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weird dream
i had a weird dream last night, and this girl I've like since 8th grade was in it. it wasn't sexual or anything like that, i cant remember it exactly, but I've had dreams similar to this before with her in it too, i definitely still like her, but i haven't hung out with her in awhile. i go to a different school and stuff now. I don't know why, if it was coincidence but her bf just broke up with her a few days ago too. How can we get reconnected again, without it being awkward? I really really wanna get back with her again
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Well, to be honest.. I don't think you need to base anything on dreams. Then again, maybe it's fate. I sure to believe in serendipity, but maybe it's not. If you have her number, call her up and chat for a while, maybe get to know her and her life a little better. Meet for a movie, or dinner. Anything casual- just to get to be friends again. If you don't have her number, then email her or facebook her if you two have a facebook. But, if she doesn't respond, then I think it would be best to let go.
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Well...this is intresting. There's a lot of diffrent theorys on dreams. Sigmund Froid believed that dreams were sexual wants and desires, nothing more. For example: If you drempt about a pencil inside a holder than the pencil was a penis and the holder was the vagina. Or a dream that you were putting books inside a box. His theorys were very falic. Also did you know that you can control your dreams? Not only did my psychology book confirm it but this is what happened. I had a dream that I was getting chased by 6 cop cars, and when I pulled over, I woke up just enough to know that it was a dream. I immeadatly closed my eyes and picked up where I started from...so I flipped them off and sped away laughing. During my dream I knew for a fact that I wasn't in realiaty. Now did I have that dream due to an under lined want to break the law...no.
My awnser is this, go after what you want regardless of what your dreams mean, or what you think they mean. During the day your mind is receiving millions of pictures, lights, colors, and information. Your eyes move so fast from one point to another that you are actually BLIND for 44 minutes every day. Your brain actually shuts its perception off between eye jerks, so...for 44 min your not seeing anything, cool eh. Its so it can save time and energy. Could you imagine looking at every little thing before you left a room, god no! During a dream, your mind is basically emptying the mental email-mail so to speak. There's just to much info during each day. When you wake up you see hundreds of things in your bedroom that you don't pay attention to. your brain sees it though. While you sleep your brain processes info. Have you ever studied so hard in math that you dream #s. Its its own way of arranging things to be stored so you can remember. If you sleep right after you study you are 40% more likely to do better on an exam, than studing in the morning. !FACT! Now let's cover DEJA VU. You mentioned the word "coiccidence". I believe that's what it is. For example. Your sitting in a chair...all of a sudden you get a bad feeling, and you think of your best friend,...then the phone rings... Your best friend just got killed in a car wreck......
This is just one example, there are hundreds of course. The explanation is fairly easy, you have theese feelings all the time, the ones you remember are the ones that "matter or come true" for example...I said to myself, "I think I may get off work early today." And when I did I said, "see I told ya I was !" But what I don't think about was every day for the past month I said that to my co-worker. Ok bad example, I'm rambeling, SO....yes go after your dreams...unless it has to do with getting run down by 6 state troopers of course. :)
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What a coincidence. You know often, people think more than they should when it comes to the person they like. So because you like her, you put more thought in how to reconnect and talk to her again, but it's real simple. With any other person, if you want to talk to the person again, what do you do? You just simple say " hey its been awhile, i miss you!", "hey how its going? haven't talked to you for awhile." The more simple you keep it, you less obvious it is. I know from experience trust me..usually when you like someone you may "over-think" just a bit haha. Though you both go to different schools doesn't mean you cant still be friends or anything? But remember not to rush into things! If you both are suppose to be together, it will happen. So right now just play it cool, talk how you would usually talk to any other, after you do it. you will feel great. Hope it all works out for ya hun! :]
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