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i need to come up with 90 dollars in a short period of time. I need a job. But I'm only 13 so not in a store or anything like that. I can't babysit. So what could i do to get this 90 dollars? please answer ASAP

well if your good with animals you could dog sit or something. Lemonade stands help. Or sell your stuff :P, ok maybe not that but you do get alot for animal sitting. Put out a flyer.
h.i.h and good luck!

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I really want to lose 3-4 pounds fast. Are there any good plans you could tell me?? ... thanks

eat healthy and excersize.

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is anyone else extremley bored?

o yea

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What is a cure for chiggers/red bugs?? They itch like crazy and I have no idea how to get rid of the little suckers! Please help me out here!!

for chigger bites you can paint nail polish on where ever they are and they go away but i dont know about red bug. but you can try it.

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sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!

ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!!

well i would definatly get to know him better since you said you dont really know him all to well. Then you can make your desicion wether you like him or not. But if your not sure if he'll cheat then i would look for a better man.

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I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!?

well if he want to be with you thats his problem but i wouldnt take back a guy who makes out and stuff with other girls. He's likly to cheat on you. So i would say forget about him. Maybe just stay as friends. Unless you really truly love him. But i think that there's a better guy out there for you.

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I have really long hair and I like to keep a defined hairline. When I was at a water park recently, I got a really bad sunburn on my head where it's parted. Any ideas on what I can do to make it feel better at least? I mean, how much can you do for a sunburn on your head?

you could try putting aloe lotion on it. i'm not sure how much it would work but it will definatly stop the burning and all that.

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What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship?

i think its fine but before you get into anything serouce i would wait until shes legaly an adult. How her parents will react i don't know, but i'm sure they have to ecept it if you two are in love, they can't do anything about it. But like i said wait till shes about 19 or so.

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OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do?

give her his fone number but since you like him too talk to her about it. she'll understand if shes a true friend.

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I am getting my room put in the basement but the problem is that the room I'm going to be in has a door to the laundry room so people will constantly be going through my room. Is there a wall or divider type thing I can put between the two rooms that is cheap? If you have specific stores that carry such things, or ideas for ways I could divide the room, please tell me!

you could always take a skinny iron rope thing and nail it across your room or where ever you want to dived the space and hang a dark curtain across it. Its cheep and it looks kool.

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i`m EXTREMELY shy on the phone.. when calling a guy to invite to a movie.. would it be easier if i did a 3 way with my friend

3 way calling with a friend would probably help, but i think if you call him your self youd probably get to talk to him more private then with your friend interupting. But i guess it depends on the person.

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well i want to go to the movies with a friend of mine, but its a girl. how do i ask a girl to go somewhere (without having a group)without it sounding like a date?

just call her up on the phone and ask if she would like to go to the moives. Or even in person, so you can see her reaction. I'm sure she wont take it as a date if you sound like a friend. Just be your self and act chilled. Everything will go great.

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Do guys give advice on here? Just randomly wondering!

yea they do but im not sure how many actually take this thing serioucly lol

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ok there is this really good and i dont know how it is by or what it is called because i usually dont listen to that kinda music but the words go:

you wanna know more more more about me
im the girl whos kicking the coke machiane
im the ones thats honking at you 'cause i left late agian
hey hey hey
could you see i want you by the way i push you away
yea
dont judge me tomorrow sumthing sumthing really fast

hey hey get tangled up in me


if you need more of the song just tell me!!

the songs called Tagled up in me by Skye Sweetnam.
Its an awesome song i love it! She also has a few other ones that are great! Billy S. and Number One ect...
h.i.h.

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my school is having a talent show. i dont know why, but i cant sing in front of people. i've sang in front of my friend and she said i was really good. i think im good too, but im still scared about singing in the talent show. I have the perfect song and i keep telling myself i can do it but im still really nervous!! help me. how could i make it so i could sing and not be shy or scared?

its always hard and nervus the first few times you sing infront of a crowd. I auditioned for mine but got nervus, they said i had a great voice ect. So just try to do your best. If you mess up you'll always have another chance next year.
good luck!
simone

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theres this boy that i like. But his like my best best best guy friend. sometimes he flirts with me, we do everything together, his brother n'd my brother are friends... what should i do?? should i ask him out or should i wait until he makes the move?...

lifes to short to wait so id say make the move first. I mean it cant be that bad.. plus the guy would be happy that he didnt have to make the move first, its just as hard for them as it if for us.

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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex i would say two weeks ago this happened. and while we were having sex and he cum. and after we got done he noticed the condum was not on him anymore. Later when i got into the shower i noticed that i was kinda sore down there and thats when i relaized that the condum was stuck in me. My friends mom said that there is a 99% chance that I could get pregnant is this true.. Lately i have been feeling sick to my stomach but it could always be from the hot wheater.. is it too soon to get a test .. What do i do? do you think i might be pregnant.

it's possible that you could be. If your sick to your stomach then that could be an early side affect of being pregnant. I would maybe wait a week or two and then take a test and see if you are. Good luck to ya!
simone

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when do people usually start babysitting.. and how much do they usually get in an hour??

well i think parents trust babysitters more around the age of 13 14ish but you can actually start babysitting when your 11. And i would say 5$ an hour unless they would like to pay you more.

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i am going to disney world tonight. should i wear my baithing suit under my clothes? jus in case i get wet? or should i wear a blakc shirt? thats all i packed anyway.

i would wear the baithing suit under neath, just if you do get wet.

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ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx

uhmm... if it has nipples then its probably a girl... and a name.. what about
Summer"
Nina
Milly
Mud
or something thats related to your cat or something.

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