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not such a good kisser..
my bf and i just started going out. his so cuute and sweet buut not really a good kisser like he opens his mouth too much and too wide and pretty much sticks his whole tounge in my mouth. what should i doooo? oohhh and i want to ask him to the christmas dance...its a turn around dance. i want it to be really cuute. any ideas?? thanks. :] 17/f
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I heard a cute "ask" recently - the girl put crime scene tape all over the boy's locker (could be a car if that applies) with a sign, "It would be a crime if you don't say yes"
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Hm, he will get better at kissing after practicing, but I was in your position before, and I know what it's like. Sit him down and say, "I'm gonna show you how I like to be kissed, then you show me what you like." Make it clear that you are going to lead, and he should just react to what you do and try to imitate it. Then lean in, kiss him softly and sweetly (or however you like it). After that, let him show you what he likes. Hope I helped.
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Well, there's nothin' you can do about the kissing thing unless you just flat out tell him. I really doubt you'd wanna do that though.
As for asking him out, I had a friend(it was a guy asking a girl, but still) who did this & it was SO cute:
Hopefully he has a car or this is gonna be no help whatsoever. But go out and buy a TON of hershey's kisses and leave a trail going from his door to his car. Get one of those window markers & write "Now that I've kissed the ground you walk on, will you go to the dance with me?" on his car window. OR spend a ton of time spelling it out in hersheys. Then get a friend or call him yourself & tell him to look out his front door & follow the trail.
If your scared of him coming outside & seeing you, just get some friends to go to his house & distract him for you. That's what the person I know did & it worked out so good.
Haha, good luck!
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make it easy on him by letting him know slowly ho to kiss you. if you guys are alone and hes kissing you whisper to him kiss me slowly. tell him kiss me gently, caress my face or i like it when you... and so on. make him feel hes doing a good job but let him know your preferences. every one has them even him...ynever know you might be kissing him in ways he doesnt understand..he might b new to kissing and just plain and simple doesnt know how.but whatever you do . Do not rush or feel hopeless communication is # 1 in a relationship.I hope this helps
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If I was you I would tell him to close his eyes and let you kiss him without him kissing you back this is a suttle way of showing him how you like to be kissed and hopefully he will get what you are trying to show him without being offended. Hope this helps :)
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