|
Hey. Alot of girls at my school are being really mean to me. I didnt even do anything. Can you please help mee?
This is what they just typed too me ;
kkay bitch well im with torie right now at lindsays house where you were not invited vicotria is poretending with you!! please i never talk to you i try and ignore you like thyt day sittin on the bench and your like ium pale cse of my hair and i was like woah bitch dont put your feet all over me and you asked lisa to go to the band room and lisas like the band room and your like the band room yeah like it was you idea and no i do hate you you are an anyyoing slut whore and lidnsay says your a tramp and torie was laughing cse you called me a lesbian when u go and make out with girls to get boys to think your hot and they onbly like you cse you ahve big boobs okay and there not big cse your mature the fatter you are the bigger pyour boobs are oh yeah let me tell yeah torie hates you summer emma emily and like a hole shit load of ppl okay and you wouldnt know thyt cse she dosent like you and she dosent trust you with anything cse she knos you'll go tell everyone
Help. Im crying my eyes out.
im 13..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
These people sound like jerks to me. Well one thing I am unsure of about your situation is, were they at one time your friends?
Whether they were or not, they probably want to fit in with popular or "cooler" people and when people, particularly girls, do that they probably don't want to hang out with former friends or people they once hungout with.
Or rather they are the type of people who just like to start crap for no reason at all.
In that case, either 1-ignore them and hang out with your real friends, or 2-contact a teacher or principal or talk to them privately and tell them what's going on. Harrassment is illegal in schools and outside of school. And you have every right to report it. If they don't do anything contact the police. They'll not only take care of the problem but take care of your school's policy.
]
Sounds to me like you need some new friends. This group sounds like a jealous bunch that you should just stay away from.
They are jealous because you are maturing probably faster than they are and the boys are starting to notice you. Ignore them the best you can. Make friends with the boys and forget the catty little girls. :)
**EDIT**
You really do need some new friends. These girls are just trying their best to get to you. AND, its working. You will have to make them think their being mean to you isn't working. I know it is hard to do, but if you act upset while they are around
they will just continue to treat you badly. Its a
shame they have to act like they are acting.
There has to be someone else in your class they treat just as badly. Find that person or people and make friends with them. You really don't need friends like those you wrote about. They are mean and don't deserve your friendship.
Remember those other people they make fun of might not seem like friend material at first, but they may turn out to be some of your best friends in the end. Give them a try.
I wish I could tell you why they all of the sudden have decided to be mean to you. Maybe they just needed somebody new to pick on. "they onbly like you cse you ahve big boobs okay and there not big cse your mature the fatter you are the bigger pyour boobs" THAT is jealousy talking. Some boy has probably said he liked you. Probably one the
person writing that has a crush on. She is jealous!
I hope you can go to school on Monday, completely ignore this group of girls and find someone new to hang out with. Look around, there has to be someone. Maybe even someone you can call and make friends with over the phone before Monday. Make plans to hang out.
I wish you luck with it. Hope it turns out well for you hon. :)
]
More Questions: |