karenR answered Friday February 19 2010, 7:16 am: You know, it could be that the high divorce rates of today, are in part caused by the youth not dating enough different people. I know it sounds odd but pairing up and mating for life is something you do when you are older. There is no reason at all you shouldn't be dating both of these guys.
Now, when I have suggested this before I have had girls say, " that will make me a slut". No, it won't. Having sex with a bunch of guys makes a girl a slut. Dating and getting to know many different guys makes you smart.
So, date them both. don't get tied down to any one guy. Teen years are for hunting not mating for life. If they can't see that, they aren't the one for you anyway. Of course, they will do the same. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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