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I'll have a large miscommunication with "I forgot my phone" and a work...
22/f, he's my age.
I recently got out of a relationship with a VERY sensitive guy, and it was a LONG relationship, so this all feels very new to me...
I had a very short, very tightly scheduled coffee date with a guy from a class I no longer attend. I was at work until half an hour before we were supposed to meet, and was actually at the coffee shop on time, but never called him to confirm. I didn't know he wanted me to call him beforehand, and I had forgotten my phone. I figured I'd just show up and we'd meet up. So that was my mistake, I guess.
I did call him back (an hour later) after I got his message asking if we were still on, telling him what happened, but he hasn't called me back yet. This was yesterday evening. We've hung out before, but it was under the pretense of studying, so this was gonna be our first actual date-type-thing.
My question is, should I e-mail him, too? Or will that seem too clingy/panicky/smothery? I've always felt like I understood social dynamics, but all of a sudden I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. >.<
Suggestions?
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I think you should wait a few days. He might not have had time to reply to your messages.
You could try calling him again in a few days. but then if he doesnt answer, then let it go, it wasnt meant to happen.
If you ever run into him somewhere, just talk to him.
Good luck!
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What I would suggest is just wait until he says something. Because of course..you wouldn't want to be too clingy or desperate..or making it seem like its more than what it is. So just wait for awhile(few days at most)..if he's interested && got your messages, etc. he will reply to you. Or if you have a chance..talk to him about it casually whenever you do see him somewhere. :)
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