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I'm head over heels with a guy that has a serious girlfriend. Him & me are good friends, but I don't know the girlfriend that well. I don't want to be a 'homewrecker' but I truly like him more and more everyday. I haven't felt this way in years, so when I feel it, it's real. We basically act like bf/gf, and other people are noticing it. I know that if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't want some girl being all over him, so I don't cross any lines. I flirt and I just want him to know that there's other options out there. He's a genuine good guy that would never cheat. I think he's getting tired of his relationship, and I can't avoid him because we see eachother almost every other day, and I honestly don't want to. What am I supposed to do about all this? [19/f]
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Honestly I think you are best off waiting to see what goes on with his current relationship. You dont want to be the cause of a break up. If he likes you more than his girlfriend he will leave her when the time is right. There isnt anything you can do with out being a home wrecker.
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I'm going to start off by saying sorry if you don't like my advice. You seem like a very genuine girl and knows her black and white and thats good. If its a serious relationship, you wouldn't want to mess it up if he's happy with it u being his friend and all. But according to what you said && if you think he's tired of it then sooner or later they will probably break up. The only thing i have to say is to be patient. I know its hard, but just be patient, your day will come. As long as you let him know that you are "interested", but of course don't do anything that would cross the line or anything, but just let him know. SO if he has feelings towards you, he'll be more likely to confess if he knows you feel the same way. :)
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