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how do i get him to open up to me !
So i've been talking to this for a month now, and we talk everyday on the phone at night, we hang out every single day, and he takes me to school & then drops me off at home every day as well. BUT he wont talk to me at school. every now and then he'll talk to me but its nothing big. he tells me its because he's really shy but i seriously hate guys that are timid like that around his friends. i want him to show that we actually are talking. & i know he likes me alot because he's brought me to his house and i've met his parents, and he's always taking me out to eat and stuff, we've also had sex 3 times. but he still wont show his emotional side to me.. what can i do so that he'll open up and maybe show everyone that we really are talking?
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It sounds to me as if you have a relationship with a guy who isn't into public displays of affection. That doesn't necessarily mean he is shy. It simply means he feels his relationships are nobody elses business.
If you feel you need the public show for a relationship to be good, you are dating the wrong guy. Some people just don't have the need to let everyone else into their private life.
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Maybe if he's so shy, you can help him to open up. At school when he's around his friends, you can go up to him and be yourself. Let them know you guys are more than friends. Maybe if that happens often, then he will slowly get use to it and open up. It always help by talking to the person, have you try talking to him about it? If he likes you a lot I'm sure he will put effort in doing so. It seems like you're going to have to make the move and help him out a little :]. It takes time, but it'll happen as long as you try. So 1. talk to him about it. 2. Maybe start hanging out around him and his friends (but don;t make it awkward). Then tell me how that goes :]. I understand how you feel, but since it seems like hes already very comfortable around you, it shouldn't take long for him to be able to open up to at any time.
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