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well I dont actually know if i have ocd or not
i have wierd little obsessions and if i dont fulfill them i feel sick and really paranoid.
I have to clean tables perfectly and arrange everything on them do its up against a wall or the back edge
I have to unplug absolutely everything before i got out or got to bed or even leave the room
I when i give someone a ' high five!' ii have to do it twice so its equals exactly ten
When i write things in my diary i have to write things in exactly ten repetative steps..
I have to write exactly 10 kisses in my diary .
And if i see a plug socket where there is nothing plugged in although the switch is on , i cant stand it and HAVE to turn it off..
Once i put the phone down i have to push it ten times to make sure ive put it down correctly..
Please help, my friends have pointed out on it and i dontknow whether i do actullay have ocd..
all advice much appreciated xxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Only a doctor can diagnose you but it sounds like you may have it.
Make an appointment with a doctor and tell him all that. He/she will see that you get the help you need for it. :)
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Hey. Alot of girls at my school are being really mean to me. I didnt even do anything. Can you please help mee?
This is what they just typed too me ;
kkay bitch well im with torie right now at lindsays house where you were not invited vicotria is poretending with you!! please i never talk to you i try and ignore you like thyt day sittin on the bench and your like ium pale cse of my hair and i was like woah bitch dont put your feet all over me and you asked lisa to go to the band room and lisas like the band room and your like the band room yeah like it was you idea and no i do hate you you are an anyyoing slut whore and lidnsay says your a tramp and torie was laughing cse you called me a lesbian when u go and make out with girls to get boys to think your hot and they onbly like you cse you ahve big boobs okay and there not big cse your mature the fatter you are the bigger pyour boobs are oh yeah let me tell yeah torie hates you summer emma emily and like a hole shit load of ppl okay and you wouldnt know thyt cse she dosent like you and she dosent trust you with anything cse she knos you'll go tell everyone
Help. Im crying my eyes out.
im 13.. (link)
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Sounds to me like you need some new friends. This group sounds like a jealous bunch that you should just stay away from.
They are jealous because you are maturing probably faster than they are and the boys are starting to notice you. Ignore them the best you can. Make friends with the boys and forget the catty little girls. :)
**EDIT**
You really do need some new friends. These girls are just trying their best to get to you. AND, its working. You will have to make them think their being mean to you isn't working. I know it is hard to do, but if you act upset while they are around
they will just continue to treat you badly. Its a
shame they have to act like they are acting.
There has to be someone else in your class they treat just as badly. Find that person or people and make friends with them. You really don't need friends like those you wrote about. They are mean and don't deserve your friendship.
Remember those other people they make fun of might not seem like friend material at first, but they may turn out to be some of your best friends in the end. Give them a try.
I wish I could tell you why they all of the sudden have decided to be mean to you. Maybe they just needed somebody new to pick on. "they onbly like you cse you ahve big boobs okay and there not big cse your mature the fatter you are the bigger pyour boobs" THAT is jealousy talking. Some boy has probably said he liked you. Probably one the
person writing that has a crush on. She is jealous!
I hope you can go to school on Monday, completely ignore this group of girls and find someone new to hang out with. Look around, there has to be someone. Maybe even someone you can call and make friends with over the phone before Monday. Make plans to hang out.
I wish you luck with it. Hope it turns out well for you hon. :)
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if you have your period at the regular time one month... and then miss it completely the next month..does it usually just come the usual time the month after that?
i know im not pregnant..
but i have been sick lately so i dont know if im stressed out or why am i missed it, and i want to know when it will come back. (link)
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Yes it usually comes about the same time as it did before you skipped a month.
Stress, weight gain or loss (lots), running or more excercise can all cause you to skip. Don't worry about it unless it just doesn't come at all. :)
*Edit*
It could be a big factor. 20 lbs is a lot. Plus the being sick and having surgery! Hope you are feeling better now. :)
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how far up is your cherry or hymen in the vagina? (link)
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It is actually not "up" at all. It is at the entrance. Here is a site. It shows a diagram. The Hymen info is at the bottom of the page so scroll down. :)
http://www.sexuality-sexology.com/sexuality/female-anatomy.html
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I'm 21/f married to a 23/m. We've been married for two and a half years and we have a five month old baby girl. We've known each other since I was sixteen. Lately we've really been having our ups and downs.
We're moving two hours away from where we live now, because of the job he got. He already moved to where we're going to be living, so he can start the job and not have to drive two hours there and two hours back each day, while I stay here and sell the house. He's living in an apartment until we sell the house and our baby and myself move there.
The problem is, I don't know how to deal with it anymore. See he's a policeman, and it's something he really loves doing. I've told him I don't want him to do it but I don't want to crush his dream of being what he wants to be just because I'll worry about him. Anyways we talk alot on the phone and he comes home almost every weekend if he has it off. But some days we don't get to talk because he's so busy with work and I'm working and taking care of the baby when I get home. I miss him so much at night I could cry and cry until I don't have tears left but I force myself not to sometimes for my baby girl. I feel alone alot and sometimes I question if he really loves me or not. Then I beat myself up over it all for thinking that when I know he does.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how long it'll have to be like this but I don't know how long I can take it. Any advice would be apreciated alot. Thanks (link)
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First is there a really GOOD reason you and the baby need to stay until the house is sold? That can take years sometimes.
I suggest you clean the house out, Pack up anything you need to keep and head on down to where he is.
Shut off the utilities at the house so you save some money there and scrimp if you have to just to stay together as a family. Find a friend or relative to deal with a realtor and just go.
You may have a good reason for staying that I don't know of...but that is what you need to do.
I am sure they have support groups for spouses of policeman. Check that out once you are moved. Being the wife of an officer is a very high stress thing! Having some women who are in your same situation will be very helpful for you.
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so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year on and off and we are really in love and im 15 and he is 17 and he is not a virgin but am. lik i feel like i want to but im scared and unsure if i want to. i want to have sex with him if he is the one im gonna be with for ever and i dont want things to change if i do. how do i know if im ready and if its true love??? (link)
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Here is a site that will help you decide. It is very good and I hope it will help you make the right decision for you. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex.htm
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ok. so im in the high school colorguard for the marching band. and we need these gloves. and they said i can purchase them at five below or at any sports store. but i have no idea what they are called. does anyone know what they are called? (link)
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I don't know what they are called either but, if you go to those stores and tell them what you need them for they will know. Especially if everyone gets them there. :)
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hey iam 17 and iam in the 11th grade and iam in special ed classes just in case you begin to wonder how I know this girl so well.There is this girl in my special ed class at school who everybody but me makes fun of just becouse she is deaf which means she can't hear or talk except with using sign language of course and everybody makes fun of her becouse of the way she laughs and becouse she can't hear and talk and so on and they have learning disabilities themselves which makes it even worse you know.This one boy pushed Ahley that's the girl iam talking about into a table and made her fall becouse he knew she couldn't tell on him becouse she's deaf which made me sick so I told the princeapal and you know what's so sad the princapal even told me to mind own business and I think if someone's picking on one of your friends it is your business don't you?I was just wondering if anybody knows any websites or special ways that I could learn sign language so I can help comminicate with this girl so if people make fun of her I can help her feel better becouse right now I can't even make her feel better which is even worse you know so please help me help my friend.
thank you. (link)
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That is very sad. Kids can be so cruel. The principal and teacher are not much better which is even worse! You might try getting a parent involved.
Sometimes a teacher or principle will suddenly get very supportive if a parent threatens to take a problem to the school board, which might not be a bad idea anyway.
There are several sign language sites. Here are a couple of good ones, and I hope they are helpful to you. You are a very good friend. :)
http://www.lessontutor.com/eesASLdictionarylinks.html
http://www.masterstech-home.com/The_Library/ASL_Dictionary_Project/ASL_Tables/A.html
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I've heard that sax players are bad kissers (and trumpet players are good kissers). I can understand the trumpet player thing, but what does playing a saxophone have to do with anything? Can anybody prove me wrong (with experience or examples or something)? (link)
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Kissing good or bad has nothing to do with what instrument a person plays. Honestly it doesn't.
Sax players are just as good as trumpet players. Think about it. Trumpet players blow spit into a tube. Why would that make them a better kisser?
Ewww!
This is what they call an old wives tale. There are many and none are true.
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OKay who sings the song with the number 8675309 and they sing it like over and over
I know its an older band
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867-5309 Jenny is sang by Tommy Tutone. :)
Here are the lyrics even though you may not want them. :)
867-5309 Jenny
Jenny, Jenny, who can I turn to?
You give me something I can hold on to.
I know you think I'm like the others before
Who saw your name and number on the wall
Jenny, I got your number,
I need to make you mine.
Jenny, don't change your number,
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
Jenny, Jenny, you're the girl for me.
You don't know me but you make me so happy.
I tried to call you before but I lost my nerve.
I tried my imagination, but I was disturbed.
Jenny, I got your number,
I need to make you mine.
Jenny, don't change your number,
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
I got it, I got it!
I got your number on the wall!
I got it, I got it!
For a good time, for a good time call....
Jenny, don't change your number.
I need to make you mine.
Jenny. I'll call your number,
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
Jenny, Jenny who can I turn to? (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
For the price of a dime I can always turn to you.
(8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
8-6-7-5-3-0-9 (8-6-7-5-3-0-9)
5-3-0-9
5-3-0-9
5-3-0-9
5-3-0-9 (//fade out//)
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I had sex with this guy. We used a condom and he didn't come inside me. He also smokes a lot of pot. What are the chances that I am pregnant? I haven't missed my period yet, but I am really scared. I am only sixteen. Please write back ASAP!! (link)
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If you used a condom you are probably not pregnant.
"He didn't come in me"...never believe that line. Teen guys can come in seconds.
Chances are good that you are NOT pregnant.
Don't worry about it. I think it will be OK. Always make them use a condom. :)
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My boyfriend and I both have an account on this site. There are some questions I ask about him that I don't want him to see. Is there any way to block a user from seeing questions, without them knowing they've been blocked.
Thank you,
JM (link)
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You could ask Dangernerd about it but I believe
multiple accounts isn't encouraged. If caught you would get banned.
You could probably change your user name and not tell him what it is. Again, something DN would have to approve and help you with.
There really isn't any way to block someone from seeing your column. He wouldn't be able to see what questions you asked either unless he is a L2 moderator. Just don't sign your name to it and it
should be pretty anonymous.
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hey.
iam 17 years old. i had sex with a 22 years old ladie,actually she's a college student.
the sex was so fun and she likes me so much, but i heard thats that against law.
so wat u advise me to do:
to abort this relation or continue in secret
and if we were catch who will get in trouble her or me?
tanx for help. (link)
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It really depends on where you live. The age of consent in MOST states is 16. Here is a chart so you can look up where you live.
http://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm
If anyone were to get into trouble it would be her.
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I got married last month and am on birth control, the patch actually. However, for the past week or so I have been experiencing occasional nausea, extreme fatigue, lower back pain, bloating, food cravings, and extremely sore breasts. I don't know if these are just symptoms from my birth control or if my bc has failed and I am pregnant. Do you think I should take a pregnancy test? And if so, when should I take it? (link)
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If those symptoms persist you should see your doctor.
You could be pregnant (take a home test anytime), or it could be side effects of your birth
control. If it is then you will need to try something different. You don't want to have to put up with all that all the time!
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So I'm thinking of going on birth control.
Because my cramps are horrible and my period is a bit too long.
But.. what do they do?
I was told they also have a breast exam thing too?
Does it hurt when they use the speculum?
Just thinking about this.. makes me sick [dizzy]
Is that bad? (link)
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They do a pelvic exam. Some do a breast exam as part of the yearly checkup.
The procedure does not take long and is uncomfortable but doesn't hurt.
Here is a site that will tell you exactly what will happen. Look around the site because it has lots of helpful info on it. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
There is another link in this category that explains breast exams also.
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I have a friend who is straight. I'm gay. We are in our low 30s. When I told him that I have very strong feelings for him, he was totally uninterested. Not only that,
but he told me that he was very disappointed in me for telling him that. (That I have feelings towards him in such a way.) My major problem is that I obsess about him. I think about him constantly during the day. I dream about him at night. Sometimes many time in one hour, uncontrollably. In sexual and non sexual terms. I think of him in many different ways. I want to know everything there is to know about him, what he does, what he likes, what he spends his time with, etc, etc, etc. My point is, I tried to stop all this thinking and wanting to be close to him, but I can't. I'm in searing mental pain every day because I think of him so much and the interest he has in me at best is being a casual/good friend, my feelings towards him are not mutual. I don't want to get up in the morning because I know what my day in that aspect will be like. I know the reality of the situation but I obsess about him, and I can't stop my thoughts, they just pop into my head without my will or consent. What can I do? Can you help me? Showing him this letter is out. So is going for professional help. As much as I think I might be able to be helped by a psychologist/psychiatrist, the hundreds of dollars of fees that they charge per hour/session is beyond what I can afford. I can barely pay my basic bills, never mind this. I need to be able to have my day, everyday, go by without thinking, dreaming and fantasizing about him. My mind needs to be free of him the way I think of him now in order to keep my sanity, to be a normal person. It has come to a point that I'm in terrible, constant anguish that I think about him 24/7 the way I do, that I can't take it anymore. Please help me! Many thanks for you time. I eagerly await your response, you might just be able to save me before I go absolutely crazy. Thank you. (link)
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There just isn't a cure for unrequited love. It takes time to get over, sometimes years if you sit and dwell on it.
The problem, (if you want to consider it a problem) with telling your friend, is that he will now be uncomfortable around you and may stop hanging around with you. That may not be such a bad thing in the long run because you are going to have to get over it.
Not having a love returned is a very painful thing. About the only cure is to find someone else to care about.
Since many people go through this in their lifetime...some more than once, I don't think it
is a mental problem you need to seek professional help for. EXCEPTION would be if you should start "stalking" behavior, which is a crime, or should you become suicidal (lets hope not).
Spend time with other friends, hopefully you have one you can talk to and vent with about it. Go out
laugh and have a good time, meet someone else who is interested. That will be your cure. It will take some time though.
Good luck to you. :)
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hay..i have a question...it might be more suitable if a doctor answered this,but i cant see one at the time..its about periods.. i havnt started yet and im 15,.. instead i get this nasty white discharge from where the period comes from..i get that discharge every day.. can anyone tell me what that does or means..does it mean thatim messed up or something because i been getting this for over a year,but its getting more as time goes....i hope this doesnt mean i cant have a period..i would hat that! please inform me!! (link)
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Discharge is perfectly normal. It consists of cervical mucus, discarded cells and harmless bacteria that are normally present in the vagina.
It natures way of keeping things clean I suppose you could say.
Since you are 15 I think you should see a doctor if you haven't already to find out why you've not started yet. It is not unheard of, some girls start late, but it still wouldn't hurt to check it out. :)
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this is stupid but its been drivin me crazy for ever!!! ok so like you kno the people on jeopardy right.. are they really that smart just because or do they like tell them what categories to research & study before they go on the show ?? thx! (link)
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They are really that smart. They have laws about getting the questions before the games. There was a BIG scandal about that years ago.
So, they do not get categories or anything at all from the show before they are on. :)
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ok well my dad isn't getting enough money here so he wants me and my brothers to come with him and my mom to saskatchewan and cheak out some greenhouses(thats were he works) and if he likes them we might move and if he doesn't like them then we don't move(yay) but if he does like them what do i do tell him i don't want to move and im not gonna or what
HELP PLZ!!!!! thanx
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You really should support your dad if he needs to move for a better paying job. You don't really gain much staying where you are if your dad can't improve
in his job any.
I know it is hard to move from friends. But you have to go where your dads work takes him. Don't make him feel bad for wanting to improve your families situation. :)
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HI!
hey , well i just got to my weight loss peak and im still eating less to keep my weight the same. But like everytime i try i end up overeating, and continue to eat eventhough im not hungry anymore. I just feel like i want something like some chocolate or something. I'm like really worried that i'll gain it all back! What shoudl i do about this overeating stuff?? (link)
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Congradulations on your weight loss! Very big accomplishment!
You know. A little chocolate every now and then won't hurt you. Not a ton of it or anything but keeping things very strict everyday, all the time
will cause you to cheat faster than giving in now and then. So eat a little chocolate and do a little extra exercise.
Overeating is a very hard thing to overcome. You just have to make yourself stop eating after one serving. If you want something extra, do more exercise.
You will have to do more exercise to stay at your desired weight anyway. Just keep at it and you will do fine. :)
Here is a good website too that has some tips on how to stop overeating.
http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0NAH/is_7_32/ai_91563265
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