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does he like me?


Question Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 10:52 pm

15/f
so there is this guy kody who has a girlfriend but he seems to flirt with me ALOT! and i really like him and i dont know what to do i mean im kind of friends with his girlfriend so i dont want to be mean and like flirt back - but i kind of do anyway, and it seems like he's always finding ways to talk to me and were in a class together and i always catch him looking at me and laughing at my jokes and stuff.
but idk what to do or if he is just actually being friendly any advice?
thanks :)


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AdviceMistress answered Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:06 am:
Well for one if you are kind of friendly witht he girlfriend I wouldn't flirt with him if I was you. Thats one of the rules in the girl world you don't flirt with a friend's guy! He may just friendly and this seems like a sticky situation if I were you I would look for another guy instead of worrying about this one. He maybe bad news and start some drama that you don't want.

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Raindrops812a answered Monday October 12 2009, 2:27 pm:
hii(: i know exactly what you mean. i liked this guy who still liked his ex which he told me. but still, he kept flirting with me which made me think that maybe i have a chance after all.
when i told him that i fancy him he once again told me that he still likes his ex. :/
and now im heartbroken :S
so to be honest, i think that he was just being friendly. cause 'my' guy also used to walk me to class & talked to me whenever he could, he even stroked my hair etc.
i just dont want you to get your hopes up, because in the end it could really hurt. so i'd wait until he's single.
i dont think that him & his gf will last forever if he actually DOES have feelings for you.
if you really wanna know you could just ask him, because then you know for sure (:
it's what I did & im glad i did it cause now i know where i stand.
but as i said, dont get your hopes up.
I hope i helped a little.
good luck!

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orphans answered Monday October 12 2009, 10:40 am:
Right now it feels innocent and fun but you are looking to take it to more. This is a problem.

If he's just a nice boy and you are misreading his friendliness, then you will look and feel like a loser if you turn it up (wow, can't believe she tried to steal her friend's bf).

If he is flirting with you and he is your friend's boyfriend, then he's a jerk....and you would be too if you respond.

Girlfriends stick together. How'd you like it if your friend was flirting with your boyfriend?

My advice: Stop flirting with him (you admit you like him and you can't help that if it shows so yes, you are flirting with him, clearly). Flirting is not a one way street very long...it takes two to keep it going.

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