Okay i have this best friend who is pretty much like a sister, we've lived nxt door all of our lives well anyways recently b4 skool started her and her bf broke up..these 2 are like bound to get married no joke their 2 perfect together..well now that its december and she still talks to him they still talk about being together and she shows me all the conversations and everything...What im getting at is that its really starting to annoy me about how obsessed she is because all she talks about is him we will be watching a movie and shell start talking about him..everything is about him and its like its not ever her anymore. I want to tell her that its getting kind of annoying but i dont know how to tell her because i dont want her to get mad and stop talking to me. Any ideas? srry its so long i rate! <3
Additional info, added Friday December 9 2005, 1:34 pm: also he has a gf now but still talks to my friend saying how mcuh he likes her and all. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Aikens__Angelxo answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:58 pm: well for one, if he has a new girlfriend and he says how much he likes your friend, hes leading your friend on. i mean you've gotta tell her...maybe she'll be mad to begin with but she cant stay mad forever. and maybe you should tell him to stop acting like they're dating when they're not because thats just wrong, and the way to tell her shes rather annoying...is just bring it up be like do you realize you talk about him, a lot and if she says yeah be like i understand you like him but can you please try to not talk about him so much i mean dont keep your feelings inside or anything just enough so that you dont lose your head.
TinkerbellsHelp answered Saturday December 10 2005, 8:01 pm: Well dont tell her annoying. That sounds mean. Say maybe "well, you've been talking about this guy for a while, and i was thinking we could talk about something else." Or... if she starts talking about him, change the subject.
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wicked_sista answered Friday December 9 2005, 10:11 pm: i know how you feel my bestfriend is like that too. . .just talk to her calmly and tell her "(name) uhm dont get mad ok??? no offense but can you not talk about him all the time. . .cant we talk about other things?" if shes really your bestfriend she'll understand. . . [ wicked_sista's advice column | Ask wicked_sista A Question ]
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