ok, so i like this boy alot and my friend told him that i liked him and we excahngeed numbers...then my friend liked his other friend so we all went to the movies, well me and this boy kind of kissed and stuff. well the next day i was all happy and stuff, then that week i like called him every day but i was afraid to talk to him so we were quiet on the phone like always. then their came a time where he just cussed me out cuz i wouldn't suck his you know what. the next day i told him sorry. then i told this other boy that went to his school that i was going to fight him, and i told another boy from his school that i lost ma v card by him but it was a lie. but they told him and he got all mad cussin me out sayin well you are a tweak ur on my dick get off o and i didnt mention that he was still in love with his ex but anyways he just said alot of stuff that hurt me and i dont know what to do???
Im ashlee and im 15
and the boys name is corey and he is 16 "I NEED ADVICE!!!!!"
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? THE-RACK answered Friday February 19 2010, 9:24 pm: Boys just dont have manners nowadays. I've been cussed out and called names that NO ONE should say to anyone. I personally think parents who think they do a good job raising their kids need to do 10x better, because in the end they always say "what went wrong?". Treat these boys like they are girls, because they are, no real man or just male would talk to a female like that, so cuss them back out like they are some hoes on the corner. lol
The lies you told dont make you look good, but honestly I'd lie again and deny I ever said that lol. Most importantly, dont ever apologize for something you dont want to do, especially something as dum as oral sex. A guy who just wants that from you is NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. AT ALL. instead of saying sorry you should have said fuck you!
You may still feel hurt, that will pass, just dont talk to these guys, let them talk, they are not worth it. Hold your head up high and keep walking. =] [ THE-RACK's advice column | Ask THE-RACK A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday February 19 2010, 9:27 am: This person isn't a man, or even a boy. He's a dickhead (pardon the language!). Forget this jerk and find someone with basic common courtesy, not to mention someone who treats a lady with more respect!
You should never have apologized for not having oral sex with him. That's your choice, not his. You don't want it, he doesn't get it. End of story.
karenR answered Friday February 19 2010, 7:24 am: Dump him. Fast. He is abusive & you are allowing it.
Stop it now.
Any boy/man who cusses you out is abusive. You don't deserve that. Any guy/man who expects you to get sexual with them the minute he starts going out with you is abusive. He doesn't care about you. He cares about getting his rocks off. Period.
You have mentioned he is still in love with his ex. Let her have him. Maybe she just got wise and booted him to the curb. You don't have to put up with him.
Never, ever put up with being so disrespected. You are better than that. Never allow some guy to tell you what to do. A healthy relationship isn't that way. A good guy will respect you. He won't cuss you out or use you for sex. Please, do not even speak to this ass again. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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