturday November 19 2005, 5:57 am:
Well if you're certain you're ready and this is a relationship you can see lasting then go for it. Just make sure you're aware of the risks of STDs and pregnancy and make sure he wears a condom.

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sillyrob answered Saturday November 19 2005, 4:02 am:
You want to have sex because you're sixteen? My advice is don't have it until you find someone you love.

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kitkatkate answered Saturday November 19 2005, 2:20 am:
hi,
ok if you really want to do this make sure your ready. im not talking ready as in being 16 but as in are you ready for what might happen. getting pregnant or STDs. if you want this make sure your safe. sorry i totally just sounded like a mother but its true! good luck. much love<3kate

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karenR answered Saturday November 19 2005, 2:10 am:
Very first thing to do is get on a very reliable form of birth control.

Use condoms too because some STDs are very life altering.

Read this website, it has a LOT of very good info on it.

www.coolnurse.com

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