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is it wrong? :/
A lot of the time I think about my two best friends' boyfriends. Isane I know! I know that it's not right, trust me, I realize that I shouldn't be. But it's so hard. One of them I see on more of a physical level since I don't know him all that well. I think about him because when we hangout with his gf(my bestfriend) he gives off subtle signals to me or at least I think so. Plus he has told her how he likes me so much constantly and a whole bunch of really good stuff about me, says I'm so pretty, calls me "beautiful" to my face. My other bestfriends bf I have known for a really long time. He is one of my best guy friends, maybe even my number one guy friend. We have an amazing bond, just one of those things that every minute is like you're in bliss talking to them...and it really is. We're always laughing and having fun. I catch him staring at me all the time and I admit that I even catch myself staring back. It's almost like i can't control it. I know it's wrong to be thinking about them but I can't help it. What's your opinion? Is it ok just to think and not act?
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You don't mention having your own boyfriend. That may be the cure. It may be to simple a answer, but it could be that you like the idea of the kind of relationships they have.
Whatever you do, don't act upon your attraction as long as your friends are still dating these guys. I'm willing to bet it won't happen once you find the right guy for yourself.
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well in my opinion its ok to think as long as your not thinking out loud which means not telling anyone about how you feel.
oventually your going to have to stop thinking about them because the more you think about them the more youll like them and we really dont want that at all!
even if hes sending off hints you cant go there!ever!these are your bestfriends' boyfriends.that a huuuge no no.trust meee i did it.i once when i was like 16 and stupid dumped my bf for his best friend and the ex would always get in the way.it drove them apart...i think you need to just get over them
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