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Anyone explain or give option on history of churches from the bible? (link)
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Wish I could offer more help. Since you aren't getting any answers though, I will offer this search for you.
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I want to get a piercing. I am thinking clit piercing..how can i get this being under 18 without a parents permission? [RI] (link)
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All legit places are going to require ID. Especially with that type of piercing. They will not risk being charged with sexual assault.
Do not allow it to be done by anyone who isn't legit. You don't want a botched job and/or infection in that area.
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I met my ex bf when I was 19 & he was 20. He went to an away college after us being together for 2 months. He was head over heels for me & would have asked to marry me within a year. I thought I loved him but I didn't because I cheated on him 3 months into our relationship. He came back for the weekend to visit & found out from one of my ex friends that I cheated. He asked me, I lied and said NO. He talked to my ex friend and then came to my work and asked again, I lied through my teeth. He finally had had enough and broke up with me and I admitted to it (October). I do know why I cheated. He went back to school. A couple weeks later we tried to be together again. (i was now 20, him 20) We broke up at the end of December because I wasn't doing everything to show him that he could trust me again. We somehow started dating again in the beginning of January. I saw him during Spring Break which was in March for a week. Then end of March, early April we both called it off. Neither of us could do it. I drove down to see him because I realized I didn't want to lose him. He told me, he didn't want to be with me and had moved on. (me 20, him 21) In June he came back home. We started dating again. Sometime in June or July, he went to the phone store, met a girl, had a good 1 to 2hr conversation and exchanged numbers with her. Told me about it a day later, I freaked, told him never to talk to her. Then his sister was trying to hook him up w some girl she knew (his sister knew we were dating but doesn't like me). I found out because I was leaving out of town in August, we were spending time together & I saw the text so he explained. I was iffy about leaving for a month with all this going on. He went to vegas with a couple guys & went to his sisters bday dinner & club with her friends. I came back & things were going alright. I was texting a guy friend I met when we were broken up but he knew I had a bf & he had no possiblity of dating me because he knew how much my bf meant to me (ill call him tim). Then one day, out of the blue, I got a 1am text from a guy I met when my bf & I were broken up in April. I texted both of those guys and one more, telling them I want nothing to do with them anymore because I love my bf and I will do anything for him. In December, he told me he finally trusted me. End of December, he told me he didn't trust me & just wanted to tell himself he did. After New Years, he came to talk to my mom. My mom told him that he can't be with me if he didn't trust me & we tried it again. I was now having a hard time trusting him but at the same time I did. About a week ago we broke up because, I wasn't trusting him, I was smothering him and maybe some other reasons he failed to mention & I don't remember. We talked last Friday and I spent the weekend with him, we had a great time. On our way back from our trip, we decided to be friends with benefits. Monday night he asked me to stay the night, we had a couple drinks & he saw that my friend Tim texted me asking how I was doing. I don't remember exactly what I said but I said somethings to him that werent nice and him as well and I left. He told me he's done with me and is moving on, he doesn't want to be my friend, he's not going to hurt either of us by getting back with me again. I told him okay I'm gone. Then a couple minutes after this told me, we should take some off and if we decide then to be friends, we can. I never replied back to this text. So after my LONG relationship I tried to shorten up, why does he want to be friends? What's going on? (link)
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I'm thinking what he was trying to say is that you can't be friends now, but maybe someday with time you can be.
Relationships, like everything else, are partly habit. Right now you two date then break up all the time. You are probably not meant for each other romantically. You need to put time & distance between you for now. Break the habit. Who knows, you may meet 10 years from now and be able to laugh about it as friends. But not soon.
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A lot of the time I think about my two best friends' boyfriends. Isane I know! I know that it's not right, trust me, I realize that I shouldn't be. But it's so hard. One of them I see on more of a physical level since I don't know him all that well. I think about him because when we hangout with his gf(my bestfriend) he gives off subtle signals to me or at least I think so. Plus he has told her how he likes me so much constantly and a whole bunch of really good stuff about me, says I'm so pretty, calls me "beautiful" to my face. My other bestfriends bf I have known for a really long time. He is one of my best guy friends, maybe even my number one guy friend. We have an amazing bond, just one of those things that every minute is like you're in bliss talking to them...and it really is. We're always laughing and having fun. I catch him staring at me all the time and I admit that I even catch myself staring back. It's almost like i can't control it. I know it's wrong to be thinking about them but I can't help it. What's your opinion? Is it ok just to think and not act? (link)
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You don't mention having your own boyfriend. That may be the cure. It may be to simple a answer, but it could be that you like the idea of the kind of relationships they have.
Whatever you do, don't act upon your attraction as long as your friends are still dating these guys. I'm willing to bet it won't happen once you find the right guy for yourself.
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I am 26 years old and having problems with my stepmom for at least 15 years. She continues to make negative remarks about my mother. I have tolerated her as long as I feel I can. I would like to have a relationship with my father, but he always sticks up for her. My sister told me of my stepmoms most recent remarks. I need some opinions of how I can calmly approach my dad without putting my sister in the middle and at the same time getting him to understand where I am coming from. Any ideas would really help. (link)
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Simply tell him that while you want to have a relationship with him, you will no longer put up with his wifes immature remarks about your mom.
Tell him you are not going to argue with him about it. Thats just the way it is going to be. Period.
Better yet, tell them both at the same time.
It would be even better if your sister went along with you & you both made a stand. As long as one of you is allowing it to continue, it probably will.
Good luck.
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ok, so i like this boy alot and my friend told him that i liked him and we excahngeed numbers...then my friend liked his other friend so we all went to the movies, well me and this boy kind of kissed and stuff. well the next day i was all happy and stuff, then that week i like called him every day but i was afraid to talk to him so we were quiet on the phone like always. then their came a time where he just cussed me out cuz i wouldn't suck his you know what. the next day i told him sorry. then i told this other boy that went to his school that i was going to fight him, and i told another boy from his school that i lost ma v card by him but it was a lie. but they told him and he got all mad cussin me out sayin well you are a tweak ur on my dick get off o and i didnt mention that he was still in love with his ex but anyways he just said alot of stuff that hurt me and i dont know what to do???
Im ashlee and im 15
and the boys name is corey and he is 16 "I NEED ADVICE!!!!!" (link)
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Dump him. Fast. He is abusive & you are allowing it.
Stop it now.
Any boy/man who cusses you out is abusive. You don't deserve that. Any guy/man who expects you to get sexual with them the minute he starts going out with you is abusive. He doesn't care about you. He cares about getting his rocks off. Period.
You have mentioned he is still in love with his ex. Let her have him. Maybe she just got wise and booted him to the curb. You don't have to put up with him.
Never, ever put up with being so disrespected. You are better than that. Never allow some guy to tell you what to do. A healthy relationship isn't that way. A good guy will respect you. He won't cuss you out or use you for sex. Please, do not even speak to this ass again.
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two guys like me alot but i cant seem to choose one im wit one but want to be wit both (link)
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You know, it could be that the high divorce rates of today, are in part caused by the youth not dating enough different people. I know it sounds odd but pairing up and mating for life is something you do when you are older. There is no reason at all you shouldn't be dating both of these guys.
Now, when I have suggested this before I have had girls say, " that will make me a slut". No, it won't. Having sex with a bunch of guys makes a girl a slut. Dating and getting to know many different guys makes you smart.
So, date them both. don't get tied down to any one guy. Teen years are for hunting not mating for life. If they can't see that, they aren't the one for you anyway. Of course, they will do the same.
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so im 16 years old & live in MA, and i have a terrible sleeping dissorder and i can never go to sleep, pills dont help me. but when i smoke weed i have no problem falling asleep and staying asleep. i also have bad back pains. i was wondering if it was possible for me to get a medical marijuana card? (link)
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Not in MA. According to the map medical marijuana is not legal there.
http://norml.org/index.cfm?Group_ID=4516
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Is Opium heroin or is it another drug completely?? (link)
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Heroin is made chemically by using opium.
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I am having soreness and swelling in my throat and I really need to know how you know when u need tounsels pulled since it isn't getting better and it has been weekz! (link)
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You need to go to the doctor and be checked for strep throat.
They won't remove your tonsils unless you have chronic sore throats. Then a parent will usually have to request they remove them.
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I have a boyfriend who asked me if I wanted to experience a mènage à trois when we go to my friend's party in two weeks. I know it is sexy because we were talking about having sex at her house so I told him "yeah baby!" when I texted him back. I figured I would find out what it was when we were having sex but today he texted me and asked me to "pick the trois" and I have no clue what to do!
What are we going to be doing and what am I suppose to pick!?!
I am to embarrassed to ask anyone I know! (link)
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Below answers are right. Pick a guy. Hey why not!
You're supposed to watch him screw some other female?
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I've had constant headaches for years now. I'm a very high-stress person and the littlest thing can stress me out. I'm in college and during class I always get headaches, I used to in my high school classes as well. I also feel tension in my neck most of the time and have minor scoliosis. That could be part of it I'm not sure. My mom has really bad back issues and has headaches a lot too. I told my doctor and she said it's probably from stress, they never took X-rays or an MRI. My cousin also got really bad migraines and her MRI and X-rays were clear, no tumor. Do you think stress is the reason I get headaches a lot? Also recently, my wisdom teeth are growing in, and my temples sometimes hurt idk why. Any ideas? (link)
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I know from experience that stress can indeed cause a big headache. Mine starts in my neck & soon results in a major headache.
Its good you see your doctor. If they continue she will probably do further testing. Your scoliosis could be adding to them.
I put some heat making arthritis cream on my neck if the headache gets really bad & aspirin doesn't help. It can get hot but I prefer that to a headache any day. Might want to try it some time. :)
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on school nights, i have a strict curfew of 9 o clock, 9:30 at the latest. and usually if i was a little late, my parents wouldn't mind, but i got into a bit of trouble recently, and now my parents are really hammering the whole "be home on time" thing. problem is, the person i hang out with the most, his dad has ADD to the max, and most of the time doesnt take his medication. whenever i'm over there, he takes absolutely NOTHING serious, and could care less about my curfew. i keep trying to tell him "i'm late, i need to be home NOW" but it just won't get through his thick skull. even my friend tries to tell him that i have to be home by a certain time, and when he'll act like he's fixing to walk out the door, he'll start watching TV or playing with his puppy or take FOREVER to put his shoes on, and this keeps getting me into trouble! i was supposed to be home at 9:15 tonight, and walked into the house at 9:48. this is getting ridiculous and i'm getting in trouble. what can i do to make him realize that he needs to get me home at a certain time or i'll have my head bitten off? (link)
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If you have no place to hang out other than this friends place, I'd advise you to start telling the dad you have to be home an hour before you actually have to be home. Then, even though it takes him forever to get around, you'll maybe get home on time.
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Me and this guy i've been talking to had unprotected sex on the 23rd of january, & unfortunately he came inside of me twice. I was really scared that i might be so i told my pediatrician and he made me take a pregnancy test but it had only been like 9 days after i had sex and it came out negative. i also haven't spotted or felt any different.. only thing is that my stomach hurts sometimes after i eat but its nothing drastic. i'm supposed to get my period on the 14th, but i dont want to wait that long to find out whether i really am or not ! what would be the chance that i'm pregnant ? (link)
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Since you had your test by a doctor, I'm pretty sure you aren't pregnant. Their tests are a little more advanced than those you buy in the store.
Worry can make your period not come. So don't worry about it. Stomach pain is not a symptom of pregnancy.
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So i've been talking to this for a month now, and we talk everyday on the phone at night, we hang out every single day, and he takes me to school & then drops me off at home every day as well. BUT he wont talk to me at school. every now and then he'll talk to me but its nothing big. he tells me its because he's really shy but i seriously hate guys that are timid like that around his friends. i want him to show that we actually are talking. & i know he likes me alot because he's brought me to his house and i've met his parents, and he's always taking me out to eat and stuff, we've also had sex 3 times. but he still wont show his emotional side to me.. what can i do so that he'll open up and maybe show everyone that we really are talking? (link)
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It sounds to me as if you have a relationship with a guy who isn't into public displays of affection. That doesn't necessarily mean he is shy. It simply means he feels his relationships are nobody elses business.
If you feel you need the public show for a relationship to be good, you are dating the wrong guy. Some people just don't have the need to let everyone else into their private life.
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does the medicine acutane increase breast size as a side effect? (link)
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No. It does not increase breast size.
Here is a list of side effects and the reason it should be a last resort medication.
Common:
Conjunctivitis (``pinkeye''), dry or fragile skin, dry or cracked lips, dry mouth, dry nose, itching, joint pains, nosebleed.
Less common:
Bowel inflammation and pain, chest pain, decreased night vision, decreased tolerance to contact lenses, delay in wound healing, depression, fatigue, headache, nausea, peeling palms or soles, rash, skin infections, stomach and intestinal discomfort, sunburn-sensitive skin, thinning hair, urinary discomfort, vision problems, vomiting.
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my face is getting chubby. does anyone know any ways to lose weight in your face? (link)
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Diet and exercise is the only way. You can't lose weight in just one area, it has to lost everywhere.
I do know from experience that your face is one of the first places weight loss shows up.
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so my girlfriend and i both drink well we have our ups and downs just like every couple but when we fight its always my fault she will say i always am in a bad mood or get upset about somethin everytime we drink and if we hanging with ppl she will be like it was cool hangin guys but ig otta go cuz shes(me) actin dumb. and it always my fault i do this or that or i want everything my way and i dont. and i always hurt her but she can never hurt me. what can i do? i dont wanna leave her because i do love her. (link)
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Since you did mention it, I think you know the problem is most likely the alcohol. It is a depressant so it isn't surprising that it would cause bad moods, upset, and inappropriate behavior & reactions to it.
Try this. Don't drink, either of you, for the next month. See if doing without the drinking improves your relationship. If you are unable to get by for that long without drinking, your may have other problems to deal with.
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I've been depressed probably for about 7 years now. I have suicidal tendencies and have battled self mutilation on and off. Over the last four years I've seen about three different psychologists, I've tried multiple different kinds of medication and nothing seems to be helping. Its very hard for me to get close or comfortable with a psychologist because i always get the feeling that they have pre-made judgments about the situation and are too quick to tell me i'm wrong than to actually listen to what i have to say. I don't believe that just because thy have studied psychology they can actually relate and understand what is going on in my head. It seems like all the answers they have are very cliche and could easily be found in a self help book. I was on different medication such as prozac, lexapro, welbutrin, etc and none of it really made a significant difference. Nothing seems to be helping. I try to be happy but after a certain point its not a choice anymore. No one would chose to be miserable. I know there has to be a way to fix everything but i feel as if I've tried everything and i don't want to give up but it almost seems as if i'm supposed to. Why should i have spent nearly half of my life depressed for no reason. I need to know what ways there are to get happy befor eits too late. (link)
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Sooner or later you are going to have to give one of the psychologists a chance. While its true some of them have never been where you are, they can help you get better. Its just not going to happen overnight. It can take a lot of time.
It can also be hard for them to find the right medications and correct dosages to make you feel better. Everyone is different.
You have to hang in there and give someone a chance to help you. It takes time for them to get to know you as a person and not just a list of symptoms. Until they do they can only treat those symptoms.
Good luck.
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Hello im lee, im 27 years old i just need some advice. My bf got married lastweek a family arrange marriage. Due to we are not same nationality his family refuse to marry my bf. Now i still love him. Shall i forget him? We have more promises. How can i move on? I want to forget him. (link)
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This really isn't as complicated as some may think. It is very sad, but the answer is easy. You do have to move on.
You probably won't forget him, but you have to put him in the past. He is now a married man. He chose to go with family tradition instead of being with you. He is not the guy for you.
You move on by getting out there and seeing other guys. You may not want to jump into dating right away so start by going out with your friends. Get out & do things. It won't happen right away but you will get past the pain of it and move on.
Whatever you do, do not continue to see or talk to the now married ex. He is history.
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