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Horny boyfriend ):
I really love my boyfriend weve been going out for over a year now and he never stops telling me he loves me, his friends tell him hes whipped all the time and they make fun of him because he never even looks at other girls anymore.the problem is, like many other boys he is really horny and yeah i like it sometimes when im in the mood for it but he always wants to do something like sometimes i dont even wanna make out i just want to lay with him.I dont no how to tell him this with out him getting upset because he gets upset easily and i dont wnt to insult him but idk how to say i dont always like him being that way. can some one please help me out
thanks<3
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You have to talk to him about what you want.
It may hurt his feelings for a minute but he
isn't the only one in the relationship and
he needs to be made to understand that. If
you don't say anything, nothing will change
because boys by nature are always horny. :)
The best way to approach it is to talk about
it before he gets all worked up. Maybe even
on the phone. He will be less likely to get
upset that way. You try to talk when hes all
horny, he will take it the wrong way and get upset.
Good luck. :)
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One of the best ways to tell a guy who's sensitive about one of their downfalls is to tell them you love it when they do the opposite. So, if you're boyfriend is really horny try saying something like "i love just laying with you" or "it's so great that we can just hang out without needing to do stuff" and then give a great reason why. An alternative to that would be to tell him that for every time he does something you'd like him to do (like take you on a date without anything afterwards, or just hang out as friends etc.) you will do something that HE wants you to do. So, one day is just hanging out- the next is steamy make out session. You get the idea. Good luck!
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hey well wow we have like the same problem. haha. well my boyfriend is always like that. And yeah i understand thats how i felt like hes gonna feel bad, but heres a little something instead of making out talk to him like really i swear i tried telling him u know baby i just dont feel like kissing BUT NO IT LEAD US TO MANY FIGHTS SO DONT DO IT. have conversations one it gets you guys to learn more about eachother. REALLY. the whole just talk about think DOESNT WORK. I TRIED IT.WELL MAYBE NOT FOR ME. i dont doubt you love him. just hug him lay on his chest and ask him stuff you dont know about him. i hope i helped sorry if i didnt.
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