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since 8 years i've bn misturbating or hving self pleauring by rubbing my virgina, i feel i lost my virinity due to this,i hv ruptured my hymen by doing this , does it happen? damn worried (link)
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Yes you can rupture your hymen by
masturbating. The majority of women
have ruptured the hymen in many ways
before they actually have sex with a man.
They are still considered virgins though.
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I am not ashamed to ask you that who to increase the length of the cork!!!! plzz help me out (link)
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The cork of what? Most corks expand when
soaked in water.
If you are using this as a euphemism for
your penis, well, they tend to grow as you
mature. There is no way to make them grow
faster or at all. You get what you get and
99 times out of 100 it is good as is.
It is normal for guys to think they are to
small, they aren't. Don't worry about it.
You will do fine. Trust me. :)
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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female... (link)
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You could be very right. Why did you break
up in the first place? Look there first.
If nothing has changed then don't even
think about it. Just tell him nothing has
changed and life is to short to keep making
the same ones over and over again.
If you have a guy who loves you and you
feel the same, don't mess it up. Just tell
the ex that you have moved on. Tell him you
are seeing someone, he doesn't need the details.
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theres this guy that i like, and he told me he doesnt like me..i accepted it. but he keeps telling people who dont even know me that i like him..why is he doing this? (link)
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Simple answer..Because he is an asshole.
I know you like him but he is. He either
thinks it is funny or he thinks it is
wonderful that he can turn girls away
because he is so wanted by them. There
are good guys out there. Keep looking.
You'll find him. :)
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okay so like im usually like insanely comfortable with guys. like i can kiss them and hook up and whatever but like its weird when it comes to like anything more. im usually up for anything, like i always feel fine saying ill do stuff with a guy and ill be so comfortable with him and totally game for doing stuff but then literally at the last second i stop him and i dont know why. like i always get mad at myself for not letting it happen. how do like i get over that? (link)
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Since one can get a sexually transmitted
disease from any number of "sex acts" short
of getting laid, they are still considered sex
by the majority.
I know teens and Bill Clinton
would like to THINK otherwise so they feel
pure and innocent, but if you are of an age
to do these things, you should be old
enough to face the reality of what you're
doing. I'm not even saying these things are
wrong, just that being honest about it is
an important step toward maturity.
That being said, you are not ready. I know
you want to do these things but something
is telling you no. Listen to that something.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to wait
until you are REALLY ready for it. Its
an intimate act that means more than just
a kiss. You don't do it with just any guy.
It means if a break up comes along one day,
you get hurt more. You're more intimately
involved after all.
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my dog doesnt like eating dog food
so wat can i feed her instead of dog food (link)
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You need to feed her dog food. She
may not believe it but she is a dog
and it is full of all the things a
dog needs to be healthy. People food
will make her fat and lazy. So avoid
giving her people food and she will
get the message...and hungry enough
to eat that dog food.
Oh and if she doesn't eat for a couple
of days at first that's ok. Make sure
she has water and she will eventually
eat it. :)
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I'm a 26 year old male would-be author who hasn't been able to find work in the year since he graduated, nor got his book that he worked on published.
I feel like a drain on my family, friends, love life and so on.
I feel like a failure in every sense of the word. And I feel as if I lost faith in so many things, mostly myself, and that my life has run its course as far as mattering goes.
How can I regain my will to try, to persist, to basically live? (link)
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Don't lower your expectations about a novel.
However, think smaller to get your name out
there where it can't be ignored.
Blog, write short stories and articles for
magazines while continuing to submit your
novel. You will get there if you don't give
up. Just multitask some. :)
You are not a failure. Your chosen profession
just has big competition. Takes longer to
achieve the ultimate goal.
Good luck.
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Has anyone else noticed that questions are the same? I mean I love this site, but latly i've been getting bored because every question is the same!! It bothers me. Like 13 year olds talking about boyfriends, friends, and sex. It's like how difficult is your life at 13?! Anyone else feel the same? ANd how can i make this site more interesting for me? (link)
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Teens have been asking the same questions
here forever. Its whats important to them.
While it sometimes drives those of us who
have already been there and done that bonkers,
there are always others of the same age, new
to the site, going through the same things,
who are more than willing to answer those
questions.
L1 moderators who go to the forum will
find a thread filled with links of more complicated
and different real problem
questions. Unfortunatley, though people
complain about the questions on the site,
it hasn't helped a lot in getting them tons
of answers.Why? Because most young teens
don't have the life experience to answer
anything more complicated than the questions
your talking about :)
Thats not a bad thing, just a fact.
If you want to make the site more
interesting for yourself, ask good
questions and give good answers. By
good I mean honesty without rudeness.
Not butt kissing I want a good rating
answers. The site is bout helping
others, regardless of question subject. :)
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My husband and I attended the wedding of two dear friends. The groom's mother, "Millie," made party favors for all the guests -- little gift bags containing sugar-coated almonds and, because the bride and groom are animal lovers, a small glass animal. A few days later, a friend brought her teenage daughter to our home. The daughter admired the two glass animals, so I gave them to her.
I was shocked when, the following weekend, Millie called and asked me to return them. She said she planned to take them back because she would prefer to use the money to buy the couple something they could use. Feeling guilty for "regifting," I responded with the first thing that popped into my head, that I hoped I hadn't "misplaced" them. Millie said she hoped not, too -- they had cost $35 apiece, and she would expect us to reimburse her! Further, we should not mention it to the "happy couple" because of the embarrassment it would cause.
I asked the bride's sister where Millie might have bought the glass figurines under the guise of wanting to get some as gifts for my grad students. I was stunned when she responded that she had purchased an entire case of these inexpensive animals as wedding favors, and that I was welcome to them if I wanted to pick them up from her home.
I'm unclear what motivated Millie to ask for the animals to be returned, or why she would inflate the price and expect to be reimbursed. I understand there was an unpleasant power struggle over the wedding arrangements, but I'm not sure what she hopes to gain from this.
How should this be handled? My husband says I should tell Millie the truth, that we gave them away and we know they cost only 80 cents apiece. What do you say? (link)
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I'd go for the truth too. Tell her the whole
story. How you gave them to a child who admired
them, how you attempted to buy new ones, and
how you didn't bother since they were only the
cheap party favors you took them for. Nicely,
of course. :)
I see no reason for you to feel guilty or
try to spare the feelings of one who is trying
to take you for some extra cash in her pocket.
Gifting and then trying to take those gifts
back at a profit is much worse than giving
them to a child who admired them.
The happy couple would probably be greatly
embarrassed by her request. Wow.
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well this kid i know snorts oxycotin, and i really dont know about that drug. can he die from it? (link)
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Sure he can. Doesn't matter the drug, if
it isn't given to you by a doctor you can
die from it. Because as you get used to it,
it takes more and more to have an affect on
you until you are taking WAY over the recommended dosage.
I have seen many people legitamatley use the
Oxy drugs have side affects & die. Most from
severe bowel obstructions. Very unpleasant.
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I'm a teenager. I am thinking about applying for a job at McAlister's Deli. This will be my first job, so I'd like a little advice. I can work pretty much any day of the week except for Mondays, and I'm a "good kid." However, my family is going on vacation for a week over spring break. How do employers generally handle that? How should I approach the situation? Would this make them not hire me? Should I wait until after spring break to apply? Thank you! (link)
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Usually, if you let them know you can't
work that week due to already having a
vacation scheduled, they are OK with it.
When you have your interview, or are hired,
tell them you can work any day but Mondays,
but you do already have a family vacation
scheduled for these days and will be
unavailable that week only.
It shouldn't have any affect on your being
hired. I wouldn't wait to apply. The job may
be gone if you do. Just apply and let them
know. They will work with you if they need help.
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My dad got prescribed this for pain from a cracked rib. I looked it up online and it supposedly kills hundreds of people every year because it poisens you. Does anybody know anymore information about this? I dont want my dad to die.. apparently this is like the worst drug ever. Has anybody here ever taken it? I really appreciate a quick response. (link)
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This is a generic brand of Darvon or Darvocet,
both are narcotic drugs. What that means
basically is that taken over long periods of
time, they can become addictive and abused.
THAT is where the problems come in.
So long as your dad takes it only as directed
he will be fine. I don't think his doctor
will have him on them long for cracked ribs.
All drugs have the potential to be abused, of
course, but they have their purpose and
sometimes a person has to take them despite
the risks.
Cracked ribs are very painful! They move just
by simply breathing. So dad needs some pain relief. They heal pretty quickly though so I doubt he will have any problems. Most of those
who get into trouble have long term need to
take the drug, like back problems. :)
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Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?! (link)
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Don't worry about it! You're fine. If you were
bad at it you would have been told so by others.
The random guy you kissed is an ass. He's
one of those nobody is as good as me types.
Either that or he expected you to chase him
down because he was so great and you didn't,
and he got mad types. Either way he is a jerk.
YOU are fine. :)
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ok so my bf and I have been togethr since xmas eve. well he doesn't really treat me like a gf. like it seems like were just friends. we've only held hands like once.and he hugs me hello and goodbye. we haven't had our 1st kiss yet. (but im not rushing that). I tried talking to him about treating me like a girlfriend.and it didn't really do anything.he's always talking to other girls and it makes me jealous. so yes I also have a jealousy problem.and im pretty sure the last 2 days he went to lunch with this girl. that's his friend. but it makes me mad cause he nos it makes me mad! and he started actng really immature like goofy aftr we started going out.my mom said its probably cause he doesn't know how 2 act. well my question is what can I do to make him treat me more like a real girlfriend. and how can I get over my jealousy problem? thankyou in advance (link)
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Being friends is the most important part of any
good relationship. So that's not really a bad
thing for him to treat you like just a friend.
As your mom said he may not exactly know how to
act. You don't mention your ages, but its not
uncommon.
Being jealous can make you miserable! It
is normal to feel jealous. Just don't act
like you are. If he ate lunch with this girl
who is his friend BEFORE you started going
out with him, its nothing more now than it
was then. Remember that. He wasn't dating
her then, and that hasn't changed.
He will learn how to "date" by what you do.
Sit with him at lunch, hang around him when
you get a chance. :)
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I haven't written in a while... I'm still slowly moving on.. I'll say something stupid to him every 2 1/2 weeks.. then I go another 2 1/2 weeks and stuff...yesterday was the 2 1/2 week mark or whatever...but I won't talk to him...no need to. I had a dream 2 nights ago it was people like his father and some girl (perhaps future girlfriend of his) telling me I need to leave him alone.. it was weird. I'm making 09 not about him, but I'm scared for the 12th since it will be 2 years knowing him..I'm trying not to think about it.
But my real question is.. early Nov I was hanging with 2 friends and my sister came home and she was all bitchy then they left, then I didn't want to go in the house and deal with my sister so I stayed outside and called one of my friends whomn I known 2 1/2 years and we are like each other's body guard we have deep talks and have mini fights..and were always there for each other and he was acting stupid and getting me to laugh and shit (almost like how I used to call the other one...) and for a split second I saw myself falling for him.. but I tried to brush it off.. then it was on the back burner then tonight I was talking to him..and it seemed that I was really falling for him.. he never had a girlfriend or really liked anyone..and yet again I don't want to mess up another friendship but I know it wouldn't be like the other one...he handles problems differently..I want to be open and tell him..but it's been so long since I've been in this situation.. how do I tell him...everything feels so weird in me.. I'm starting to like him..and I don't know what to do. -_- (link)
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Glad you're making 09 not about him!
Make it all about you!
I think if you like this guy, it can't hurt
to find out if he feels the same. He is not
seeing anyone so he should be able to be
honest about how he feels. Maybe say it in
a teasing manner to see what he says about it.
Like if he says something sweet, say something
like "I could really fall for you if you keep
this up!" See how he takes it. :)
If he doesn't sound interested, just forget
it and carry on as you are for now.
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Our mutual "friends" apparently told her bad things about me, like, how I am "controlling" and yell at any other girl he talks to and other things apparently. I am not okay with this. Is there a way I can approach her about this? Through a letter? In person?
I will see her Wednesday (today is Monday) at a wrestling match. Her son (my boyfriend) is one of the star wrestlers and I am the manager. What can I do? Please help me. We have been dating on and off for the last 4 years. 16/f (link)
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First of all are you all thee things you
are being accused of being? If not you
will have to spend some time around her so
she can see for herself you are not.
If you are controlling and you do yell
at other girls who talk to him etc. You
will have to work on improving those things.
Otherwise, what they say is true and nobody
wants their son (or daughter)dating someone
with that attitude.
The only one who can really get through
to her would be her son. Your boyfriend will
have to stick up for you and do the talking
to her. If you do it, it may look like you
are indeed controlling things.
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So I spent the whole of last week snowboarding. Because I'm a person who just goes for things and doesn't think about the consequences, I decided to buy a helmet. I was practicing jumps and I intended to keep my head safe, because I'd already hurt it a few times.
I saw my friend at the end of the week, and she looked at my helmet and said ''God, you're such a pussy. Only amateurs wear helmets''
I personally thought that wanting to keep myself safe doesn't make me a ''pussy'' nor an amateur. Or am I just over-reacting?
What are your thoughts on this? (link)
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Actually only amateurs DON'T wear helmets!
You won't see a pro snowboarder without a
helmet. So next time you tell your friend
that.
You are not a pussy at all. I have worked
in an emergency room, I can tell you from
experience that if a head injury doesn't
kill you, it can mess up your brain big
time. So don't go without the helmet.
Just laugh next time and tell your friend
you will hold his/her drool bucket for
them when they suffer a head injury.
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I have a six year old dog, who is refusing to eat, she is barely drinking. She will not walk on her own, as her body is very weak. She is vomiting, and has thrown up blood. She will randomly shake, and she is loosing weight only in her neck area, and legs. Yet, she has not shown any sign of pain.
Can anyone tell me what may be wrong with her, or even what would cause these things? (link)
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I agree with DN that your dog desperately
needs to see a vet. I had a dog something
similar happened to. He didn't vomit blood,
he didn't vomit anything though he tried to.
As it turned out he had twisted intestines.
Something they said was common in dogs like
him. They also looked for something blocking
his intestines. They said chew toys were a
common cause though he'd had none of those.
Please, take your pet to a vet soon!
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I am married and have been having an affair with a married woman. I am a complete fool as I fell in love with her. She repeatedly spoke to other men whilst with me and admitted she did. She also has a very dubious past, as she possibly worked as prostitute in her homeland. She worked in showbiz and admitted she had taken certain'steps' to ensure the furtherment of her career. I know I do not have a leg to stand on morally. The affair has ended as she claimed she had found God. She has done this in the past but always seems to find other men to speak to. I know she is is contact with another man at this time but do not know what has happened between them. Should I tell her husband? My motivation is revenge, and I know it`s wrong. I am thinking of commiting suicide, as I cannot let go of her. Iam so deeply in love with her. I have tried it in the past but was unsucessful. I pray to God each day to end my life as I cannot bear to be without her. I accepted the end of the affair, but begged her to at least let me text her once a month, but she went back on her word and this has left me desperate. I know I`m in the wrong as well here but what should I do? I`m lucky to have a loving wife, but I do not deserve her. If I tell her husband I will have to tell mY wife and she will leave me. The only thought that gives me any peace or solace is the thought of suicide. I cannot bear to live a moment longer. I am 32 but have high BP and have been very ill of late. I mentioned this to her (not to get sympathy) but to finally establish whether she cared or not. She said she was busy and did not want to talk and this told me all I needed to know, depste her always claiming she loved me. I just want to die. I am a worthless human being with nothing to offer anybody so what is the point of going on? I really wanna know whther I should tell her husband as well, though I know this will end her marriage. This is wrong is`nt it. I kow she won`t shed a tear if I left the world. I just cannot go on. (link)
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No. you shouldn't kill yourself. You do
need to wake up and get on with your life.
You don't tell her husband a thing. It
would only hurt him and I think you have done
enough of that already.
If she is the skank you describe he already
knows and lives with it, or he will find out
sooner or later on his own. To be honest, you
are no better than she is, and no less guilty. Don't make matters worse.
You need to forget her. She has moved on to
other guys. She does not love you, she does
not even care for you. She treats you as
she has probably treated other men for years.
She is not worth your time or energy. Do not
have any further contact with this woman. You
WILL get over it.
Now, you confess what you did to that lady
who married you and trusted you. If you are
lucky and you want to work it out, She may
forgive you. You need to go get tested for
STDs. Condom wearer or not get tested. This
woman you were with has been around. You try
and be a good husband. Work on your marriage.
I have to believe you still have some feelings
for your wife or you wouldn't be worried about
her finding out.
You made a mistake. Learn from it. Love isn't
fucking some woman who don't give a shit about
you at all. Get over it and move on with your life. I have an inbox if you want help with it
all.
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16/f
** sorry this might be a little graphic **
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months now and we are going pretty good. actually very good. We have been talking about doing some sexual things, but not sex. because we are both not ready and both want to wait. He is the first guy for me to do anything with and i am the first girl he has done anything with. my problem is that I am not a very sexually active girl... I dont like wearing tampons or fingering myself. so basically i'm not very comfortable sticking something "up there". (i have not told him this because i think it is too embarassing) there was a couple of times when i let him "finger" me but it was only like his finger pad. so one of my questions is.... how do i get more comfortable with something "up there"??? another thing is that i have touched his dick and it was my first time and it was really weird. I didn't see anything because his pants were on, but it felt weird. I need advice on like how to give a hj and how to give a bj. and also just some supportive guidance on all of this "first time" stuff.
PLEASE no links. and in case you have forgotten, we dont want to have sex so please no tips or advice on sex. just the other stuff.
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!
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We aren't supposed to be giving information
on how to do sex acts on the site. Its always
a better idea to learn those things with the
significant other.
We can however let you know that you still
need to protect yourself. Use condoms because
you can still get an STD from oral sex. Yes,
oral sex and hand jobs are still considered
sex to most of the population. If there is
a penis and/or a vagina involved it is sex.
Just relax and don't worry about being an
expert. You'll learn with practice.
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