theres this boy that i like. But his like my best best best guy friend. sometimes he flirts with me, we do everything together, his brother n'd my brother are friends... what should i do?? should i ask him out or should i wait until he makes the move?...
SQuiRToFLeMoN answered Thursday June 23 2005, 6:45 pm: If you like him you should tell him and believe me I know this will take alot of guts but if he feels the same way but doesn't have the guts nothing will happen and you will go on wondering if he likes you.
ShYbl0nD3 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 2:17 pm: lifes to short to wait so id say make the move first. I mean it cant be that bad.. plus the guy would be happy that he didnt have to make the move first, its just as hard for them as it if for us. [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday June 23 2005, 7:47 am: I'd wait for him to do it if you think he might. If he doesn't though then go ahead. It really doesn't matter who does the asking. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
kElSi_lOu_15 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 3:34 am: kinda hint to him that you like him...but dont come completely out with it cuz it might weird him out since ya'll are like best friends..but just like slowly hint to him that you like him...and maybe he will catch on.. [ kElSi_lOu_15's advice column | Ask kElSi_lOu_15 A Question ]
TrueHope10 answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 11:58 pm: Don't worry about the fact that he is your best guy friend....I have alot of those and some of them I have had crushes on and the mistake I made was not asked them out when I had the chance...Talk to him ...try to find out if he likes you the same way you do .......If the two of you do hook up be careful agree in the beginning that if ya'll break up that yall will still be the best of friends.....Ypu don't wanna ruin a good friendship over a relationship.....
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XfRaGiLe3tEaRsX answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 11:58 pm: well from past expriences in my life...there was this guy that asked me out and i said yes but he was so totally EWWW!!!!! it didnt work out........at all!!! but this only happened because i wasnt really close with this guy and because he was very different and more disgusting then regular guys...but if he flirts with you and sounds interseted then totally go for it and ask him out [ XfRaGiLe3tEaRsX's advice column | Ask XfRaGiLe3tEaRsX A Question ]
Loverx3 answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 11:27 pm: well tha way i see it GO FOR IT! but give it time like Flirt with him and just talk. i know its not easy ta tell a boy how u feel, trust me! ask him things like "Who do u like?" and just things like that! Hope i helped!! [ Loverx3's advice column | Ask Loverx3 A Question ]
xxurockxx answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 10:36 pm: i say give him little hints here n there n see how he reacts....flirt with him n whatever. if he reacts good to that then joke about it like...oh yea i know you want me...stuff like that. eventually he'll get the hint n ask you out if he's into it too. [ xxurockxx's advice column | Ask xxurockxx A Question ]
kitty_kat123 answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 10:32 pm: Well,
flirt with him a lot and see how he reacts. If he acts flirty back and then always wants to sit by you and walk by you and stuff, he definitly likes you and you should ask him out. But if he kinda hesitates to flirt back, leave him alone and wait for HIM to make the move! It'll work. That's how I always tell with a guy.
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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 9:49 pm: my view is dont ruin a great friendship of a short-term relationship. i could not live with myself knowing that i lost someone like that. but that just my opinion. if you want to, go for it. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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