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Second thoughts on relationship.
I like a guy who has a girlfriend. I actually have a boyfriend. Whenever I am around the other guy I'm happy and flirty. When I'm around my boyfriend I feel tired and cranky. I still have some feelings for him, but sometimes I just don't. The other guy likes me a lot to but he has a girlfriend who he lives with. What should I do? Even if I can't be with the other guy, what should I do about my boyfriend?
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If you aren't as happy with your boyfriend as you are with this other guy, you should probably end things with your boyfriend. It's not fair to him if you're unhappy with the relationship.
But, you have to be careful with this guy you like. He has a girlfriend, and I don't think you should interfere with their relationship.
-Laura. (16-f)
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All relationships have their ups and downs.
However if you are happier with guys other
than you boyfriend it may be time to move
on. You're young, single and thats what
you're supposed to do. Look around. :)
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Well, first of all you have to be honest. One, with yourself, and second, with your boyfriend. You really need to take some time really asess whether or not you have enough feelings for your relationship with your boyfriend to keep going. If you don't then you need to be honest with him and break it off. If you don't, you are only hurting you both in the long run. Try making a list of the pros and cons. You want to be with someone that makes you strive for the better and brings out your best qualities. Even if you have been with the same person for a long time, there should still be some excitement. If you do decide you still want to be with your boyfriend you should communicate with him and tell him you want to work together to rekidnle old feelings. I don't think you should break up with your boyfriend merely to get with this guy. Let this other guy figure out on his own if he wants to be with his current girlfriend or not. He may not even want to be with you, it may be that he just likes the attention, so don't ruin anything that's not needed. In the meantime, focus on you and your current relationship. What's meant to be will always find a way. :)
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