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Miss meee? :)


Question Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 2:33 am

I haven't written in a while... I'm still slowly moving on.. I'll say something stupid to him every 2 1/2 weeks.. then I go another 2 1/2 weeks and stuff...yesterday was the 2 1/2 week mark or whatever...but I won't talk to him...no need to. I had a dream 2 nights ago it was people like his father and some girl (perhaps future girlfriend of his) telling me I need to leave him alone.. it was weird. I'm making 09 not about him, but I'm scared for the 12th since it will be 2 years knowing him..I'm trying not to think about it.
But my real question is.. early Nov I was hanging with 2 friends and my sister came home and she was all bitchy then they left, then I didn't want to go in the house and deal with my sister so I stayed outside and called one of my friends whomn I known 2 1/2 years and we are like each other's body guard we have deep talks and have mini fights..and were always there for each other and he was acting stupid and getting me to laugh and shit (almost like how I used to call the other one...) and for a split second I saw myself falling for him.. but I tried to brush it off.. then it was on the back burner then tonight I was talking to him..and it seemed that I was really falling for him.. he never had a girlfriend or really liked anyone..and yet again I don't want to mess up another friendship but I know it wouldn't be like the other one...he handles problems differently..I want to be open and tell him..but it's been so long since I've been in this situation.. how do I tell him...everything feels so weird in me.. I'm starting to like him..and I don't know what to do. -_-


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karenR answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 7:41 am:
Glad you're making 09 not about him!
Make it all about you!

I think if you like this guy, it can't hurt
to find out if he feels the same. He is not
seeing anyone so he should be able to be
honest about how he feels. Maybe say it in
a teasing manner to see what he says about it.
Like if he says something sweet, say something
like "I could really fall for you if you keep
this up!" See how he takes it. :)

If he doesn't sound interested, just forget
it and carry on as you are for now.

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