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my boyfriend and how do i know when im ready
so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year on and off and we are really in love and im 15 and he is 17 and he is not a virgin but am. lik i feel like i want to but im scared and unsure if i want to. i want to have sex with him if he is the one im gonna be with for ever and i dont want things to change if i do. how do i know if im ready and if its true love???
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youll know because there wont be one doubt in your mindthat thats what you want to do, also- as cliche as it sounds- you will for sure know when you are ready for a chance of you getting pregnant. as scary as it sounds- its reality. hope i helped ya out!
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you know your ready when you don't have to ask random people on a forum if you are.
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your 15, your out to have fun, not look for true love, so screw it do what you want, there is no advice for this one, once again your 15, do what you think is fun.
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just because you hit over the year mark, doesn't mean you should have sex.
if you dont feel ready then dont do it. if he asks you, then say no. you shouldn't give a guy your virginity unless you're sure he wouldn't leave you afterwards. It has to be a serious relationship because then it feels a bit more right. If you are scared then wait.
If he really loves you, he would wait.. even if it's more than a year.
You don't really know if he's going to be with you forever. Sadly some guys usually want more sex after you done it once and if you don't give them what they want, then they will find someone else who would.
So, if he really wants to be with you.. he would wait. You should wait too.
Because I don't think you want to deal with all those little nagging thoughts.
Like.. what if he has some STD?
What if you're pregnant?
I wouldn't want to worry about it.
You would know when you're ready. When you feel comfortable with it and you aren't afraid[having second thoughts or backing out of it]
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Don't do it your not sure, If he cares for you he will wait! You will know when you are ready.
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well if he pushes you to have sezx with him then DONT .no guy should tell you what to do with your body.if he ever asks you then DONT .maybe if you are absolutly possitive that you are really truly in lve with him then you could start to consider it.but if you ever do ,please make sure you have protection(preferibly the condom)let me know how it all works out
lots of love ,lizzie
p.s it wouldnt hurt to try talking to him about it,and if you cant talk to him aabout it ,then you shouldnt be doing it.
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Here is a site that will help you decide. It is very good and I hope it will help you make the right decision for you. :)
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