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is he using me?
ok, so where should i start? i kinda met this guy through one of my friends. we had texted a lot and he calls me every night (this has been going on for about two weeks). we have been on a few dates and everytime he presses me to go farther and farther.
the guy is 4 years older than me. i'm in highschool and he's starting college. he lives about 30 mins away and its kinda difficult to see each other. also, he kinda has a gf, but tells me that he never gets to see her...
sometimes he calls me his private stripper. so far i haven't done anything with him, but he keeps on pressuring me to do something with him. i'm a virgin and want to save myself, but its so hard because he always sweet talks me and i'm kinda a sucker for that! lol
is he using me???
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He probably is. He has another kinda
girlfriend and she is probably getting
the same stories you are.
This type knows that girls are suckers
for sweet talk. Thats how they keep
you around.
My advice has to be that you dump him
before you get hurt. He will soon have
you sweet talked into doing something
you don't really want to do. Get out
before that happens. :)
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Yes ma'am. It sounds like you have a player. He's older and you're younger which makes him think you'll be vulnerable to him. But don't do it. After he gets some, I guarentee you'll never hear from him again. Typical guys. ♥
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Yes,yes,yes, and YES. He is only trying to get in your pants. I think you should start cutting of communication from him. Little by little. Or, of course, you could just lay it down for him. Just say no. It may be hard, but trust me, this guy is just a player and you deserve WAY better. Goodluck!
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I am a 30 year old female and I have experienced what you are going through when I was your age. To be honest with you I think that he is trying to get in your pants. He knows your a virgin and finds some kind of excitement in that. If he has a girl friend you should stay away from this guy. If he is willing to cheat on his gf with you then he is no good, He would do the same to you. Stay a virgin for as long as you can, and set higher standards for yourself. I would advise you to save your virginity untill your married or atleast untill you find someone who wants only you and cares about you. Dont allow yourself to be used. If you feel bad about the situation that you are in then 9 times out of ten it is what it feels like. (A bad situation)
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