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Question Posted Friday November 18 2005, 9:33 am

so i had a boyfriend, but i heard that he kissed another girl and told her that he loved her so i didn't even think about asking him anout it and i broke up with him. i talked to him the other day on the phone and he said that it wasn't true. but now he's going out with one of my friends. me and him were friends but then she told him bad things about me. what do i do? how can me and him be friends again?


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Additional info, added Friday November 18 2005, 9:37 am:
the girl that he's going out with.(my ex friend)
is the girl that i heard he kissed.
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samanthaxx answered Friday November 18 2005, 7:33 pm:
Well, maybe you should've asked him about it before you broke up with him.. during highschool rumors & gossip are all that goes on. He probably thinks you have no trust for him, and that hurts, for anyone, even guys. But the fact that they are currently going out, makes it seem like he might of kissed her & told her he loved her, but I'm not sure, maybe you should just, not so much APOLOGIZE, but just explain to him that you're sorry for jumping to conclusions and that you hope you two could be friends again! :)

Hope it helps! ♥

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Supermanlover45 answered Friday November 18 2005, 3:36 pm:
first off your friend shouldnt date your ex boyfriend. thats wrong..

and yeah haha shes a whorish kinda* type..

and a bitch if you ask me dont mind my language..

just forget about them ok..

dont talk to him.. he'll talk to you sooner or later just let it go.. dont bug him about it dont say anything

hope i helped

p.s they ALWAYS come back

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iceyangel010 answered Friday November 18 2005, 1:51 pm:
For one thing you thing you don't need him. Girl you have other friends but if you really want to be friends with him get revenge.

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stargazzer887 answered Friday November 18 2005, 1:41 pm:
Well how you and him can be friends again is simply tell him that you never meant to hurt him, i mean like first you should ask his girlfriend what her problem is for tellin him all of this i think that by now he should realize that you are not that person inside, if he can't realize that tell him how you fell about him and say that everything she said was not true and i want to be friends again, and if he says no then maybe you should forget about it. Cause obviously he could care less if u are is friend or not. So all u can do is talk to him and tell him i am really sry and i want to be your friend again just like we were before we were going out! and honestly this has happened to me before and i have talked it over with the person i wanted to be friends with again and he said ok i trust you!!

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday November 18 2005, 1:06 pm:
I`d find new friends.. you don`t need somebody like that.. ♥ Dez

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precoz answered Friday November 18 2005, 12:31 pm:
i don't think you should be friends that in the first place didn;t respect you when you were going out with him so what makes you think he;ll be there as a friend to you . you're friend sees you as competition so she trys to scare him away from you . and if she has the nerve to talk bad things about you she really doesn't care about your friendship either cause if you she wanted to keep him with her and felt secure about herself and knows he really likes her she wouldn't care if you were his friend. so diss all those two and look for something better cause you're the only one showing maturity in this situation.

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butch2 answered Friday November 18 2005, 11:27 am:
i think that you should find a way to talk with him privatley and tell him that the stuff isnt true.

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