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i wanna be able to hang out with my friendss!
Okay so my boyfriend name is Patrick who i am in love with well yeah me and him are getting into fights about rediculous crap! and he lives like 45 mins away and yeah i wanna see him on weekends but i dont wanna loose my friends cause of it, cause when they say wanna hang out i have to say no cause i have to be with him and he'll get mad at me if i cancel and idk i just dont know what im suppose to do. i dont want my life revolving around him and i dont know what to say or do when he does it.
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You just need to learn to balance your time between your boyfriend, and your friends. You just need to talk to him. Let him know that he can't just keep randomly making plans and expecting you to cancel on your friends, just like your friends don't expect you to just call and cancel on him. Let him know, you want to hang out with him and everything, he just needs to plan it a couple days or so beforehand so if your friends ask to hang out, you can tell them you already got plans. Maybe even dedicate a day to each. Like, fridays are for friends, saturdays are for boyfriends, sundays, either or. Or if you and friends wind up making plans on Saturday, you and your boyfriend can hang out Friday instead. I know it can probably be annoying, but he's probably just trying to spend as much time as he can with you because you two are so far away and he might be afraid you'll just move on or something or won't want to hang out with him and meet someone else who lives closer. Just talk to him, and try and work out a sort of schedule, maybe. I hope I helped.
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you have to think... whats more important
friends that last a lifetime
OR
a boyfriend that argues with you and will break up in a few years
???
what's more important to you?
think about this
I hope I helped
-volleyball2150
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first of all NO guy should be getting mad that you want to hang out with your friends,exspecially if hes in love with you.cant you try talking your friends to see him too so you can hang out with both of them???maybe some time you can go on double dates or with a bunch of your girlfriends and you boyfriend.trust me if you dont try something ,one of your relationships is gonna end either with your man or with your friends.let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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You have to remember friends over boyfriends.
If he really loves you he will UNDERSTAND that you have a life, and that you have friends, that want to hang out with you.
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