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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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According to the dictionary...yes.
slut
(slŭt) pronunciation
n.
1. A person, especially a woman,
considered sexually promiscuous.
If all this is true you need to
stop before you really make a name
for yourself around town.
Soon you won't be able to get a date.
If you do it will be for only one thing.
Guys will use and abuse you, then
move on to a girl they aren't
ashamed to be seen with.
Girls won't want to be your friend
because most normal girls won't
want your reputation rubbing off
on them.
Flashing guys in public sets you
up for being raped. Sending nude
photos will get your pictures out
there for all to see.
You are setting yourself up for
STD's, pregnancy and a lonesome
life.
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ok, so where should i start? i kinda met this guy through one of my friends. we had texted a lot and he calls me every night (this has been going on for about two weeks). we have been on a few dates and everytime he presses me to go farther and farther.
the guy is 4 years older than me. i'm in highschool and he's starting college. he lives about 30 mins away and its kinda difficult to see each other. also, he kinda has a gf, but tells me that he never gets to see her...
sometimes he calls me his private stripper. so far i haven't done anything with him, but he keeps on pressuring me to do something with him. i'm a virgin and want to save myself, but its so hard because he always sweet talks me and i'm kinda a sucker for that! lol
is he using me??? (link)
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He probably is. He has another kinda
girlfriend and she is probably getting
the same stories you are.
This type knows that girls are suckers
for sweet talk. Thats how they keep
you around.
My advice has to be that you dump him
before you get hurt. He will soon have
you sweet talked into doing something
you don't really want to do. Get out
before that happens. :)
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im only 16 and iam pregnat i dont know what to do i feel like im dieing from my inside
the father of the baby want me to have an abort but i want ot have my baby and i dont know what to do is so much pressure and idont think is right to kill a little innocent baby i want to have the baby but this boy dont want to have a baby.. hes 17 and i love him but i cant do an abort.
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:((: help me please ... (link)
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I know you are young to be pregnant.
It is something to think about. I
was your age when I got pregnant.
I got married and it worked out
fine for me. My husband was
supportive and that was very
important.
You can do it alone if thats what
you decide to do. It is VERY hard,
but can be done. I don't recommend it.
But since you are already pregnant
thats not the issue. :)
OK. First thing. It sounds like your
boyfriend isn't supportive. Notice
I said sounds like. If he isn't then
you dump him and get on with life
because you don't need more problems
right now. You need love and support.
If he isn't going to be there for you
and the baby then end the relationship.
Keep in mind that this may be a first
reaction in a situation that has him
panicked. Becoming a father at 17 or
a mother at 16 puts a stop or a long
wait to most things you may have
dreamed of doing after high school.
I don't know when you found out you
were pregnant, but give him time to
really think about it. You need to
do the same.
Talk to your mom. It won't be as bad
as you may think. You will need your
parents behind you, regardless of your
decision.
You need to honestly think about the
pros and cons of having the baby. Are
you prepared for major life changes?
Be honest with yourself and make this
decision based on what you want for
your future. Listen to others opinions,
but in the end, you have to decide this
for yourself. Remember, you will be
living with the decision the rest of
your life. It has to be YOUR decision.
My email address is on my column. Feel
free to use it anytime. Put advicenators
in the subject line first time so I know
it isn't spam. :)
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Okay well lets say his names bob,well i just broke up with bob like two weeks ago because he was flirting with this girl saying i hit that and hey sexy and stuff.Well anyways bob was talking to me about how his going to change and stuff and i was also talking to his bestfriends and they said that his been acting like a dick. Then when i seen him for the fourth of july for the first time sence then he was drunk really badly. Then awhile i was talking to bobs friends and i asked them why his been acting like that they said because he wont let go of me. Then when I tried to talk to him on myspace today he would barely talk to me.My two closest friends said that they think if he gets drunk that bad again he might
kill his self. (link)
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If you feel he may cause himself harm,
tell his parents so they can deal with
it and then just move on.
If he is really having a problem
getting over you then stay clear
away from him until he has dealt
with his feelings. Don't aggravate
the situation by trying to talk to
him on myspace or anywhere else.
Tell your 2 closest friends that
you don't want to hear gossip
about him. You need to get over
it too and that isn't helping. :)
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I'm 20/f, and I dunno if it's like, a hormonal issue (that time of month...), that I'm becoming anemic, or something, but since I ran a mile today, my heart rate has been randomly speeding up and slowing down.
It feels like I'm constantly nervous about something, but there's nothing to be nervous about.
My heartbeat wasn't erratic in any way during my run, it was steady as it always is. I started feeling odd before work, and actually calculated my pulse as 102 bpm a couple of times, which is ridiculously high for me. Normally, it's 78 or so.
I was standing in place when I did the calculation.
Also, I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but my left leg has been killing me for the past two days, somewhere in or around my hip. I had a stress fracture, but I think it's okay now, which is why I went running.
But this whole heartbeat thing is really freaking me out. I know, "stop freaking out, because when you freak out, your heart rate goes up." Got that covered. What could be causing this?
I know no one's a doctor, I'm just looking for nonmedical ideas, unless you think it could be a medical problem. Has anyone had experience with something like this, or...? (link)
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Heart palpitations are usually not
harmful, but you should get it checked
out by a doctor to be on the safe side.
You mentioned you are recovering from
a stress fracture. If it has been a
while since you've ran, you may have
overdone it first time back out.
Having an overactive thyroid can also
cause heart palpitations.
Here is a good site for you to look at.
I will also include a search that will
take you to more information should
you care to look. :)
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003081.htm
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soooo....i didnt sleep at all last night -_-
but whatever.
i was going to go to his house around 6:30-7
at 4..i felt my heart in my throat..and my stomach doing flips.
liz called at 5..and asked if we could go earlier..so anyways we left 45 minutes earlier..my mom took us to the movies..and we walked to his house..and liz noticed..right as we got to the corner of the street where his house liz was like "yeah..your pace so just got slower.." we walked up his driveway..and up the steps....i didnt even reach the top step and he opened the door..apparently he was eating dinner for the first time in 2 weeks..yay..but still i dont think u can exactly see the front door from the dining room but whatever.. i handed him the "block" of rice krispies...(2 pounds) he was speechless..put his head down..shook it and smiled. and gave me 2-3 hugs...he said thanks for attempting to get him to smile..and cha =]..and i havent stop smiling ever since. yeah yeah =] haha (link)
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WooHoo! Glad you went over there and it
made him smile. Turned out very good. :)
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so i take melatonins alot. their a natural sleeping pill, and i wanted to see if they could do anything harmfull to you. i typed the name into google, and i found some websites that had warning and stuff, but im not sure if they were talking about the same pill that i am. the website said that i could get depression, headaches, fetigge, stuff like that. now, can the sleeping pill melatonin really do all of that? and is it a bad that i used to take them everynight? their really the only way that i can get a good night sleep. thanks for all your help
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Any kind of drug, herb or supplement a person
takes has some warnings and possible interactions
with other things you take or eat.
If you have been taking melatonin with no
problem then you are probably ok taking it.
I do think you should see a doctor and find
out why you are having a problem sleeping
though. Having to take anything in order to
sleep everyday could be a sign of other
problems. :)
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I'm 13 about to be 14 and I'm a girl. okay I', gonna get straight to hte point but it may be confusing...
One day me and my mom were in the car and she was like you know that you shouldn't be having sex and se is bad and blah blah. i waslike mom i know. because really i do know the outcomes of sex...its not a good thing and it can change your life! i know!!!! and then she was like after you have sex you get this wet stuff in your underwear and coming out. and i was like okay.... but the thing is i already have that stuff coming out! i know for sure that i have never had sex before! its something that I would never do until I'm married! and it scares me that i already have that stuff coming out. my friend was like you might have been rapped! and thats when i started crying my eyes out to NO limit! so the question is..... how do you know if you've been rapped...but you cant remember anything??...or is that a natural part of life??...thankz in advance for the help!! (link)
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Vaginal discharge is normal. You are fine.
Here is an article for you on the subject.
http://womenshealth.about.com/od/vaginaldischarg1/a/vaginaldischarg.htm
What is Normal Vaginal Discharge?
First it’s important to understand that all women experience some amount of vaginal discharge. Glands in your vaginal and cervix produce small amounts of fluid that flows out of your vagina everyday taking with it old cells that line the vagina. Your normal vaginal discharge helps to clean the vagina, as well as keep it lubricated and free from infection and other germs. A normal vaginal discharge does not have a foul odor and usually has no odor at all. Normal vaginal discharge often appears clear or milky when it dries on your clothing; occasionally you may notice white spots or a normal vaginal discharge that is thin and stringy looking.
Other things that may cause changes in the appearance or consistency of your vaginal discharge include:
* Your menstrual cycle
* Emotional stress
* Pregnancy
* Any prescribed or OTC medications you take including hormones such as in the Pill
* Sexual excitement
* Breastfeeding
* Ovulation
* Your diet
Other things that can upset the natural pH balance of your vagina and lead to vaginal infections include vaginal douches, feminine hygiene products, perfumed or deodorant soaps, antibiotics, pregnancy, diabetes, or the presence of another infection.
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My boyfriend and I just recently started messing around. And by messing, I don't mean sex. He's been fingering me, and going down on me very frequently.
My concern is that I've been feeling very itchy and irritated down there, on my inner lips and near the hole.
Is it possible that 3rd base can give me and STD? I've looked for this on websites and I'm just not getting the answer I need.
I have no trouble peeing, and I'm not feeling bumps or having foul odor. It's simply itchy, irritated and a small bit of discharge.
Has anyone ever experienced this? If so, what can I do to prevent whatever it may be?
Thank you in advance. (link)
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Everyone has this pretty well covered
but I will go ahead and add the possible
simple answer just in case.
Does he have beard stubble? It could be
irritating you if he does. It would be
called whisker burn if you want a name
for it. :)
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I heard that if you smear toothpaste onto orange peels and let it sit in the sunlight for 1-2 weeks, it will produce a juice that, if you drink it, will make you have an acid-like trip. Is this true? (NOT going to try it though drugs are stupid) The people who told how to do it say it works. I'm just curious. Does it? (link)
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No, it is not true. There is nothing in either
toothpaste, oranges or in the combination that
would do that. Sit a bottle of any juice in the
sun for a couple of weeks until it rots. Drink
it and you might feel a little strange. Thats
only a trip to the ER or bathroom to puke. :)
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I really love my boyfriend weve been going out for over a year now and he never stops telling me he loves me, his friends tell him hes whipped all the time and they make fun of him because he never even looks at other girls anymore.the problem is, like many other boys he is really horny and yeah i like it sometimes when im in the mood for it but he always wants to do something like sometimes i dont even wanna make out i just want to lay with him.I dont no how to tell him this with out him getting upset because he gets upset easily and i dont wnt to insult him but idk how to say i dont always like him being that way. can some one please help me out
thanks (link)
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You have to talk to him about what you want.
It may hurt his feelings for a minute but he
isn't the only one in the relationship and
he needs to be made to understand that. If
you don't say anything, nothing will change
because boys by nature are always horny. :)
The best way to approach it is to talk about
it before he gets all worked up. Maybe even
on the phone. He will be less likely to get
upset that way. You try to talk when hes all
horny, he will take it the wrong way and get upset.
Good luck. :)
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is it possible for a 14 year old to support herself?
i could take trax to school and my grandpa said he would pay for my books, etc.
if i got parental consent i can work at a library, or coldstone, or lagoon or something when i turn 14..
i just fight with my mom too much and my dad cant really support me so yeah..
dont tell me to get counselors. we have 3.
but anyways, if your emmancipated do you have to pay for insurance or do ur parents have to until you are 18?
and if its possible, who do i talk to about getting emmancipated and how do i do it? (link)
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From Rules of Emancipation http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=29326
There are 3 ways to get emancipated:
1. Get married. You need permission from your parents and the court.
2. Join the armed forces. You need permission from your parents, and the armed forces must accept you.
3. Get a declaration of emancipation from a judge. To get a declaration of emancipation, you have to prove ALL of these things:
* You are at least 14 years old.
* You don't want to live with your parents. Your parents don't mind if you move out.
* You can handle your own money.
* You have a legal way to make money.
* Emancipation would be good for you.
If you want insurance you have to pay for it.
Parents pay for nothing. You have to be able
to prove you can hold down a job ...Be aware
that most places will not hire a 14 year old
because their insurance companies won't allow
it. You have to show you can pay rent, electric,
water,groceries & other utilities.
You need a lawyer to make sure it is done properly.
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I like a guy who has a girlfriend. I actually have a boyfriend. Whenever I am around the other guy I'm happy and flirty. When I'm around my boyfriend I feel tired and cranky. I still have some feelings for him, but sometimes I just don't. The other guy likes me a lot to but he has a girlfriend who he lives with. What should I do? Even if I can't be with the other guy, what should I do about my boyfriend? (link)
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All relationships have their ups and downs.
However if you are happier with guys other
than you boyfriend it may be time to move
on. You're young, single and thats what
you're supposed to do. Look around. :)
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so, I really like this site and will continue using it, but sometimes I get tired of all the repeated questions of "does he like me?" "Boy problems" "am I pregnant" etc, etc. I am not a teenage girl, but I do understand the teens asking these questions though. Anyway, does anyone know of another site like this that is more adult oriented? thanks (link)
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Everyone gets tired of the same old questions.
More adults need to answer with more mature
answers, that is true.
More adults and mature teens need to also be
asking more mature questions. They don't have
to be your problems. Just ask some questions.
Only rate well the good answers. If more did
this I think you would see changes over time.
They need good examples. :)
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I have a couple questions, if you can answer all of them that would be great but if you can only answer one thats ok ;)
On July 3rd, i bought a psp on amazon and the person shipped it fed ex ground. i was so excited! i was so happy to be getting a psp! SOOO i went to fedex website and entered my tracking number. it said the estimated delivery was on today, July 7th. and of course, it didnt come. so my first question is, is fed ex estimated delivery always reliable?
my second question is, will it come tommorow or later on the week?
and my 3rd question is, is it lost? and can i call a number to track it?!?!?
THANKS A MILLION :) (link)
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It will probably get there tomorrow.
It may have landed in your city's
FEDEX area today.
They are usually pretty correct with
the estimates. I am going to guess that
it got held up a little over the 4th of
July holiday. :)
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I'm married (have been for 5 years) and I recently ran into my old high school flame. I was crazy about him but it didn't work out because he moved away. He is married now as well (but not happily). We decided to secretly meet up and catch up on old times. Since then we have been talking a lot and he says he thinks he is falling in love with me and he wants to leave his wife. He asked me if I would leave my husband for him. Truthfully I have thought about it. He says he thinks it is meant to be, and in a way I do too. I'm just not sure what to do. I love my husband but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I'm just not sure if I would be making a mistake. I just need some advice without being judged. (link)
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I agree with Mangy. Be honest about how you
felt about things before the old flame came
back.
Also be aware that some guys will give you
a sob story about how bad their marriage is,
(well some women too)just to get what they
want from you. He's looking to cheat and if
you haven't slept with him yet...don't. Not
until you are 100% sure your marriage is over.
And not until you BOTH have left your spouses
and started the divorce procedure.
I know it can be a romantic notion having
the lost love come back into your life.
Just make sure you aren't reminiscing
yourself into a mistake. The fairy tale
doesn't usually pan out.
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So i live in Alabama with my mom, stepdad, step brother, and sister.
My dad died 2007
but i want to switch custody over to my cousin who lives in Virginia because i want to go to college here, and i lived here all my life and i don't want to live back in Alabama with my family/
My mother and i don't get along very well at all
As of August 2008 i will be 16 if that helps
please help (link)
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A cousin would have to petition for custody
and your mom would have to be proven unfit.
UNLESS, you mom agreed to it.
By the time you are of age to go to college
you shouldn't need a guardian anyway.
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he didnt answer. :-\
im thinking of just showing up on wednesday.
give him what i need to give him..and be like :here" and just walk away..go down the block get some subway. and then go back to his house..and listen to what he has to say.. he really pissed me off now. erh..so im allowed to be a bit bitch now..righttt?? heh -_- (link)
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Sure you are allowed! Hope all goes well
on Wednesday.
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when a girl has to go to the guyanacologist and they have to check inside of there vagina what do they do??
does it hurt? (link)
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Here is an overview of what your first exam
will be like step by step. A pelvic exam
may be uncomfortable but shouldn't hurt.
If it does let the doctor know right away.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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My husband and I purchased a cabin in the mountains four years ago. Along with that, we purchased two ATVs (four-wheelers) to ride the thousands of acres of mountain trails adjacent to our cabin property.
We love to have our children and grandchildren visit and have an open door policy where they're concerned.
Recently, my married daughter asked me, in front of her husband, if we would be willing to let them use the cabin for use with her husband's family. We told her we would have to think about it. We discussed it briefly with them and never gave them an answer.
My husband and I had already talked about this situation because we knew it would come up. I had expressed to my daughter shortly after we purchased the cabin that this was a "family only" cabin and was not open to in-laws. My daughter told me at that time that she understood. I feel like she was put up to asking me by her husband.
My husband and I feel strongly that we don't want my daughter's in-laws, or any other in-laws for that matter, accessing our cabin. Our cabin is as personal as our home, and I wouldn't lend out the use of my home to just anyone.
Also, I'm worried about the liability issue concerning the use of our four-wheelers and also who would be responsible if they damaged them.
I also feel like if we open up the cabin to this set of in-laws, our other children would assume that they would be entitled to bring their in-laws and friends to the cabin, which rightfully so they should.
Am I being too possessive of "my cabin"? I don't want to alienate my son-in-law, but, again, I don't feel I have any obligation to provide his family with a weekend retreat. I'm afraid if we allow it "just this once" that it will become expected that they can use it any time.
Please advise. Thanks
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No you are not being overly possessive. I'd
feel the same.
Just explain to her that she already told
you she understood when you talked of this
before. Tell her you don't want the liability.
Explain to her it may cause problems should
something be damaged or broken. She doesn't
need that headache any more than you do.
Should his family for instance break their
neck while riding an ATV, they may try to
sue you. Extreme example but that could
cause problems between your daughter and
her husbands family AND between you and
your son in law.
Stick to your guns on this one. If they
get mad, They will get over it soon. :)
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