Well there is this one girl that I truly love and want to be with. She is very nice and can always keep me happy. I have known her for years now but whats keeping us apart is that she lives far away. I really want her to know that I love her and that she means everything to me. She can always keep me smiling when we talk and laugh all the time. It has been recently that she is getting busy so we don't get to talk with each other that much. I would miss her everyday when I'm not able to see her. I really want us to be together one day but what else can I do for the time being? [18/M] ~PQ
I guess for the time being you should focus on the things you need to do, the present. Time passes by faster than u may think. So for now, just try to have fun with your friends, that often keeps your mind off things, so don't think about it too much. The day will come eventually hopefully :].
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I have this girl that I have known for a very long time. She is the most amazing girl I have ever meet. I was never able to have a chance with her because of distance, but I am willing to wait for her. I believe she is worth the wait because that is just how amazing I think she is. I always tell her how I feel, but she don't feel the same way because of the distance too. She is the type of person who wants to be able to see the person in person in order for her to feel something. I know many people say I should get over her, but it is very hard for me. She has always been on my mind since the day I started having feelings for her. I know that there will be better girls out there and that she isn't the only one, but the thing is I really don't want any girl except her. I know I am very young to think this, but I have thought about it for a very long time, more than you can imagine, but I want to be with her or give it a shot to be with her. I know i can get hurt in the end, but being with is worth it cause I won't have any regrets as long as I had the chance to be with her and that I really know that we weren't meant to be. Until that day comes I am still willing to wait for her. She just means that much to me even though I know she doesn't believe. What should I do with all this? I have tried thinking about many possible outcomes but I don't know what to do/
SAME PERSON.
"Follow your heart"
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Well I know this girl for a very long time. She is very special to me. I was hoping that one day I will surprise her with a lot of things to show her how I feel. But the thing is, she doesn't want to be shown anything when I see her again. I think I should do it anyway, cause at least I finally show her how I feel instead of just telling her. So should I show her how I feel by surprising her with the things I have planned for her when she comes down here
I KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!
"Follow your heart.."
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22/f, he's my age.
I recently got out of a relationship with a VERY sensitive guy, and it was a LONG relationship, so this all feels very new to me...
I had a very short, very tightly scheduled coffee date with a guy from a class I no longer attend. I was at work until half an hour before we were supposed to meet, and was actually at the coffee shop on time, but never called him to confirm. I didn't know he wanted me to call him beforehand, and I had forgotten my phone. I figured I'd just show up and we'd meet up. So that was my mistake, I guess.
I did call him back (an hour later) after I got his message asking if we were still on, telling him what happened, but he hasn't called me back yet. This was yesterday evening. We've hung out before, but it was under the pretense of studying, so this was gonna be our first actual date-type-thing.
My question is, should I e-mail him, too? Or will that seem too clingy/panicky/smothery? I've always felt like I understood social dynamics, but all of a sudden I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. >.<
Suggestions?
What I would suggest is just wait until he says something. Because of course..you wouldn't want to be too clingy or desperate..or making it seem like its more than what it is. So just wait for awhile(few days at most)..if he's interested && got your messages, etc. he will reply to you. Or if you have a chance..talk to him about it casually whenever you do see him somewhere. :)
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so me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 2 weeks and it will be three on valentine's day. Obviously im not expecting much and neither should he.I feel as though he isn't even going make me a card or get me flowers or anything ,because he hasn't said ONE thing about valentines day.I've mentioned it several times and he barely acknowledges.I wanted to get him this shirt that he picked out that he really likes and some home made cookies and a little card...but i have no clue if he's even going to the trouble to do anything for me .He doesn't drive but I do ,and if he came up with a cute idea for something for us to do on valentines day,i'd be happy to drive..i just don't know ! Do most guys recognize valentine's day ? I don't know what to do!
I will try my best to answer this question, but Im not sure if I will be accurate because you know ur bf better than i do haha. In general, most guys to recognize valentine's day, especially when he has a gf. Who knows..maybe he has something cute planned out? I'm just assuming. If you have trouble figuring out what you both are going to do. Why not just ask him. "What should we do on valentines day?", "Do you want to do something on valentines day?", "Should we go out on V-day?" a question similar to that won't give out much. Asking that will not give anything away about what you will do for him, it won't make it seem like you expect anything much, it's subtle and it wont give away anything but just for you to know if you are going to celebrate it or not && know what to be planned. I really don't have much to say, because I don't personally know him. But if hes a good sweet guy, && treats u very well. Im sure he has something at least, but even if he doesn't there would be a reason. Gifts don't always explain everything. You might be in for a surprised. There's many ways in which he can show you how much he likes/loves you. && if he doesn't give you anything, && when you give him his im sure his reaction will give you a lot of happiness hopefully seeing that he appreciates it a lot. So don't get too caught up in it. I'm almost completely sure that things will turn out wonderfully for you :].
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well i have known this girl for along time and i am crzy about her i would want to be able to do things for her that makes her happy. everyday i would miss her everyday. she is everything i want in a girl. Techenically she is my dream girl. n she means everything to me she is a very special girl to me n i dont think she really understand that. she might be all this to me but she lives far away from. i hav tried for years to get over her but nothin i do works. so she has always been in my heart n i cant her out of it. but i also dont want her out of it cause she makes happier than she will ever kno. even though i tell her how i feel i dont think she dont truelly understand how i feel, hopefully she will. she is all this to me but the thing is she lives very far away from me, n i really cant let her go no matter how hard i try, so wat should i do
Sweetie..Like it or not...distance plays a huge part in a relationship. If you like someone that much, but you live far away what else can you do? forget her.. this is a complex situation because its hard enough to completely forget her...but it will be even harder if you still talk to her && still want to be friends. I think the best thing to do...is to NOT think of that. Be her friend, enjoy your life, you never know what will happen, another special girl might just appear in front of you :]. It will be difficult, but thats only NOW. The "NOW" will be over..over time. && great things will happen. I know reading this might not help you, because you might not believe that you CAN do it, and what im saying now might not mean much to you, believe it or not.. its true. Just know that you have time. There's a lot of people in the same boat as you, their able to get through it..some might take longer than others..but you will be able to overcome it. Keep yourself occupied. Stay positive don't think negative. You will be happy soon, you just have to waitt for it. Patient is virtue.(i know a lot of people say that, you may heard it many times) but that's because its true. Do anything to keep ur mind off it, && just enjoy your life. I wish you the best. :)
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i had a weird dream last night, and this girl I've like since 8th grade was in it. it wasn't sexual or anything like that, i cant remember it exactly, but I've had dreams similar to this before with her in it too, i definitely still like her, but i haven't hung out with her in awhile. i go to a different school and stuff now. I don't know why, if it was coincidence but her bf just broke up with her a few days ago too. How can we get reconnected again, without it being awkward? I really really wanna get back with her again
What a coincidence. You know often, people think more than they should when it comes to the person they like. So because you like her, you put more thought in how to reconnect and talk to her again, but it's real simple. With any other person, if you want to talk to the person again, what do you do? You just simple say " hey its been awhile, i miss you!", "hey how its going? haven't talked to you for awhile." The more simple you keep it, you less obvious it is. I know from experience trust me..usually when you like someone you may "over-think" just a bit haha. Though you both go to different schools doesn't mean you cant still be friends or anything? But remember not to rush into things! If you both are suppose to be together, it will happen. So right now just play it cool, talk how you would usually talk to any other, after you do it. you will feel great. Hope it all works out for ya hun! :]
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my younger sister is 16 years old. now, i'm not on the greatest terms with her because we have pretty much nothing in common; she follows the crowd 100%, i ahve a mind of my own.
BUT her following the crowd is getting seriously out of hand. she smokes (she even stole my ID once to buy cigarettes), drinks, does drugs (yes, i know this is pretty much typical high school behavior >_< don't lecture me ont hat part), does graffiti, constantly lies to my parents about where she's going, and is pretty much a slut. I know this may be harsh, but she hooks up with a new guy every other day, wears VERY inappropriate clothing (doing everything she can to show off her boobs / ass), etc. and she doesn't even know most of the people she hangs otu with; she meets them on myspace or something and THEN hangs out with them. and she does all of this because she thinks it's the COOOL thing to do :\
anyway, moving on. nothing my parents seem to do WORKS. she's been caught with almost everything I listed above, but nothing's changed her ways. the thing is, they'll come down on her harshly the day theyf ind out, but in two or three days, she's back to normal and they leave her alone. sometimes they actually REMEMBER she's punished, but that doesn't work, either. after the punishment's over, she reverts back to her old self. (she's been caught shoplifting once, and police involvement pretty much stopped her from stealing)
So, recently, I've been thinking of "telling on her" to the police. (Not for ALL the shit she does, maybe the least serious one) I just feel that if the cops were involved, the scare might actually make her rethink things. I feel it may be the ONLY way for her to learn her lesson.
But of course, this'd have some serious ramifications.
1) negative impact on her future (colleges / jobs dont' really want a criminal there)... but then again, the stuff she does now can definitely impact her future (STDs, addictions, etc.)
2) kill my family's reputation. we'd all be judged because she's been arrested or something. my parents would be seen as bad parents for not being able to curb her behavior themselves, for raising such a child, etc. and i'd be known as the criminal's sister.
3) etc.
anyway, i know this is a CRAZY idea. without insulting me, please, just tell me what you think of my idea or if there's ANY other possible solution out there. my sister and i aren't on good terms, btu really. her behavior has to stop.
With your idea, i can tell you really want to stop this. But im sure theres other ways. Perhaps, you should call her out. EVERYTHING, let everything out && show ur emotions. Dont let it all be yelling and criticizing. You can do that but ALSO let her know how much she means to you and your parents. Let her know that you care. Everything she does can ruin her life..but of course words only work for quit some time. SHOW it to her. SHOW HER what it would be like if she continues what shes doing. For example...some ideas might be..making an appointment with someone who deals with teens involving with what ur sisters in. Show her how Juvi is like. If she can face ALL of that...&& not get affected....then i will be surprise. But you will have to think of a way to do that..maybe try contacting somebody. i don't know exactly who..but you can always start off with the cops haha. I know this sounds extreme but it really isn't. A lot of people use this technique, but only if NOTHING else works. She needs to know what she's doing to herself. While she's still young, it's easier to stop it. Hope you luck with this situation. Let me know how it goes :]
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I'm head over heels with a guy that has a serious girlfriend. Him & me are good friends, but I don't know the girlfriend that well. I don't want to be a 'homewrecker' but I truly like him more and more everyday. I haven't felt this way in years, so when I feel it, it's real. We basically act like bf/gf, and other people are noticing it. I know that if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't want some girl being all over him, so I don't cross any lines. I flirt and I just want him to know that there's other options out there. He's a genuine good guy that would never cheat. I think he's getting tired of his relationship, and I can't avoid him because we see eachother almost every other day, and I honestly don't want to. What am I supposed to do about all this? [19/f]
I'm going to start off by saying sorry if you don't like my advice. You seem like a very genuine girl and knows her black and white and thats good. If its a serious relationship, you wouldn't want to mess it up if he's happy with it u being his friend and all. But according to what you said && if you think he's tired of it then sooner or later they will probably break up. The only thing i have to say is to be patient. I know its hard, but just be patient, your day will come. As long as you let him know that you are "interested", but of course don't do anything that would cross the line or anything, but just let him know. SO if he has feelings towards you, he'll be more likely to confess if he knows you feel the same way. :)
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ok so there are these 2 guyz i like... one is my best friend that i feel totally comfertable around n i feel i almost love him...AS A FRIEND;; i dont get to see him often but when i do we're totally all over each other... but lately we havent hung out much... i mean like once every 2 weeks:(;; and then theres the other guy who i like a lot and get to see all the time but we're more like friends but thats not what i want us to be... i want somethin more;; and i heard from his friends that he likes me a lot but when i'm around him hes too shy so i cant tell if he truely does or if they're just saying that.. so i need some advice! please! ~THANKS~
This is a common issue. Personally, I think that you and you "best friend" will eventually be more than friends. Because most likely, that just always happens. But you don't want to mess that up. But RIGHT NOW. I think you should go for the other guy since you like him so much. If you can't tell if he likes you, maybe you should try finding out for sure from yours or his friends. But it's always better to hear it from the person himself. So if you're not too shy, and if you and that guy are pretty close friends. Maybe you should give him some kind of a hint that you like him, cause when he knows you do and he likes you back im pretty sure he will tell you. Or simply, GO FOR IT! If you && the guy have a close n pretty strong friendship, it shouldn't be a problem. Just ask him those basic simple questions. "soo do you like anyone"? (without making it obvious of course) if he ask you back...&& u hesitat to answer him but he keep asking. The more he wants to know, the more sure you should be that he likes you :]. Just try that for now. Hope this helps! Just add the little pieces together. If he likes you. It should get more obvious. :)
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So i've been talking to this for a month now, and we talk everyday on the phone at night, we hang out every single day, and he takes me to school & then drops me off at home every day as well. BUT he wont talk to me at school. every now and then he'll talk to me but its nothing big. he tells me its because he's really shy but i seriously hate guys that are timid like that around his friends. i want him to show that we actually are talking. & i know he likes me alot because he's brought me to his house and i've met his parents, and he's always taking me out to eat and stuff, we've also had sex 3 times. but he still wont show his emotional side to me.. what can i do so that he'll open up and maybe show everyone that we really are talking?
Maybe if he's so shy, you can help him to open up. At school when he's around his friends, you can go up to him and be yourself. Let them know you guys are more than friends. Maybe if that happens often, then he will slowly get use to it and open up. It always help by talking to the person, have you try talking to him about it? If he likes you a lot I'm sure he will put effort in doing so. It seems like you're going to have to make the move and help him out a little :]. It takes time, but it'll happen as long as you try. So 1. talk to him about it. 2. Maybe start hanging out around him and his friends (but don;t make it awkward). Then tell me how that goes :]. I understand how you feel, but since it seems like hes already very comfortable around you, it shouldn't take long for him to be able to open up to at any time.
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Hello im lee, im 27 years old i just need some advice. My bf got married lastweek a family arrange marriage. Due to we are not same nationality his family refuse to marry my bf. Now i still love him. Shall i forget him? We have more promises. How can i move on? I want to forget him.
Hi Lee. Well this is a complicated situation. It depends, what are the thoughts of your bf? Does he love you? Is he going to go through with the marriage? I think it would depend on how you both feel for each other. If you both have a strong enough relationship, I'm sure you can get through this. But if you don't,then perhaps you should forget him. It might be hard, maybe the hardest thing you ever will go through, but eventually, time will heal it. It definitely will. You just have to deal with patience. So with your situation, that's all i can give you right now. But maybe with more details i'll be able to give you more helpful/useful advice. :] Hope all goes well!
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