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Hey. I am 17/f and he is 19/m. We have been dating for almost 3 years. He's a sophomore in college, and im a senior in high school. My entire life, all I've wanted to do is be an elementary teacher, and to be a mother and a wife. Im a nurturer. I cannot imagine a life without children and a family. I love cooking and i can deal with cleaning. Strangely, my dream is to be a housewife in a place somewhat south, such as North Carolina or something near there.. Although we haven't talked about it in-depth, only small hypothetical things, because i don't plan on marriage or children until i graduate college, my boyfriend, chris, has made it perfectly clear he does NOT want kids, nor marriage. He said he just wants to, "act like we're married, but not actually make it legal. Weddings are stupid and a waste of money." He wants to go into business and start his own company in upstate new york, or someplace cold because he likes cold and snow. I love him with all my heart. I don't really know what id do without him. He is the most important person in my life. I honestly don't know what to do. His little brother, who is now 9, irritates the hell out of him. Chris describes him as a spoiled brat who gets "instant gratification". While this is true, i believe that every child should have a chance to go through that stage. Chris said his little brother ruined kids for him and now he HATES kids. Now i need your advice. I dont want to put this harshly, but should i stay with him, or am i (i didn't know how else to put it!) wasting my time with him? I know at this point in time, there is no possibility of him wanting to have children. I asked him, what if i got pregnant by accident, and he said, "if you're not comfortable with abortion, that's fine. We would just put the child up for adoption." Should i try to convince him that children aren't that bad, or should i try to find someone else who shares the same ideals with me? Also, i dont know if ill be able to let Chris go. I love him so much, and hes pretty much my whole world, and i want to start a family with HIM. I don't know what to do or how to convince him. Please, help me? Thank you! (link)
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First, he could get in big trouble (jail) if an accident happens. You are a minor.
He knows he is your whole world and this is clearly making him very uncomfortable even though he's had feelings for you since he was a minor.
You are too young to be pegging him as "the one" - and vice versa.
He made a point to tell you that the thing he knows you dream for "marriage and children" should not include him in the picture. His, "let's just act like we're married" means "let's just have the sex"...because being married is all the things you envision. He wants just the sex, not the responsibility.
My advice would be to end the relationship now so you both can experience college without guilt or commitments neither of you are ready for. This is an unhealthy relationship for many reasons. He will not be there for you and has honestly told you so.
I would bet any money he and you will be married with children some day....probably not to each other unless you change course and become more self respectful.
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My parents are having some really bad marital problems right now. It sounds like they are going to be getting a divorce soon, but they are still living in the same household with me and my little brother. I am 17 and my brother is 15, by the way.
My parents are always fighting and they sleep in different rooms. My dad sleeps in the living room on the couch and my mom sleeps in the bedroom. I have my own room and so does my brother, by the way. Mom just started working nights while my dad works mornings so they just don't interact any more than they have to.
Two days ago I found my brother smoking pot. I know he's 15 and lots of kids his age are turning to weed but, let's face it, it isn't good and it isn't the best way to cope. I know he's stressing out over Mom and Dad but drugs can lead to serious problems in the future. Weed is illegal, too, and I don't want him to get in trouble with the police. He begged me not to tell Mom or Dad about it and confessed that he's been smoking pot for like 2 months now or more.
I want to tell my parents because it just isn't good for anyone. They need to start paying more attention to us, I think. I don't want my brother to find safety in smoking weed. I want him to be able to rely on the family.
What do I do? How do I tell my parents what is going on with my brother? How can I explain to them that he's turning to drugs because they are not here for us any more and haven't been since they started fighting? (link)
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I agree with Susie. You are an awesome sister with a great head on your shoulders. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that your parents don't need to know. They are obviously not a parent.
You answered your own question. You tell it to them straight - they aren't kids (even if they are self-focused at this time). Tell them just like you told us, "He's turning to drugs because you are not here for us any more and haven't been since you started fighting."
Also, I've seen parents not respond to their children's issues because they're caught up in their selfish problems. Your brother needs you. Tell him you love him and he has to stop smoking pot as it will lead no where, will ruin his ambition, and he has his whole life ahead of him. Get him to talk to you and try to advise him rather than co-miserate with him. Try to get him involved in a sport or other activity where he can get a mentor coach and be around other clean-living kids.
Someone has to be an adult...right now it is you and you will be rewarded in your life for your good judgment.
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my bf and i just started going out. his so cuute and sweet buut not really a good kisser like he opens his mouth too much and too wide and pretty much sticks his whole tounge in my mouth. what should i doooo? oohhh and i want to ask him to the christmas dance...its a turn around dance. i want it to be really cuute. any ideas?? thanks. :] 17/f (link)
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I heard a cute "ask" recently - the girl put crime scene tape all over the boy's locker (could be a car if that applies) with a sign, "It would be a crime if you don't say yes"
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i was with someone for a year and a half and about a month and a half ago he broke up with me. i handled the situation pretty well and i've met someone new who i really like (he was always in a two year relationship and was broken up with).. but i often find myself comparing him to my ex. like, i'll be like "my ex would never do that for me." and i find that the new guy compares me to his recent ex as well..
are we both ready for a new relationship? do you think we're over our ex's? (link)
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You said, "my ex would never do that FOR me." Does this imply you prefer the behavior of the new guy but just keep comparing? Eg. Your new guy buys you flowers and the old guy didn't?
That's different than "my ex would never do that TO me." That would imply the new guy isn't treating you as well as you'd like.
I think it depends on what you naturally compare. When selecting a bf, it's desirable to acknowledge better traits than what you've left behind with other bf.
You're recently broken up and right back with someone else - so maybe it is a bit soon, but if you both really like each other, don't over think it.
While it's natural to compare, if the new one isn't measuring up, let that just tell you that you can do better. That doesn't mean you aren't getting over your ex.
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I'm a single 52 year old woman from Houston. I am not included in any family doings. I don't get high or drunk and I'm a pretty nice lady. One of the problems is that my sister has a terrible life and marriage. Her husband is a drug user, herself a border alcoholic. All 3 of her young adult children are a mess. I love them and have tried many times to help them. I love them no matter what. I am a very stable person. I've lived in the same place 20 years, pay my bills on time, you know just a blissfully normal life not counting my diabetic coma and cancer. But I am on the mend. I am never invited to anything, especially when she is involved. She was always jealous of me as a kid. She whined to our mother about all sorts of stuff. She was into bad stuff, I was a nerd. I don't envy anybody. I'm just stable. She has my brothers wrapped around her finger. "Feel sorry for me" is the attitude she gives anybody and actually rolls her eyes behind peoples backs, even her own children, when they talk about their lives or problems. I want to be with the family but because I am easy to deal with, my brothers give into her and know that I will understand, and I do, but I'm tired of being alone on all the holidays, especially when I haven't been too well. If I was well enough I would just go volunteer at a mission at Thanksgiving or Christmas. I'm just tired of being alone especially for the holidays...what should I do, if anything? Thank you. (link)
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Hi, first, why aren't you offering to host rather than always wait to be invited? Do you do your share? Might it be as simple as their resentment that you don't? This coming holiday, after you consider the advice below, make sure you offer to host or do all the work at the most convenient location for others. Throw a wildly wonderful holiday and don't let anyone else do any work. If you are due to host, you are overdue to pay for it all.
Now for that issue with your sister. This must be fixed. You are not going to like my answer but it is the best advice you will get if you are serious about getting back with your family.
I admire that you've survived cancer and am sorry that you have had serious health issues. I wish you the very best of health in the future. As we get older we appreciate the value of our family more and need love around us.
Clearly you don't like or respect your sister and you blame her 100% for the family situation you are in. You judge her, her spouse, her children, her life choices, and you see her as nothing but a manipulator. If I were her, I wouldn't want to see you either. Sorry but let's be honest.
If that's obvious to me it's obvious to everyone in the family for sure.
Because you feel she was jealous of you decades ago, you must feel that is relevant. That is not the case. Maybe you see yourself as better than her (all your life) and she's sick of the attitude.
Your dislike for your sister (and her role too) has harmed everyone in the family and they had to make a choice of who to include. Short of an intervention, take their actions as a wake up call that you are not as "easy to deal with" as you think you are.
You are not being honest with yourself that you have had no role in your situation - it always takes two.
The good news is human families are programmed to be a pack. They want the whole family there but not at the risk of ruining a holiday or feeling that they are being judged and insulted.
They miss you and want you to be there even if it doesn't feel that way. Let that be your guiding light.
My advice: Unless you change your attitude, you are not ready to be back with your family. I'm sorry but you are not blissful. It's obvious. My fear for you is that you won't change your very changeable attitude to make yourself happy. You need to strive for inner peace by gaining external peace too.
It starts by letting go of your superior attitude.
Time for you to eat a lot of crow. You need to lighten up - stop taking yourself so seriously! You need to call your sister and meet for coffee (your treat). You need to check the negative attitude at the door. You need to tell her that you have a problem. You need to tell her that you have been terrible in your judging of her and her family for a long time. You need to apologize. Yes, you have a role in this whether or not you can admit it. YOu aren't revealing anything that they all don't already know or suspect. You need to sincerely suck up. Then, and only after she is accepting, you say goodbye and don't ask her for anything. If you do the apology will be insincere and taken as the reason for the meeting. (she didn't mean she was sorry, she just wants to come to thanksgiving) The apology must be sincere and isolated from anything else.
In this conversation, you will have to fight every instinct in your body to blame her for anything or explain "your" side. No one cares. If you find yourself starting a sentence with "You...(followed by what she did wrong)" then shut up. Change it to "I" followed by what you could have done to be a better sister. You will have to be truly different inside and truly want to make peace.
If you offer up your negative self and cleanse it from your body, you will be happier.
If you were the headmaster at a charm school, your behavior could not be more idolized. That is the goal. True charm, manners, and sincere love for your family no matter what their issues - along with humility of self - this is the attitude at the coffee meeting and at every function with family for the rest of your life.
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i'm a 19 year old girl in a huge tug of war emotionally. my boyfriend and i are either going to stay together or break up over this. i have been in a relationship for 2 years and during this time i lost a friend over a petty lie. he lied to me about something stupid and now my boyfriend completely distrusts him although i now realize it was a petty lie that i no longer care about and i want to be friends with him again. i have known my friend for 15 years! however, my boyfriend says he cannot allow me to be friends with him again and pretty much said its me or him. should i pick the person that love with all every inch of my heart, or my friend who i've known for 15 years? (link)
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Are you in college? If so, you should not be so seriously committed to one person. If you are out in your life and working, then at your age, serious boyfriends are trials for marriage.
Your boyfriend is behaving jealously; he's afraid if you become friends again, then he has to compete with another man. This is understandable because it's in men's genes to be the head of the pack and to run the competition away. However, we are not primative and men need to trust that the woman can have other friends that do not threaten the relationship....that is if the other man is of no threat.
I don't understand, nor may your boyfriend, what new role this 'old friend' has in your life - are you looking to go out with him...ahem, "as a friend"?
My advice: If your and your old friend's interest to be friends again is purely platonic, then your boyfriend should have no problem with it. You will have friends in workplaces and other settings that are men and your boyfriend can not be allowed to tell you who to be friends with.
Tell your boyfriend that your old friend is of no threat to him or your relationship. Assure your boyfriend that HE is the ONE you care for in that special way and the other boy is just a friend. Explain what that means to him and what the boundaries are. That is what being committed to someone is about. If all you say is true to the core of your soul, and he can not accept that, then it is time to end the relationship - he does not trust you and this will go on forever...with every guy you know.
If however, your boyfriend is correctly picking up that you and your old friend may become more than old friends (is that what you may want?), then you need to decide what you want. If you do have feelings for the old friend that are more than platonic, then you need to decide if you love the boyfriend as much as you should to be monogomous with him.
You are very young and the answer may be that neither man is going to be in your life a long time. However, if you deeply care about saving both relationships, then the boyfriend's feelings are important and the old friend may need to stay an old friend. Women always have "old friends."
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15/f
so there is this guy kody who has a girlfriend but he seems to flirt with me ALOT! and i really like him and i dont know what to do i mean im kind of friends with his girlfriend so i dont want to be mean and like flirt back - but i kind of do anyway, and it seems like he's always finding ways to talk to me and were in a class together and i always catch him looking at me and laughing at my jokes and stuff.
but idk what to do or if he is just actually being friendly any advice?
thanks :) (link)
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Right now it feels innocent and fun but you are looking to take it to more. This is a problem.
If he's just a nice boy and you are misreading his friendliness, then you will look and feel like a loser if you turn it up (wow, can't believe she tried to steal her friend's bf).
If he is flirting with you and he is your friend's boyfriend, then he's a jerk....and you would be too if you respond.
Girlfriends stick together. How'd you like it if your friend was flirting with your boyfriend?
My advice: Stop flirting with him (you admit you like him and you can't help that if it shows so yes, you are flirting with him, clearly). Flirting is not a one way street very long...it takes two to keep it going.
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hi i have a big problem. after i shave i get red bumps under my chin like on my neck and my face gets red( i have acne and it gets red) i hate it its so embarrassing. the acne is bad enough without the razor burn. how can i stop the razor burn and does any one have a fool proof deffinite working idea to get rid of acne? i tried everything and the same for the razor burn i need to get rid of both i feel im pretty attractive but under the acne and bumps. i need to get rid of both of them and yes i do use after shave.
how much attention do girls pay to acne? like do they look down at guys with it? or is it not such a big deal any more. im 16 11th grade in hs btw. ty (link)
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you can stop the razor burn by doing this:
- use good quality shaving foam/gel made for sensitive skin. Use gillette/sanex etc. It may be pricey, but you get what you pay for. The foam acts as a lubricant, so it makes the pressure decrease
- Use a good quality razor, like, the gillette fusion, or the wilkinson quattro. It has more blades, and so reduces pressure. Again, you get what you pay for
- Shave along the skin direction, not against, this also reduces pressure and razor burn. for example, if your hair is growing downwards, shave downwards.
Im not sure about the acne. Other things to get the hair off your face? something like..womens hair removal cream, which could irritate you. Or waxing, which probabaly wont work if you hae thick stubble.
note: make sure u really massage the foam in, like, spend 1-2mins massaging it in. Also, use hot water on your face before putting the foam on, to soften the hair. And finnaly, let the razor soak in a bit of hot water, to soften the blades also.
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15/f
So I am thinking about having sex with my boyfriend and I am a virgin. I am kinda scared that it will hurt too much and I wont be able to enjoy it. I have heard that the reason it hurts is because of the fact that you are stretched when you have sex for the first time, so I was wondering if I was to use a dildo to masterbate. Would I hurt less later?? Thanks in advance for any responses they are much appreciated. (link)
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indeed you are right. My girlfriend was a virgin, but i fingered her, and bought her a sex toy. It stretches the opening, and so when a penis enters, it doesnt hurt as much. Also, you can control the speed, and pressure when you use a sex toy, so its reccomended :)
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" (masturbate) at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. II always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal (link)
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i dont rele know to be honest? maybe he's just fooling around at some times to make you laugh, after all..you do find it funny. Its normal for someone to have a crush on their teacher and stuff. Next time he says it, you could just say "dude! seriousely!?" his reaction will probabaly let you know. maybe you should talk to him about it? not the whole "we need to talk. recently, i have noticed that ....." because that would be wierd. something like "dude, what the hell? she's a teacher? calm down" which would be less awkward and less formal. Maybe he's sexually frustraded also..sounds like it.
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18/f
Long story short, I am insecure, and I have dated my bf for about 2 years now. We even live together due to certain complications lol. But, I hate when I start a debate and end up finding out obvious things like the fact that he looks at other girls, especially areas quite uncomfortable. And all he says is "I try to look away, and distract myself, which I do, by finding some other guy who looks stupid staring at the girl". It really gets me jealous... I wish I weren't insecure and jealous, and I cant help it, can anyone try and help mee?
sincerely,
insecurely jealous. (link)
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Ok, I deal with this exact same issue (being insecure) constantly, so I'll share with you what I've learned so far. First of all...become extremely more aware of your own habits. When you go out alone (maybe to the store or something...whatever it is), when you're out with your friends, and when you're out with him; be competely honest with youreslf... do you ever take a glance or two at other guys and think "hmmm" or "kinda cute"? This is why I say to observe your own behavior, cause I didn't notice that I do it, myself. If the answer is "yes" then CONGRATULATIONS...you're human! And so is your boyfriend.
Now, back to yourself, how did you feel when you glanced at that guy? If you're anything like me, you probably notices that he was cute...maybe even did a double take...and then went on your way. Chances are later on during the day, you probably forgot that you even saw him. With that said, this is probably the same thing that happens in your boyfriend's mind. He's human, and I know we as girls don't like to admit it, but you are not the only physically attractive person on the earth. But you are HIS only physically attractive person. He looks at other girls for a few seconds...maybe even a minute, but he looks at you a lot longer and a lot more often. Why? BECAUSE HE WANTS TO!! You have to keep in mind that he chose you. And even while looking at other girls...for some reason, he stays with you. So you gotta be doing something right, and that thought alone should help at least a little with the insecurity.
Now then, (this is the part that I'm still having issues with) you've probably heard it before....men are visual. They're drawn to what they see. This is a concept that your classic "good girl" misses, while those more commonly classified as "sluts" have mastered. If you want him to keep his eyes on you, you've gotta give him something to look at. I'm not suggesting that you walk around naked 24/7, but little things like putting on makeup everyday, paying extra attention to your hair instead of throwing it in a ponytail, keeping your finger and toe nails done, wearing jeans instead of sweatpants (that's my kryptonite lol), etc., really makes a difference. Not only do you feel better about yourself, but you become someone that he's not only emotionally attracted to, but someone that he continues to be physically attracted to. We as women come up with so many excuses..."I don't have time", "i don't have to do all that, he loves me just the way I am", and so on. My answer to those: make time...get up earlier, whatever you have to do, and those days when you just don't feel like it...do it anyway. You'll be glad that you did because when you look good, you feel good. And, yes, he probably does love you just the way you are, but he's still a man, he still likes what he sees, and he's still human...nothing you can do can change that.
I hope that helps. Just remember...1: he's gonna look (he's a guy and he's human...it sucks but that's the bottom line) and you've probably taken a glance or two yourself, what's important are his actions and feelings towards you. 2: Give him something to keep looking at. It's tiresome at times, and let's face it...it gets expensive! But it's worth it.
And lastly, 3: remember who you are, and remind yourself constantly that you're awesome. It's not conceited...it's the truth, and those of us with insecurities forget that. It's not so much the other person that makes you jealous, but rather the question "what do they have that I don't?". As long as you know who you are, and you're proud of that person, then you keep your head up no matter what!!!
P.S. Keep in mind, these are totally my own opinions, and expiriences, and I could have totally missed the mark as far as your thoughts and/or feelings. If I did, let me know. I wanna make sure that I'm helping...not just blabbing lol.
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Everyone in my school doesnt like me...I'm thinking its because of the vicious rumors that have been started by an old ex boyfriend of mine who doesnt know how to mind his own business. I try to be friendly to everyone but it just doesnt help. I feel like im the only person at this school who doesnt have friends. No one cares about me, and honestly, i dont care about me anymore either. i hate this school. help me. dont tell me to go to counseling either :/ (link)
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Honey, I completely understand this whole thing (I call lots of people "honey"...I'm nit trying to patronize you). You feel alone, worthless, unloved, unwanted, etc. And it seems like this is never gonna end.
Someone said it before and he was totally right cliche' as it was...the best thing to do is be yourself. I'm not suggesting that you're not already doing that, just encouraging you to continue doing it. The worst thing you can do is become someone you're not in an effort to make friends. People can tell when you're being fake.
Next, maybe you're just looking in the wrong places. The best of friends are people you have common interests with. What do you like to do? Are there any clubs that involve it? For me, it was cheerleading, drama, and choir, and I took those with me to college where I made some real life long friendships.
The next suggestion...I know that you said not to mention counseling, and in this case I do find that to be a bit extreme, but it's super important that you find someone that you trust enough to talk to. My person is my mother. I know it sounds lame, but she always tell me exactly what I need to hear good or bad, hurtful or not, and she always says it in love. If you can find someone like that, you're golden.
Now the rumor(s)...you give life to gossip when you react to it. In the same respect...they don't go away just because you ignore them (even though that's what mommy and daddy always tell you growing up). Maintain your dignity...and find something to laugh about. Chances are the rumor is stupid, and childish. If you realize that and find a way to laugh not only at yourself, but the person spreading it, not only do you stay dignified, but you become the bigger person making you the mature one in this, and that alone will draw attention to you.
Next, and probably the most difficult, if you do indeed suspect your ex is spreading lies, you need to confront it head on and in person. First of all, let him know that whatever happened between you two happened and the two of you need to move forward from it. Next ask him if he's been spreading stuff about you. The secret is...either he really isn't, or he will lie and say "no", but the answer most likely be "no". By asking him, you've just ninja'd his brain, because everytime he starts to talk about you again, it's going to come back into his mind "she knows". And even if it doesn't, I promise it will stop...maybe not soon...but it will. I've been on both side of spreading rumors and being the subject of them, and it gets boring, so hang in there and ride the wave. And when you're confronting him...STAY CALM!! The absolute worst thing you can do is loose your temper in front of him. Then he knows that he really got to you and that gives him power.
Last, but not least, remember that this too will pass. School can suck so hard with all the popularity contests, cliques, rumors and gossip, etc. But it's only for a short time. It will fly by in no time (even if it may not seem that way whilst in the situation). Hold your head up, find something that you enjoy, don't react, confront the cause in person, and look toward the future. 98% of these people will never see you again after graduation, so why waste your energy?
In doing this, you will learn your true value, and that is the greatest thing you can do for yourself. If you don't care about you, you can't expect anyone else to.
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I've been having these really bad headaches that lasts a week sometimes a week and a half at a time no matter what kind of pain meds I take what should I do? (link)
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Sounds like migraines. I had them for a few months, my mother had them for years. Talk to your doctor! I didn't because I had no idea what was happening, so I suffered through it...no meds, nothing. There are plenty of things a doctor can tell/give you and if they continue it could be a symptom of something serious.
And if you're like me, and you hate going to the doctor, keep reminding yourself that a shot hurts for a few seconds...death lasts forever.
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my hair r dry and damaged.i hair loss problem also.presently using l'oreal colour vitaminos shampoo but giving me more of hair loss.PLS SUGGEEST.. (link)
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use better english, and maybe you could use a shampoo made for damaged and dry hair? go to a hairdresser/stylist, and ask them their opinion. Remember, you get what you pay for, and the more expensive shampoo's out there are usually better and more useful.
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i live in london (kingston), and i wanna leave my school at the end of year 11. i go to an all girls private, rich schhol, and i hate it. i wanna go to a normal, mixed school college. and i prefer a college, because i'm sick of being put in a sick institution where i have to wear a stupid uniform and do subjects i have like p.e. anyway. if you r thinking of kingston college, then don't bother, because i'm in a great posistion where i can really go to school anywhere in the uk as long as i don't have huge complications like going to ireland. also i only speak english. i'm planning to move to the US after college. the subjects i would like to do (although i'm flexible)include media studies (no previous gcse), economics and pyschology. i wanna work in media when im older and could use any tips at all. PLEASE don't be short if you have ANY advice. all i wana do is leave this stupid life behind, and i wanna make sur i do it. please, please help me. (link)
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i realise that this question has been here for a while. I say, what you do is stick to london to be honest. People VERY RARELY leave their city for college/sixth form. I have to go to another village an hour away from me. But...if you stay in london, you have a lot of variety, because its so big. If you go on the ofsted website, you can see which college is doing good in london? any more help? just ask :)
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I'm a new student at college, and I need a new laptop, but of course I don't have a lot of money. I was looking at some used ones online and the two that I've decided on are about the same when it comes to their condition and how new they are. Both are only a couple months old and both are in good condition. But I was wondering which one would be better for college. Here are the two I came across...
http://centralmich.craigslist.org/sys/1377873928.html
http://centralmich.craigslist.org/sys/1375132817.html
thanks for the help (: (link)
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the first website doesnt work...
but the second laptop seems quite good. 250gb, 2GB ram, good battery life. u'll be able to store alot of stuff with 250gb on it. The batter life is good too..a lot better than mine (1.5hours!!!)
the people are asking for around 450. but, i highly reccomend buying directly from dell (you have the dell gaurentee- anything goes wrong, and they will come to you to fix it, even a loose key!)
check this out:
http://www.dell.com/us/en/home/notebooks/laptop-inspiron-1545/pd.aspx?refid=laptop-inspiron-1545&s=dhs&cs=19&ref=lthp
for 399, you get 2GB ram, 160GB of storage space (still plenty), and you can customise it by picking a colour/design. also its cheaper
hope i helped :)
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Whats a good newish movie that will actually scare me? Ghost movies usually scare me and so do all the SAW and Hills Have Eyes movies. Please just tell of any good scary movies you've seen recently. (link)
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drag me to hell was quite scary...ive seen it, and everyone else that has says its scary too. its a bit boring at times..but them..BHAM...uve just s*** yourself :D
a friend also told me that Hostel was so scary, that she could'nt watch it, and switched it off, but i read some reviews and it doesnt sound all that amazing.
some other good ones:
the descent
28 days later
the orphanage
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What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
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My opinion is.... how long distance is it?
if its out of the state...than thats no good.
if its out of the country...absolutely no good.
but if its only like a 30 minute drive than thats ok. long distance relationship are meant to last longer because it is more special everytime u se each other. Its kinda bad with a person from the same school because..theres alot of gossip, rumors, people getting in the way, stuf like that.
trust me, long distance is alot more special and will last wayyy longer. :)
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im 14 yrs old and i have never had a girlfriend out even got my first kiss. I was wondering what is rong with me?? al my friends have and i havent i feel like such a geek (link)
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i hate to tell you this man, but its hard as hell to get a girlfriend.
im 15 and since i was 12, i was trying to get a gf. then i finally got one when i was 14.
but hey, listen, one thing i've learned is that getting a gf is HARD WORK. Most guys get one so easily, its becasue they are good looking, have six-pack, whatever. But if you dont have that, the it is hard.
hey im single right now, and im not happy at all. but when i did have a gf, it felt great, i feel like the happiest person on earth.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are just a guy. and trust me, its actually better to wait for girls to come to you. It WILL TAKE A WHILE, but it will happen eventually.
i hope i helped u man. Ask me if u hav anymore questions.
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I just can't stop having sex. It's awful. I seem to wake up every morning with a new woman in my bed. Sometimes more then one. I always use a condom, but the thing that bothers me is I'm homosexual. Why can't I stop having mad sex with women? (link)
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if you are having sex with women, then you are straight.
period.
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