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new boyfriend on valentines day
so me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 2 weeks and it will be three on valentine's day. Obviously im not expecting much and neither should he.I feel as though he isn't even going make me a card or get me flowers or anything ,because he hasn't said ONE thing about valentines day.I've mentioned it several times and he barely acknowledges.I wanted to get him this shirt that he picked out that he really likes and some home made cookies and a little card...but i have no clue if he's even going to the trouble to do anything for me .He doesn't drive but I do ,and if he came up with a cute idea for something for us to do on valentines day,i'd be happy to drive..i just don't know ! Do most guys recognize valentine's day ? I don't know what to do!
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You know, Some guys don't really have the interest in romantic encounters. They just expect for you to do all of the work, and in hopes that you wont recognize that they really actually haven't done anything to help. It really depends on the guy's personality, wether or not he is going to do something for you. If he seems like the type that might be interested in mushy things- he might be interested in being romantic on valentines day. If he is the kind of guy that is only focused on sports, or seems to be jumping around from girl to girl, he might not be as interested as some other types of guys might be. It would be my best guess to tell you that you need to talk to him before you do anything, and ask him what he would like to do. Don't just wait for him. You need to step up and take charge.
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So my husband knew all about valentines day because we planned on a certain day which was yesterday to get our kids their valentines day stuff. Now he has been talking about valentines day and wanting to do something. So we went out to dinner last night. ( I am verryy pregnany so not sure if ill make it to valentines day or not. Guys are silly. if he doesnt plan anything dont be hurt. but hell relize you wanted him to when he sees the trouble you went through.
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I will try my best to answer this question, but Im not sure if I will be accurate because you know ur bf better than i do haha. In general, most guys to recognize valentine's day, especially when he has a gf. Who knows..maybe he has something cute planned out? I'm just assuming. If you have trouble figuring out what you both are going to do. Why not just ask him. "What should we do on valentines day?", "Do you want to do something on valentines day?", "Should we go out on V-day?" a question similar to that won't give out much. Asking that will not give anything away about what you will do for him, it won't make it seem like you expect anything much, it's subtle and it wont give away anything but just for you to know if you are going to celebrate it or not && know what to be planned. I really don't have much to say, because I don't personally know him. But if hes a good sweet guy, && treats u very well. Im sure he has something at least, but even if he doesn't there would be a reason. Gifts don't always explain everything. You might be in for a surprised. There's many ways in which he can show you how much he likes/loves you. && if he doesn't give you anything, && when you give him his im sure his reaction will give you a lot of happiness hopefully seeing that he appreciates it a lot. So don't get too caught up in it. I'm almost completely sure that things will turn out wonderfully for you :].
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