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i have never had a gf
im 14 yrs old and i have never had a girlfriend out even got my first kiss. I was wondering what is rong with me?? al my friends have and i havent i feel like such a geek
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Kid, on another forum I frequent there are 27 year olds asking the exact same question. You've got a long, long way to go before there's actually something wrong with you.
If you hit 25, there's a problem. For now, just go with it and start telling every girl you see that you like her hair and see which ones smile when you say it. Talk to the ones that smile, and try to make them smile more.
A few short repetitions of this and the girl will smile just from seeing you. When this happens, start working up the nerve to ask her out.
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Nahh, you're completely normal (: I'm a girl, but first had my first boyfriend and kiss at 16 and I'm your typical normal teenager. You don't have anything to worry about. Just because your friends had girlfriends and first kisses and didn't wait for someone right doesn't mean YOU shouldn't wait for the right girl to come along :)
Hope I helped!
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There is nothing wrong with you, You are still young and you are only 14 years old. Just because your friends have had a girlfriends/boyfriends and received their first kiss does not mean you won't get yours. It's not a race, Your time will come just be patient.
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There's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with you. Give it time, it'll happen. You can't rush this shit.
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Good luck to you buddy.
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Take it easy- you are still very young; young enough where it is more than okay to be inexperienced with a lot of things. I know how much pressure there is on young people to do things within a specific time-frame (first kiss, first bf/gf, sex, etc., by certain ages). The truth is, there is no "right" time to experience a first anything- the only right time is whenever YOU are ready.
Do not think that there is anything wrong with you, or there is any reason why you have not had a girlfriend yet. A lot of girls at that age are insecure and look for certain things in guys; do not compare yourself to other guys (aka, the popular and/or athletic ones who seem to always get the girls)-- I am sure that you have a lot more to offer than some of them.
Be confident, and stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Try to get involved in school clubs, etc., that way you might have an easier time meeting people. If it happens, it will happen. You can not (or should not) force anything to happen. You will meet someone you like in time.
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Nothing's wrong with you. That's completely normal & completely okay. :)
You'll get a girlfriend eventually. No worries.
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i hate to tell you this man, but its hard as hell to get a girlfriend.
im 15 and since i was 12, i was trying to get a gf. then i finally got one when i was 14.
but hey, listen, one thing i've learned is that getting a gf is HARD WORK. Most guys get one so easily, its becasue they are good looking, have six-pack, whatever. But if you dont have that, the it is hard.
hey im single right now, and im not happy at all. but when i did have a gf, it felt great, i feel like the happiest person on earth.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are just a guy. and trust me, its actually better to wait for girls to come to you. It WILL TAKE A WHILE, but it will happen eventually.
i hope i helped u man. Ask me if u hav anymore questions.
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Hey there,
okay there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you so dont think that and definately don't think your a geek
your only 14 thats still pretty young,and just because your friends have gfs doesnt mean you should or are ready.
the time will come trust me, dont start dating for the wrong reasons. so many girls and guys go through this feeling I did too I didnt have my first proper bf/gf relationship until i was 15.
Im just gone 16 now so trust me your not alone and your totally normal.
please dont feel pressured and like you have to have a gf to have fun and be happy you don't really.
one will come when you least expect it,get talking to girls as friends even and it could devolop as more just stop thinking about it so much and start enjoying being young and doing what your supposed to do dont start worrying about relationships and stuff yet trust me when you get to 16 17 youl be wishing you didnt have a gf and all the stress and effort it takes.
I hope I helped and made some sense to you anymore questions please feel free to inbox me
much <3
Jess 16.F
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There are steps to getting this stuff right....
1: Find a girl you really like.
2: Sit near her table at lunch.
3: Ask your friends about her. (It'll help you pick up information about her that you might not have known before).
4: See if she has a facebook.
5: If your scared to talk to her face to face, go on facebook and talk to her.
tell me how it goes....my e-mail is aidanrtalcott@gmail.com
trust me on this....ive gone out with girls that ive never dreamed i would go out with....if you play your cards right, you can score anyone
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