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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that
In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.
Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?
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Thats weird I feel Im kinda of sick to when I think dirty thoughts about my family as well. But I guess its kind of growing up thing. Although I never touch them or whatever. I guess the thoughts are okay but I not quite sure the touching of the private parts and whatever else is okay. You might wanna see a counselor if you seriously think your getting too too too dirty. Do you watch porn or something may be that could help or hurt you (you'll probably get more hornier though) Get a girlfriend, be a player.
Flirt with girls like in 9th grade or something. Its better to touch them all over instead of your sisters. Hope this helps hun.
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uhm. . .i think you should really stop doing those things. . .well at least you know that you should avoid it. . .because its wrong. . .though im not trying to insult you in any way but its gross (no offense). . .you should try to be attracted to other people. . .maybe girls in your class or something. . .and youre 17!!! You could get a girlfriend maybe that can stop it and plus they're your sisters!!! Also you could slap yourself if you really really really cant control everytime you think about these things. . .or if you really want to solve your problem you could go to a therapist but make sure no one finds out. . .
and if your still having trouble. . .email me alright . . .
xoxo pia
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well first have you ever had sex with a woman? if you havent i think you should but not with your sisters. maybe if you read a magazine instead it will take your sexual focus off of them. i really feel it is wrong for you to touch her while she sleeps and fantasize about them. i think that your sexual curiosity has really gone a little to far i think you need to not get physically close with them like that. i hope that you are persuing women outside of the family. that would be a good thing. your little sister should not be looked at like that and i think that can be a dangerous situation. i think that you need some counseling hun. i dont mean it in a bad way but i feel you should seek anoymous counsoling. it can be done in private.good luck hun and i dont think you are sick i just think your hormones have been way too high and you need to stop playing with the sisters and meet women and have sex with them.
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Hey!
Well, no it isn't normal to have thoughts about your own family members. As long as your not having a sex dream/thoughts about your sisters. When you start to have "dirty" thoughts about your sisters, just try to remember that they're YOUR SISTERS. && also try to think of other girls outside of your family.
Try to think of a girl you think is attractive at your school, not in your family. Try dating around and get them off your mind.
Also, don't pose naked in front of your sisters and don't touch them innapprotiatly when play fighting. Just keep thinking of other girls.
Hope this helps, leave a message in my inbox if you need anything else.
♥ Kourtney
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