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moving
ok well my dad isn't getting enough money here so he wants me and my brothers to come with him and my mom to saskatchewan and cheak out some greenhouses(thats were he works) and if he likes them we might move and if he doesn't like them then we don't move(yay) but if he does like them what do i do tell him i don't want to move and im not gonna or what
HELP PLZ!!!!! thanx
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Hey. I know moving is probably a really tough thing to do and that you really don't want to because it will make you sad. But, if your dad isn't getting enough money where he is now you could lose your house anyway (I know this sounds a little drastic but it's true) and then you would have to move! First of all, I would talk to your dad about how you feel though and at least you can feel like you tried. Heck, it may be a great new beginning for you and your family and you can always visit your old town :). But talk to your family about how you feel and maybe even you can research new jobs for your dad so you don't have to move :). It would show that you care and it may make a difference :). I hope this works out my friend and that my advice helped somewhat so please give feedback.
Chrissie
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I recently just moved i thought it was horrible that i moved i thought it would be pure evil.But i knew that i had to put my famies happiness ahead of mine so i agreed to move.Before i moved though i spent a lot of time with friends but i constanly brought it up i would say like "awww i dont want to move"or something and then it would kinda of wreck the happiness.what i am trying to say is if you have to move dont waste a second of the time you have left with them thinking about your new city it will riun the time.i believe there was always a reason i moved i think it was to help hannah my freind or reunite with shelby and kaycee my long lost freinds.i am positive that there is something waiting for you in your new city maybe you need to do this just stop worrying about it it isnt even for sure yet when it is then you can decide wat to do right now i would just start worrying about things you can actaully fix.your "true"friends will always be there for you no matter what so dont freal just let every thing be as it should and it wil be ok i am sure of it.life always has obsticles and bumps in the road this is just one of the many.ppl move all the time and they do fine i am sure you wil to but for now go be with your friends
~nikki~
lalagurly
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I know this probly isnt what you want to hear but the only thing yuo can do if your dad likes on of the green houses out whereevery then you guys will probly end up moving. Why? because he needs the money to support the family. I had to move the summer before my junior year and honestly i hated everything about the move and had a grudge agaisnt everyone in my family.
If he decides your family is moving then you can try to beg him to stay but i highly doubt it will do anything. Because i tried for a year straight and i still ended up moving.
KIM:)
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You really should support your dad if he needs to move for a better paying job. You don't really gain much staying where you are if your dad can't improve
in his job any.
I know it is hard to move from friends. But you have to go where your dads work takes him. Don't make him feel bad for wanting to improve your families situation. :)
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well you should tell him that you really dont want to move and that all your friends are where you live now and just talk to him about it and maybe you can ask him to find a more local job.. or something. just tell him it would be really stressful if you had to move and everything because you really like where you live now. just talk to him about it..
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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